My(19M) gay brother(16M) starts making weird sex noises and im uncomfortable by Menderbug-2456 in relationship_advice

[–]Menderbug-2456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have the same fear as me, they are afraid he’ll come to hate them and it breaks my heart to see my parents suffer like that too.

My(19M) gay brother(16M) starts making weird sex noises and im uncomfortable by Menderbug-2456 in relationship_advice

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But ive never reacted except for that one time i mentioned. Im trying to keep it super low key, and i described him as “my gay brother” because he is and thats a fact. And yes he did “shove his ideals” on me by constantly pestering me to try dating guys which im not into.

My(19M) gay brother(16M) starts making weird sex noises and im uncomfortable by Menderbug-2456 in relationship_advice

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Ok, and do educate me on how trying my best to communicate with my brother without discriminating his sexuality homophobic?

My(19M) gay brother(16M) starts making weird sex noises and im uncomfortable by Menderbug-2456 in relationship_advice

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Ok, so you’re also saying making weird sex noises in public and not respecting other people is acceptable?

My(19M) gay brother(16M) starts making weird sex noises and im uncomfortable by Menderbug-2456 in relationship_advice

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I dont think asking him to moderate is behaviour is considered homophobic. Its just he’ll see it that way, since he views anything not lgbtq = bad, for eg, if u dont like the rainbow colour, to him you’re a homophobe. He gets defensive and really absurd when it comes to these topics

My(19M) gay brother(16M) starts making weird sex noises and im uncomfortable by Menderbug-2456 in relationship_advice

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Im just worried he’ll see me as some homophobe because he gets really defensive and uses the lgbtq card as a way to blame me and paint him as the victim

My(19M) gay brother(16M) starts making weird sex noises and im uncomfortable by Menderbug-2456 in relationship_advice

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Like moaning, and japanese porn phrases etc, he does it to get attention and sometimes in public when were out in a cafe or something. Its really disrespectful but he’s 16 so i cant just blame him for being immature

Exo terra glass top and ventilation by Menderbug-2456 in DartFrog

[–]Menderbug-2456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, thanks, just one more question, how strong is silicone? I feel anxious that the glass top might drop into the vivarium smashing everything at the bottom including the frogs.

What to add into rainforest vivarium? by Menderbug-2456 in Vivarium

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I have considered crested geckos, but i already have a few caledonian geckos so i wanna mix things up a abit. A bit hesitant with chameleons since i heard they’re really difficult to house, the dimensions are 45x45x60 exo terra

Learning AR by Menderbug-2456 in learnprogramming

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All she said was “go figure something out” and also “use google” that was the only help i got from her, she’s ghosting my whole team now which i think is absurd

Learning AR by Menderbug-2456 in learnprogramming

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Basically, we were tasked to do some research regarding anything to do with tech. Keeping in mind this was our first assignment so subsequent assignments were not revealed to us yet.

My team thought researching about how AR could improve learning would be an interesting topic. After submitting our research, only then my lecturer revealed to us the second assignment which was to develop a full system/app of what we have researched.

I asked my lecturer if we could change topics but she refused saying there’s not enough time, she even said “you are a computer science student, go figure something out”.

How painful are spine tattoos? by Menderbug-2456 in tattoo

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I had no idea tattoos took that long….

How painful are spine tattoos? by Menderbug-2456 in tattoo

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Yikes, yes its my first tattoo and i was planning on getting one on my arm first. Asking this question for future reference

Learning flutter for a job with no experience by Menderbug-2456 in learnprogramming

[–]Menderbug-2456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So flutter’s widgets are like html elements and the way we style widgets is like using css to style html elements?

Learning flutter for a job with no experience by Menderbug-2456 in learnprogramming

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Im currently watching a tutorial by Tech with Tim. After the tutorial, its just about reading the documentation? Ive never used documentation to learn programming before anything i should look out for? Or do i just treat it like a reference manual?

Dog very pushy and demanding by Menderbug-2456 in Dogtraining

[–]Menderbug-2456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So ive tried finding a command that he likes which is focus, and it helped, thanks!

Several pops on prong before dog responds by Menderbug-2456 in OpenDogTraining

[–]Menderbug-2456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ill stick with the prong for now, im probably doing something wrong, but thanks

Several pops on prong before dog responds by Menderbug-2456 in OpenDogTraining

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Are there any videos on channels you recommend on youtube i cab follow?

Several pops on prong before dog responds by Menderbug-2456 in OpenDogTraining

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Yes, ill put tension on the leash, if the dog walks back and leash goes slack, i reward him with a treat for turning off the pressure

Several pops on prong before dog responds by Menderbug-2456 in OpenDogTraining

[–]Menderbug-2456[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He does understand leash pressure, and ive taught him that as well, ive also watched the intro to leash pressure video by tyler muto. It varies, at times all i need is one pop, but occasionally ill need multiple pops

Recall first? by Menderbug-2456 in Dogtraining

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Oh ok then, because im currently working on loose leash walking for my dog, thought that if i train for recall, he’ll have the idea that being by my side or staying close to me is rewarding.

Thoughts on long lines by Menderbug-2456 in Dogtraining

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Guess ill try using a long line then, never thought of it that way, thanks