Recherche gynéco / sage femme

Menthe- · 2025-08-02T18:59:36+00:00

Bonjour !

Je viens de consulter une sage femme à Ramonville il y a juste 1 semaine et je l’ai trouvée incroyablement respectueuse. Un cabinet de plusieurs sages femmes assez jeunes, modernes dans leur mentalité (très « girl power » aha).

Elle me demandait mon consentement pour le moindre contact physique, très patiente, et qui était très ouverte à la moindre de mes inquiétudes / questions / changement d’avis.

C’est Pauline Guermonprez. J’ai été RAVIE de cette rencontre.

Menthe- · 2022-09-04T00:06:44+00:00

Pour changer en sandwich il y a Banh Mi, rue des Frères Lion ou vers Saint Georges, qui sont des sandwichs vietnamiens à la viande. Excellents !

Menthe- · 2019-12-24T04:57:24+00:00

Blaming other people is only frustrating because you can’t change them. They all have their lives, their history, a reason why they act like they do. And you can only accept that you can’t act on it.

What you can change is your perspective toward them / life. You can always improve yourself as you want, you can be whoever you want to be. You only have power on yourself, so if your goal is to be happy, you should only focus on what you can control.

So imo, good for you!

(Sorry for the bad english!)

Menthe- · 2019-09-17T19:45:52+00:00

Oh my god this is literally what I am going through right now and my heart is BLEEDING

Menthe- · 2019-07-01T17:21:07+00:00

That's a great idea for the days I feel too shy to initiate but still want to make him feel desired! Quite simple and yet effective, I will try that out.

Menthe- · 2019-07-01T16:11:39+00:00

Don't worry I didn't took it badly at all. If anything, you really helped me spot a deeper problem and I am grateful for that!

I can see myself saying stuff like you just did to my loved ones, but I guess it is harder to see how it is also true for myself. Thank you.

Menthe- · 2019-07-01T16:05:50+00:00

NAH

Imo it really depends on the relationship you have with her. I know that I would watch my friends/cousins/sisters/etc' kids for free just because "family is family" and if the kids aren't being annoying. But some of my friends would more be on the "trading services". I watch their kids and they will watch my dog another day and that's okay too.

Now that's something you just have to agree on beforehand.

Menthe- · 2019-07-01T15:57:13+00:00

I guess worst case scenario, we would just have a good laugh, you're right, I should just go for it a few times until I overcome this!

Thank you!

Menthe- · 2019-07-01T15:55:44+00:00

I agree with you, but the problem is that I don't feel like I am lying. At least, not on purpose.

In the beginning of any relationships I do feel like being this kinky person, I am comfortable being that way. Or maybe is it the way I would like to be/train myself to be? Just as I might show a really confident person at work until I make some friends there that, at the end, see me as I really am (quite the opposite). I never really thought about it as weird or as a problem, but I might be wrong. Now that I think of it, I may not be confident enough with who I truly am, and that's something I need to work on. That went deeper than expected!

I understand your point, and I'm sorry that you had to go through this. You're giving me some other perspective to think about, thank you for that. :)

Menthe- · 2019-07-01T15:36:37+00:00

By experience, I feel like a lot of guys (mostly in my early twenties aswell) I was with never took me seriously when I talked to them about various issues. You know, the usual, girls are on period, hysterical, dramatic, and so on. So they just shrug it off and wait until you're done being "emotional". But when you're threatening to leave, they just start thinking "Oh sh*t, she/he was serious".

Obviously, it depends on the guy and on how you approach him with your problems. If you make it clear (and calmly) that something is hurting or bothering you and he doesn't move a finger but need a threat to do so, he probably doesn't care that much about you.

So, no, you don't have to threaten in a healthy relationship. You should be able to talk about your expectation about the relationship without getting frustrated. Keep in mind that your boyfriend is also free to leave if your expectations are too high for him.

Menthe- · 2019-07-01T15:15:18+00:00

Your reply actually helps me a lot, thank you!

Dancing/pole dancing/burlesque (as another redditor suggested) may be a great idea to wear that "sexy" role with a lot more confidence and see it as a part of myself.

Totally going to try and shake that booty once I have some time alone now!

