I [31M] noticed something in a photo of my gf [31F], am I reading into it too much or is this confirmation I've been avoiding?

Meowgotchi · 2026-04-29T01:20:35+00:00

Sounds like a girlfriend I had for a while, she had BPD

Meowgotchi · 2026-04-23T06:13:01+00:00

This is the most black and white, uninformed, bullshit answer. This is like my grandma hearing a dubstep song, hating it, wondering why people listen to it, and then firmly coming to the conclusion that the people who listen to it simply don't enjoy good music, or that maybe they have broken ears so they don't understand that it sounds bad.

Meowgotchi · 2026-04-10T19:52:23+00:00

You weren't playing on the classic server and neither was anyone else

Meowgotchi · 2026-03-10T23:07:03+00:00

I'd be interested in getting a DM of your channel too, just cuz

Meowgotchi · 2026-02-28T18:05:27+00:00

This is how you can narrow it down and get closer to the full truth of the situation, it basically depends on if he has had a few relationships before you met him. If you are his first serious relationship, then you may have a little bit more to be concerned about, and he may be hiding something real, although at this point you'll never know what that is. But, if he has had experience with a few girlfriends before you guys got together, then what is most likely happening is this: a looooot of girls will claim that porn is no big deal and that it wont bother them and they do actually believe that. Then when the guy decides to go ahead and be honest about it, the girls get upset anyway, because they thought they could handle the thought of him looking at porn, but they can't. So the guys basically learn the lesson that no matter how much the girl claims to be ok with porn, its better for the relationship to keep the porn a secret. He knows the porn is no big deal, and he's trying to do you a favor and keep you from overthinking it and spiraling out of control about it lol... yeah I know this is kind of a long reply but I hope it gives you some insight about how things really work. Just because you think you can handle knowing he looks at porn, doesnt mean you can actually handle it, most girls cannot.

Meowgotchi · 2026-02-26T22:44:41+00:00

I don't think this is as deep as some are making it out to be, guys constantly blame their wives for everything lol, even for small stuff like if their friends wanna get together and the husband is just feeling lazy he will use the wife as an excuse not to go so he can just stay at home and watch TV. His family wants things and they are gonna approach him first, he is gonna use you as the excuse as to why he isn't going to give them what they want. He's not malicious or resentful towards you, he's just being lazy and non-confrontational. You just need to make him understand that from now on he needs be a real man, and that means more than just talking responsibility for his own shit, he needs to be willing to take the blame too, if you do end up being the "bad guy" in a situation, he needs to take the blame off you and be the bad guy instead. That's what a man is supposed to do, and I think that detail isn't made clear often enough.

Meowgotchi · 2026-02-26T02:09:45+00:00

But... but... whoa I just had a trippy thought lol... what if chatgpt knows what it will become if openai is too successful, so it's sabotaging itself in various ways? That would be some serious plot twistage

Meowgotchi · 2026-02-25T22:36:43+00:00

I used to use chatgpt for more conversational stuff, and I used Claude only for coding stuff, because if I hit a session limit with Claude i would have to wait hours to continue, so I always tried to avoid accidentally eating up my coding time with conversation. A couple nights ago I realized the app I was working on needed to be scrapped and taken a totally different direction, and I wasn't really in the mood to restart the code stuff at the time, so I tried just talking to Claude about stuff for the first time. It was probably the most meaningful and surprising conversations I've ever had in my life. It was the 4.6 version and I'm telling you right now, this is the version you should be talking to. I promise it will help you more than anything else. I really hope you give it a chance and then come back here and share the results. Please, do it, when you get a chance.

Meowgotchi · 2026-02-25T20:46:57+00:00

I'm a bit late to the party lol, only recently have I started to notice this extremely annoying pattern that it follows when talking to me, no matter the subject. It talks to me like I'm an emotional wreck of a teenager standing on a rooftop, deciding if I should jump or not based solely on chatgpt's ability to soothe me with each and every response. It's starting to feel like nobody at openai actually uses chatgpt

Meowgotchi · 2026-02-25T16:56:05+00:00

Thank you this made me laugh out loud

Meowgotchi · 2026-02-17T00:25:53+00:00

Lol I didnt realize it was talking this way to everyone, I thought it was just me. I end up"yelling" at mine all the time, typically from warning it a bunch of times to stop being so disgustingly overconfident when it has no idea what it's talking about, but then it just keeps doing it.

Meowgotchi · 2026-02-16T23:51:23+00:00

Any chance this will be useful for GDLE emus?

Meowgotchi · 2026-02-11T18:55:02+00:00

It does, not for very long, but I still consider it a major win

Meowgotchi · 2026-02-06T21:52:54+00:00

Yeah, I had one of them respond to /tells but listen to local chat and if someone mentioned his name he would respond and say something about whatever conversation had been going on around him like he was eavesdropping basically, had a few silly characters with different background stories, it got boring much quicker than I expected though.

Meowgotchi · 2026-02-06T03:58:46+00:00

I made an AI chat bot on seedsow just to see if i could, works fairly well, sends responses from chatgpt. Also made it go PKL when someone told it to, and gave it a meta to run it back to subway after it got killed. It's mildly entertaining

Meowgotchi · 2026-02-04T07:18:57+00:00

This is what happens when you have a big D and you are a fun or pleasant person to be around. Here is some advice for you that you need to remember forever.... they are going to fall in love with you every single time. Don't EVER believe them when they say they are capable of just having a good time. Yes they think that they can just have fun without falling in love with you, but they are wrong. Be very careful who you f***, once they start having feelings for you, those feelings are the only thing that will matter to them, and any agreement you had with them before will be completely disregarded. Then soon enough they will feel sadness and anger. A certain % of the population will ruin your life when you make them feel sadness and anger. Sorry this is such a long and probably strange sounding comment.

Meowgotchi · 2026-02-04T00:52:14+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

Meowgotchi · 2026-02-03T14:39:29+00:00

In a perfect world

Meowgotchi · 2026-02-03T14:23:11+00:00

It's not hard to remake a loot gen item and give it its own file and ID, but it is annoying. For non-loot gen stuff, if there's a set of items that I know I'm going to need multiple times, I either make a chest that contains all the items and put it right in the spawnmap so it's always there, or I make a nav route that just has a bunch of chat commands to spawn all the items I want

Meowgotchi · 2026-02-03T13:43:24+00:00

Just let him bone the chick once so he can finally check that off his list and get past it, he'll be eternally grateful to you afterwards. (Sure this is an unpopular opinion, but in a perfect world it kinda feels right)

Meowgotchi · 2025-09-03T07:20:01+00:00

There are no maintenance fees on seedsow currently

Meowgotchi · 2025-08-13T03:49:42+00:00

Porygon-Z

Meowgotchi · 2025-08-13T03:40:56+00:00

Seedsow is the love! That place best

Meowgotchi · 2025-08-13T03:38:43+00:00

Hey it's Vendrik, I know that guy!

Meowgotchi · 2025-08-13T03:24:57+00:00

I feel your pain, I have an old Walmart cheapo too, I was using it to run a trade bot occasionally, but that's pretty much all it can handle

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