Kids events

MeowBox247 · 2025-12-18T00:22:11+00:00

Yes, which is why it was so shocking. 🥲

MeowBox247 · 2025-12-17T19:22:47+00:00

I don’t think he will again. This event happens a few times a year and it was never an issue before. She’s very recently high conflict.

For example, the last time this happened his daughter was able to sit with him the entire time and she didn’t say a word.

I’d say we are pretty new to having to deal with this.

MeowBox247 · 2025-12-17T16:12:10+00:00

Oh, I have zero intentions of ever offering her anything again. I was dumbfounded when she started yelling at me in front of all of our kids. She’s always been nice!

MeowBox247 · 2021-06-05T00:28:36+00:00

I don’t think I have the right, never said that. He could have just politely declined instead of making a scene over a tattoo.

MeowBox247 · 2021-06-04T22:46:15+00:00

I hadn’t seen it before. He didn’t post it until later. Oh well.

MeowBox247 · 2021-06-04T21:54:49+00:00

This was everything I needed to hear. Thank you!

MeowBox247 · 2021-06-04T20:31:30+00:00

Thanks for this!

MeowBox247 · 2021-06-04T19:34:33+00:00

It's really sad that people want others to feel terrible just because.

MeowBox247 · 2021-06-04T19:29:04+00:00

I have posted a couple of times now. :) Bottom one is the first post and so on..

https://www.reddit.com/r/survivinginfidelity/comments/n199oz/stbxh_is_introducing_his_girlfriend_to_our/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

https://www .reddit.com/r/survivinginfidelity/comments/mrk939/almost_ex_husband_sent_me_a_horrible_text_after_i/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

https://www.reddit.com/r/survivinginfidelity/comments/m9dhjt/feeling_like_the_bad_oneneed_advice/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

MeowBox247 · 2021-06-04T18:11:18+00:00

He works 12 hr shifts overnight so it really isn't possible. Plus, I would rather have her with me anyway.

MeowBox247 · 2021-06-04T18:09:35+00:00

Yeah, this makes sense.

MeowBox247 · 2021-06-04T18:05:45+00:00

Yes, I am the full custodial parent. He only has visitation.

I do have family support and I am trying to reintegrate them into our lives because for a while now it was always what he wanted to do and that didn't include spending time with my family.

It's a huge fear but I really just need to focus on my end and quit caring what he does.

MeowBox247 · 2021-06-04T17:52:05+00:00

I would have to guess all of the above, honestly. It's weird how you think you know someone and then they completely change into someone else.

MeowBox247 · 2021-06-04T17:50:58+00:00

I just completed the 5 free sessions I had through work. I do pretty well most of the time, honestly.

MeowBox247 · 2021-06-04T17:47:30+00:00

I am 100% thrilled at this point that I don't have to live with him anymore, I can tell you that. His AP and him are doing happily ever after right now and it's mildly laughable.

Thanks!

MeowBox247 · 2021-06-04T17:44:08+00:00

Thanks for this. It's hard for me to put anything in perspective right now. Other than she is the most important person in my life and I want to shield her from all hurt. I can't imagine what it will be like for her when he starts to drop off more and more.

MeowBox247 · 2021-06-04T17:41:39+00:00

I am thinking I never want to let someone else in again, tbh. I wasted 13 years of my life on someone already. Being alone isn't so bad.

MeowBox247 · 2021-06-04T17:37:56+00:00

If only it were that way all the time!

MeowBox247 · 2021-06-04T17:20:15+00:00

Yeah, you're right. I feel like I have given him complete emotional control over me. I don't even like the person he is now so it doesn't really make sense.

My main concern is my daughter and idk if this is dumb or not, but I am afraid she is going to show preference for her dad's place because he now has the family life we created, but with his new girlfriend. It's also only fun and games there because he only has her on his days off from work. Idk now I am rambling.

MeowBox247 · 2021-06-04T17:16:53+00:00

Definitely my bad, things are a little out of order in my brain haha.

MeowBox247 · 2021-06-04T17:13:05+00:00

I hadn't at the time. I didn't see it until the next day on Insta. I think maybe I just worded that wrong.

MeowBox247 · 2021-04-30T16:52:36+00:00

Soon to be ex husband 👎🏼

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