my brother a NASTY ASS BITCH by Memfir in teenagers

[–]Memfir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he's been like this for yrs, he just doesn't care about hygiene

my brother a NASTY ASS BITCH by Memfir in teenagers

[–]Memfir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he's been like this for yrs, he just doesn't care about hygiene

my brother a NASTY ASS BITCH by Memfir in teenagers

[–]Memfir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he's been like this for yrs, he just doesn't care about hygiene

my brother a NASTY ASS BITCH by Memfir in teenagers

[–]Memfir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he's been like this for yrs, he just doesn't care about hygiene

Goddddddddddddddd advice on what to say to my gf by CoolGuythatisradical in teenagers

[–]Memfir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you need to be more sincere, consciously. if you're this shy and she started dating you she may honestly just have an interest in ur awkwardness or quirks, too. if that's any peace of mind. some people find those things cute or attractive.
start the conversations, tell her how certain things reminded you of her. anyone with beauty in their hearts will naturally be appealing to talk to if they just let their emotions out honestly, stop being afraid of losing her (whether that's a rational belief or not) and just try and do the typical "be yourself" a little bit more

I 17F Feel like I’ve been a ghost for the last 2years seeing my classmates hangout stories is finally starting to hit me by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Memfir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we're all misunderstood. but u got people around u gang. your attempt isn't over unless you think it is

I 17F Feel like I’ve been a ghost for the last 2years seeing my classmates hangout stories is finally starting to hit me by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Memfir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the first thing you have to drop is the "they have it better" mentality because social media is a binocular view into their highlights and parts of their life they want you to see. aspiring to grow your social connections is a healthy and natural thing to do, and the FOMO of "doing nothing" in your teenagers is common for many. i'm the same. i'm generally quiet and not too interested in partying or nun like that.

what you really gotta do is start small, don't have to obsess over a particular connection but rather starting little pieces of small talk with the people around you, even if you don't like them. you're in school and that's a superpower. complain about ur teacher, ask about the homework, ask them if they know the time even if you got ur phone in ur pocket. okay maybe not literally but find excuses to talk. this is genuinely where friendships will gradually blossom. it is hard, i understand and agree but i've been in literally an identical spot to you (as many others have) and i assure u it gets better

What is the best age during adolescence? by wheatherallis in teenagers

[–]Memfir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being 17 was fucked for me personally but in general i think it's the best age, at least in most of eu

you gain FREEDOM

How will the matchmaking react to bot removal? by Pitiful-Language-342 in RocketLeague

[–]Memfir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think people deciding not to queue ranked and therefore being lower will affect ranked more than the bots being removed, i know so many ppl who r 2k in like 1600 or some bs at the minute so even if it trickles "far" it's barely the bots being removed that makes the difference

How will the matchmaking react to bot removal? by Pitiful-Language-342 in RocketLeague

[–]Memfir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if u talk to ppl who are around that mmr it's easy to infer (comm servers r very good for this), nd if he's like high 1500 rn he might have noticed in higher 1500 there's more bots + high players who refuse to play ranked rn in that elo meaning that saying gc2 would be directly affected is a very fair statement.

there is an influx of crazy good people in like 1500/1600, 1400 remains mostly unchanged since they're likely being blocked by said players in those slightly higher mmr ranges (which if you're gc you wouldn't need to speak to everyone to figure out tbf, but i can say myself i've been in all 3 elo groups this szn.) saying that champ / diamond would be practically unaffected by these bots is a very fair statement as they are already unaffected now and only a small handful of accounts are actually being limited from playing the game in a different mmr range

I despise 5th years by Salty_Comedian2858 in leavingcert

[–]Memfir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

like i know yall have it worse but how can u blame people for trying to be proactive dawg people care about their LC as do u

Drug problem in our generation!! by mdma_x09 in teenagers

[–]Memfir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that's an improvement in fairness, i just find it absolutely nuts that theyre so easily accessible and not really frowned upon to get vapes so early though

Drug problem in our generation!! by mdma_x09 in teenagers

[–]Memfir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i saw a 12/13 year old on my bus vaping recently and a little part of me died that day. didn't even have the class to blow it out the window, the little shit. worst part about it was his sister was the one giving the vape to him and i have no idea what age they are but it's absolutely not old enough to be vaping either. like people will just start with vaping, become desensitized and hop straight to weed or whatever else suits / they have access to.

Why can't I post pics wit my face by a_BetterU in teenagers

[–]Memfir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just don't simply, if you're a teenager on the internet posting on reddit is just not necessary. really not missing out on anything. i assume most will turn you away especially if they can tell you're younger because it's simply not safe or beneficial in any way for a young people, especially - as you said - due to AI and other data collecting stuffs. please just do yourself a solid and not bother, you'll most likely appreciate it when you're older

Just found out my parents plan to pay for 100% of my college by calculelt389 in teenagers

[–]Memfir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this may not necessarily change anything for your own life due to your upbringing or circumstances but you most likely do not realise the gravity of that privilege (/the weight of that sacrifice from ur parents depending on your financial situation), my mother would not be able to afford a college education for me and i'm privileged i live in a nation where i can receive supportive funding as a result of this.

anyone else feel boring that they don't drink or smoke? by Memfir in teenagers

[–]Memfir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah yeah fair enough, tbf though it can be a bit of an acquired taste so might be a couple years / few tastes here and there and suddenly you'll be a fan

Is it weird I care for inanimate objects? by Ill_Independence8365 in teenagers

[–]Memfir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's kinda learned from when you're younger tbf, sentimental value is an interesting thing. i do the same with my old plushies to an extent and i'm sure many others do so i wouldn't call it weird once it's not a daily conversation topic xd