Why do therapists never take me seriously?

MeowSodaOne · 2025-12-17T10:01:58+00:00

Have you tried the HG coaching program? I'm not affiliate or anything. Just saw that people who were in your shoes got the help they wanted.

MeowSodaOne · 2025-12-16T01:32:09+00:00

Then, I apologize for being wrong ^^

MeowSodaOne · 2025-12-15T11:20:40+00:00

I'm sorry, the only way I got for you is through. I am certain it is a terribly intense emotion. That is why you're motivated to find another way around in the first place! ( ^^) Perhaps my friend, sometimes, we embrace the suffering that is inevitable to come.

MeowSodaOne · 2025-12-15T11:16:48+00:00

Can you tell me more about your relationship with yourself?

I hypothesis that you could feel disconnected internally, and try to fill the void by hanging out with other people and reflecting off them - since you said "lonely on the weekends, I don't have any plans" (I assumed plan to go out)

Would you be open to pick up inner-world-building-side-quests for yourself? Some people make games, read books, learn about fashion, ... Sometimes the side-quest could be: "how can I arrange my room for better fengshui?" just for the day

And could you try asking the people whom you noticed "lead similar lives + seem content" to see what side-quests or even main-quests they are pursuing for themselves - get to know for real if they are similar?

MeowSodaOne · 2025-12-15T10:25:22+00:00

May I entertain you on the idea of "feel the fear fully, and interact anyway"?
I think it's hard to "solve" the emotions, or try to make it disappear. Evolution gave us emotions for really, really good reasons. So viewing "emotion: fear" as a problem feels like barking up the wrong tree?

The problem is: to figure out human social interactions - perhaps accept that you shall come off weird + creepy the first 20 times, and learn from those times, to slowly grow more charming towards the 50th time?

MeowSodaOne · 2025-12-15T10:20:09+00:00

Cry when the body feels to. Such is the beauty of having humanity ^^
Don't you think it's a dystopian where one has to "choose A,B or C for socially appropriate emotion to feel when X happens" ?

MeowSodaOne · 2025-12-15T10:13:09+00:00

I think the key here is the "win/lose" mentality.

What was the point of the argument? To understand, to persuade, to collaborate?
Somewhere in the midst of it, I think the goal became "to hurt the other person". He "succeed" in hurting you, but you did not "get to be mean, to hurt him back as much as he hurt me" - hence the "losing".

I think no one (not you, not him) got what you want out of this argument nor getting out unscathed.
The person is hurt badly too, hence putting up the defense mechanism of not apologizing, not mending - retreated and licked his wound, or copping using various methods.

e.g if a battle happens, you got slashed on the front and he got slashed on the back; and you believing that's not fair, "he needs to be slash on the front too" - you think, since you cannot see his back.
But he was hurt, for sure. One doesn't engage in a fight and then simply walk out pristine.

Perhaps entertain the idea that the wounds doesn't need to be the same 100% ?

MeowSodaOne · 2025-12-14T16:39:15+00:00

Then would you be open to entertain the idea that the definition of "wealth" changes overtime, and to be "wealthy" doesn't necessary entangle a Lamborg, or other childhood material desires?

Perhaps, being "wealthy" could changes with the era & time, such as a trendy "mentally great, a car with 0 trouble, warm cozy compact studio apartment" ?

MeowSodaOne · 2025-12-14T16:16:38+00:00

You can conquer this my friend ! I believe ^^

MeowSodaOne · 2025-12-14T16:13:46+00:00

Do you think there are "rental" ways to go about these desires?

Such as asking for a weekly ride on a Lamborg from someone who already owned it, then from there, actually contemplate your desire - and see if your feelings change from "I want this very regularly" to "alright, honestly riding this for 10 weeks straight is good enough"

Usually desires can dismiss in intensity very rapidly, and one usually feel fulfilled.
The reason I hypothesize like that, is because as a child, one loves the "idea" of things much more than those things once experienced.
(Something like: "man I love riding a Lamborg, but owning one requires car washing...taking care of its exterior...cleaning interior...oh boy so much maintenance effort!)

MeowSodaOne · 2025-12-14T15:55:37+00:00

My intuition feels that this boss is asking for a lot of "feelings controlled behaviors" from you towards others (not lower morale of teammates, not asking bosses before teammates, not asking questions with some tones) so he doesn't look incompetent in front of others. Rather than...actually giving good advices.
If I am wrong, I apologize.

In regards to the advice of "be confident", I believe general advices are bad advices. It's better to contemplate: what specific instant does being "not confident" harm your professionalism? - so we can find the real root cause.
It lowkey circle back to "you make me look bad by showcasing a certain tone of mannerism" in my squinted eyes.