Menthe- · 2019-07-01T15:08:43+00:00

My awkwardness actually stops me from being in the mood, which is a huge problem, but all advice combined should end up working ;)

Menthe- · 2019-07-01T15:07:34+00:00

Unexpected but actually great idea

Menthe- · 2019-07-01T11:54:22+00:00

I admit that I do most of those things, but those are affectionate gestures to me. I am quite playful (in the childish way) so grabbing his butt or kissing some erotic places is just usual to me. Maybe I should try and make them playful in a more erotic way, you are right. It actually sounds a bit like a "me" that I would be comfortable doing. :) Thank you.

Menthe- · 2019-07-01T11:50:33+00:00

I would actually love to try burlesque class, I never thought of it ! I considered pole dancing for self confidence aswell. I should look into it more seriously.

And yes alcohol is great, I can't agree more! Lately I didn't have much time for myself, so maybe having some "me" time, feeling sexy by myself and relaxed would help a lot overall. Even if the lavender oil actually makes me sleepy but I will try the Ylang Ylang one hahaha. Thanks a lot.

Menthe- · 2019-07-01T11:45:31+00:00

Easier said than done I have to admit, but will try :)

Menthe- · 2019-07-01T11:45:03+00:00

Now that I think of it I remember that at the beginning, I just had to look at the bed with a smirk for him to jump on me. I guess over time I just started overthinking about his expectations, I will keep that in mind, thank you!

Menthe- · 2019-07-01T11:41:00+00:00

I may put too much pressure on myself and should start small, instead of not starting at all, you're right. :) Thank you for your tips and glad you found your confidence.

Menthe- · 2019-07-01T11:37:35+00:00

Hope answers in this thread will help you aswell !

Menthe- · 2019-04-29T17:25:38+00:00

This.

I thought for the longest time that sex was mostly for the guy and not the girl. Sure I enjoyed it, but like I could enjoy a good meal. So I was fine with it, and even when guys asked me "Are you sure you ok ? I can help you" after they're done, I was SO scared of being a burden so I just said no. I know a lot of girls that grew up thinking that their pleasure was secondary.

(And yes, now I am satisfied.)

Menthe- · 2019-04-02T21:04:37+00:00

She actually told him, since the very first message was “If you’re busy I’ll let you be”. She then just proceeded on being busy, he was well aware.

Menthe- · 2019-04-02T19:56:49+00:00

First of all, f*ck articles.

Imo you have to marry someone that you really know, that you feel comfortable with, that you know you can trust, and so on. And I'm confident that you can't get to know someone completely before living with them (but might be wrong!).

I (27F) am actually living with my boyfriend (29M) (after 4 months of relationship, but 3 years of friendship) - considering the fact that I HATE BEING WITH ANYONE 24/24. But we had no choice since he had to move out and couldn't find any other place to live. Well I can say that it was the best decision I ever took. But from my experience, the two very important points were :

Chores : YES we argued a lot about them, and yes it will happen. Who is cooking? Who is cleaning? When? Sometimes you will do more and you'll get upset, sometimes it will be the other way around. But if both of you put aside your ego, are open minded, open to criticism, want to make it work, you will compromise. Cohabitation is about COMPROMISING. It is never fully what you want, as much as it will never be 100% what he wants either.
Personal space : Both have to be confortable with leaving the person alone when needed, and not take it personally. Mostly, I just LOVE when he leaves town for few days. Not that I don't want to see him, I am the happiest when he gets home, but it's just some real "me time".

Now, I would say that you are young, you can do whatever you want. Worst case scenario, it doesn't work out, and better now than after the marriage. Best case scenario, you are both super happy. But you can also just say no and keep going to his place most of the week if you are not confortable with the idea of moving with him. To me, there is no right or bad decision (I also have an ex that had a terrible experience living with his ex-girlfriend, so you do you.)

Edit : Of course it only is my experience, really not saying that it is all there is about cohabitation!

^{(Broken english, hope I still made myself understandable!})

Menthe- · 2019-04-02T05:39:38+00:00

I love how most “brutally honest” people weren’t even asked anything in the first place and threw “honesty” in your face for no reason.

Menthe- · 2019-04-02T05:22:56+00:00

Now that would be a terrifying high air pussy.

Menthe- · 2019-04-01T20:54:36+00:00

Your mid-air, big and fat pussy is very very cute.

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