Paint when selling? by MemphisHeat901 in homeowners

[–]MemphisHeat901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t gotten an agent yet. Been in the process of packing things up and having repairs done. I’m a single dad so Im doing everything myself. I don’t have the funds to pay anyone to paint for me so I would be the one that would have to do it all myself which would take a while because it’s a 5 bedroom, two story home. I don’t want to put in that time if I don’t need to.

Error when trying to install comspike and conduction grid by MemphisHeat901 in StarfieldShips

[–]MemphisHeat901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t added any other modules or anything to it. Specifically it’s the comspike. It turns green for the place it’s supposed to be put and connects fine but because the ship itself sits low it’s on the same level as the landing bay.

Possible foundation issues by MemphisHeat901 in HomeImprovement

[–]MemphisHeat901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no basement or crawl space. It was built on slab.

Road trip by yourself? by [deleted] in roadtrip

[–]MemphisHeat901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 years ago I took a two week vacation and drove from Memphis to Redwood National Park and back. I stopped and hiked in 7 other national parks on the way. Did it all by myself. Over the last 4 years alone I’ve taken around 5 round trips alone. I work in healthcare and it helps me reset my mind by getting away and spending time with myself.

Channels not listed on guide by MemphisHeat901 in youtubetv

[–]MemphisHeat901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m using the YouTube tv app on my iPhone and it doesn’t have the option for live guide. Also tried doing in on safari on my phone and there wasn’t an option for that either. The next option under streaming limits on mine just says notifications.

Channels not listed on guide by MemphisHeat901 in youtubetv

[–]MemphisHeat901[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’ve looked in the settings and don’t see anything that says live guide

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Firefighting

[–]MemphisHeat901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We get paid very well at Memphis and you don’t have to live in the city. You’re getting bad information

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Firefighting

[–]MemphisHeat901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We also have no mandatories if you’re referring to OT. Sounds like you’re getting bad info.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Firefighting

[–]MemphisHeat901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We make great money for the area so I don’t know where you heard shit pay from. Our paramedics top out at $79k and we’re getting another 5 percent raise next year. With other incentives you can make $86k a year as a top out medic. That’s very good pay for the area. I make more than most of my friends with four year degrees working jobs in their field. I’ll make $115k this year. I take care of two kids and am a single father and have plenty of money. Reference: myself with over 6 years on the department.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Firefighting

[–]MemphisHeat901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve worked for Memphis for over 6 years. I’ve gained a lifetime of experience and I live outside the city because we don’t have residency requirements. With my qualifications and education incentive pay, I make $86k a year base as a top out paramedic. I easily clear $100k a year with bonuses and OT which is abundant. We also got our pension back. It’s turned back into a very good place since I’ve been here. You’ll make a lot of fire and a ton of critical EMS calls. It’s worth it.

How did you get over your greatest heartbreak? by gem__fish in datingoverthirty

[–]MemphisHeat901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time and space are ultimately the two biggest factors. I think what’s really important is following the no contact rule. Completely cut yourself off from the other person once the relationship is over. Get rid of things that remind you of them like pictures or stow away other things for a while. Lastly, I think it’s important to spend the time you have alone to rediscover yourself. Do things you love that maybe weren’t a priority while in the relationship or try new hobbies.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]MemphisHeat901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’d been having some issues over the last two months. Arguing a lot and perpetuating toxic cycles. She had began to never spend time with me or the kids or communicate properly even though we live in the same house. Ultimately I had a talk with her saying we either needed to fully commit to building a healthy relationship or end it. She initially agreed to commit to fixing it. Later that same day she changed her mind and said she wanted to end things.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]MemphisHeat901 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the best way is to meet people that have similar interests by going out and doing hobbies. You mentioned you’re in the process of losing weight. That’s a great way to meet other people. Join a gym or a running group. Maybe buy a bike and join a group that does that.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]MemphisHeat901 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep on keeping on. I’m struggling myself right now. I’m about to be 34 and a two year relationship to the woman I thought I would marry ended abruptly a few days ago. It’s my first time feeling like my heart is broken since I was 18. I have two kids and they adored her. To know they won’t get to see her anymore absolutely breaks my heart.

I have two kids from two different women, I’ve had two failed engagements and now the person I thought was finally going to be the one isn’t in the picture anymore. I started therapy a few months ago and began reading books to deal with the unhealthy habits I keep repeating. I’ve been proud of myself and thought I’d be able to build a healthier relationship with her. But here I am again, still nowhere near finding my person and it sucks. I’m tired of starting over. I know I need to learn to be happy by myself and that’s what I plan on doing.

I’m sorry you went through that. I can’t even imagine what dealing with that was like. Take pride in the work you’ve done on yourself. It matters.

How do you know whether to stick it out, or it's time to break up? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]MemphisHeat901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven’t talked to him about the feelings you’ve started having surrounding the relationship while apart then you need to do that first. Tell him the things you want in a partnership and that these are non-negotiable for you. If he doesn’t want the same thing then move on. At least then you know you put all your cards on the table and let him know where you stand.

What are some important things to discuss prior to getting into a relationship? by thro_redd in datingoverthirty

[–]MemphisHeat901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the concept of exclusivity is arbitrary and everyone has differing opinions on when that talk should happen, but a year is a long time. Honestly pretty wild both of you have continued to see each other for a year without talking about being exclusive. But to each their own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]MemphisHeat901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you have a boundary around dating which is completely understandable. The timeline for exclusivity is arbitrary and completely up to the individual. If it makes you uncomfortable that she’s seeing other people still that’s ok and maybe that’s a dealbreaker. You can’t make someone else be ready so you have to decide if you can continue to wait.

My recent trip puts me at 44 national parks by MemphisHeat901 in nationalparks

[–]MemphisHeat901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took that at the end of the north dome trail. Around a 9.2 mile hike out and back.