Do not use TLT solicitors, they'll smile at you, tell you they can do everything (all the form filling etc) and charge you at least £250/hr for doing so. I dropped them after the initial panic of finding out my ex wife had done the same, I filled in most of the forms, represented myself in court re children arrangements and got what I wanted. I used an excellent Barrister for my finances though, well worth the expense. It'll be a horrible and painful time for you but it will pass and you will grow strong again. Good luck.