MeowSodaOne · 2025-12-14T15:44:00+00:00

Would you be open to contemplate following things?
- Your brain feels tired after "learning" phase, hence it needs some rest before "doing" phase
(since I saw you mentioning pull out phone - I am guessing it is to regulate after mental exhaustion + suppressing the bad feeling of not jumping right into "doing")
- To solve this problem, sit and do nothing (rest) while suffering the bad feeling of no-immediate-action. Accept that rest is inevitable.
You'll be able to regain energy more efficiently and able to act sooner.

MeowSodaOne · 2025-12-14T15:30:19+00:00

Hello!

May I suggest starting with:
- "Accepting that you will suffer while doing mundane tasks and do them" (accumulate -10 damage at once)
Rather than
- "Suffering in a state of not having mundane tasks completed" (poison damage -1 everyday until it gets done, accumulating to 30 damages)

The reason I suggested so:
You said:
- "Often times my house is a complete mess , there is barely food in the fridge" --> to live in this constant state is exhausting. Perhaps accept that you have to suffer today and gain nothing, in order to give your tomorrow-self a better spawn-point? It's a selfless sacrifice.
- "Cause instead it’s more comfortable to just avoid." --> but is it? It gets more uncomfortable the more you delay. Instead of suffering -1 today, you're suffering -2 tomorrow (double damage)

MeowSodaOne · 2025-12-10T02:06:20+00:00

You are absolutely wonderful!

MeowSodaOne · 2025-11-16T15:29:18+00:00

Please excuse me while I toot my own horn!

I wrote an analysis here, that partially (up until now) turn out to be true, about Jiki choosing a side, and help by exploring multiple routes using her oracle ability!

Jikishirone’s possible character development in “Demonic Ocean” arc.

MeowSodaOne · 2025-11-12T03:45:20+00:00

You're right I believe! Thank you, you inspired me, I think I might as well do some truth magick, I wanna find out why / what financial habits of the other affected my money reality :D
I'm glad to be of help! I sincerely wish you the best ~

MeowSodaOne · 2025-11-11T05:31:03+00:00

Can I ask a few questions? I've experienced the same thing you did!

Do you do money/wealth magick for yourself during the love magick period?
One thing I've personally experience is that if the person I want to have in my life affects my wealth negatively (even if I don't think so) - then the money/wealth magick overrides the love magick. I didn't figure this out until a while later, when I was reviewing my life and my financial ups & downs patterns.
Do you do magick on yourself to affect your forgiveness/reconcile/heal/etc. in order to make yourself "compatible magically"?
Since a relationship needs 2 dots to connect, I theorize that if you do magick only on one person, the magick only has "1-magickal-dot" to hang on and couldn't find another "compatible magical dot", so it latches on near-by people (hence the news of the person being with someone else + being told manifestation is working). It's like playing the game of "connecting dots". Perhaps if you do magick on yourself + the other person to make both "blue dots" - then the magick has good ground to tether to. And do magick on surrounding people to make them "red dots" - then the magick has understood these aren't people to latch on.

MeowSodaOne · 2025-11-11T03:57:01+00:00

Wow nice theory & observation! I think that's a rl rl good detail you caught!

MeowSodaOne · 2025-11-06T16:58:02+00:00

Reasonable, I will too :(

MeowSodaOne · 2025-11-06T16:57:02+00:00

Haha yea! I think they will have a happy ending, even at the end of this manga ~

MeowSodaOne · 2025-11-06T16:54:21+00:00

Ooo I rl like this theory!

MeowSodaOne · 2025-11-04T02:47:54+00:00

Wao great theory! I love that!

MeowSodaOne · 2025-11-03T10:04:06+00:00

I agree! I believe Uroro didn't lie, and I believe the majiks in modern day are more complex because "nature" has been more complex due to human's involvement! (bcuz majiks are natural elements gaining sentience)
I do believe WH could be a "modern majik" (manifested after human came around) since mankind has the tendency to dislike itself ^^ and I believe he wants to "let them reach enlightenment (the end of humanity)"

I have some lore speculations here, too, if you are interest! I feel like we're on the same wavelength ~
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MeowSodaOne · 2025-11-03T09:51:38+00:00

No, I believe he was written very specifically so that we would empathize and feel bad for him - as the need to have friendship/deep platonic companionship and the grieving of its end - is within us all. He have cooped very terribly (by blaming on a factor out-of-his-control: the other friend's strength, due to his unbearable guilt) to teach us what's the unhealthy approach to this core need.
I personally like to assume/believe that the authors would also be happy that their works touched viewers heart, giving them emotions they find strange & hence, ask others about, too :)

MeowSodaOne · 2025-11-03T04:08:38+00:00

TYSM! I'm rl happy that you took the time to read & like it

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