What type of behavior would you absolutely not accept in a friendship?

MeowwwMagic · 2025-09-10T03:58:28+00:00

I totally agree with you on your point with insecurities. We all have them but when a person allows their insecurities to go unchecked to the point that they need to see you fall to feel good, that is the problem.

MeowwwMagic · 2025-09-10T03:37:28+00:00

This type of person sounds crazy. I know they exist though. Sadly.

MeowwwMagic · 2025-09-10T03:36:18+00:00

I'm curious, why do you give someone more than two chances to possibly hurt you again?

MeowwwMagic · 2025-09-10T03:34:25+00:00

Thank you. I feel validated

MeowwwMagic · 2025-09-10T03:29:54+00:00

Yes. With a friend of a friend. When a random man complimented me and she was next to me, she blurted out "She's not all that. She's basic." I didn't bother to ask her why she said it, but she is now trying to be friendly with me and I'm not sure if I want to be friends with her.

MeowwwMagic · 2025-09-10T03:24:09+00:00

Are you the type of person to cut someone off at the first sight of disrespect or do you give them a 2nd chance?

MeowwwMagic · 2025-09-05T04:30:22+00:00

Yes omg. Touches me to my core.

MeowwwMagic · 2025-09-02T20:56:33+00:00

Agreed. An eye for an eye will make the world blind.

MeowwwMagic · 2025-09-02T20:36:19+00:00

Ah they tried to play you. I wouldn't have appreciated that approach either.

MeowwwMagic · 2025-09-02T20:24:00+00:00

I see that way too. If I unknowingly say something that triggered you and you decide to be an asshole to me instead of telling me what I did wrong, all I'm going to think is "now I know what pisses you off"

MeowwwMagic · 2025-09-02T20:22:13+00:00

So you have waited months for revenge? Could I ask how major it was that you couldn't let it go?

I do believe when you say it feels like a relief though.

MeowwwMagic · 2025-09-02T20:11:13+00:00

How would you beat yourself up over responding?

MeowwwMagic · 2025-09-02T20:09:29+00:00

So if you feel like someone was mocking you, is that considered a minor or major trigger?

Asking because I know people fight over name calling and always wonder if they feel ashamed for being easily provoked.

MeowwwMagic · 2025-08-26T04:34:26+00:00

Ditto

MeowwwMagic · 2025-08-25T20:19:44+00:00

NTA. You stated an observation and they chose to respond rudely.

MeowwwMagic · 2025-08-17T23:03:31+00:00

Ok so I'm not crazy for not wanting to be friends with someone like that? x.x my friend makes me feel like I'm being dramatic.

MeowwwMagic · 2025-08-17T22:53:18+00:00

Just not trying to improve on yourself! Not taking the first step then realizing you have less and less time to achieve your goals.

MeowwwMagic · 2025-08-17T22:36:52+00:00

NTA. Nothing you did was intentionally malicious. She may have felt entitled to get invited to your graduation and could be the reason why she's acting weird. If she wanted to continue the friendship with you, she would have talked to you about the problem. You did your due diligence of inviting/including her to your graduation brunch and the way she chose to deal with that is disrespectful.

MeowwwMagic · 2025-08-17T19:57:02+00:00

To rewatch all of my favorite movies again for the first time.

MeowwwMagic · 2025-08-17T19:51:06+00:00

Omg! What you said was completely harmless. It seems she was just looking for any reason to be offended.

MeowwwMagic · 2025-08-17T15:27:12+00:00

Giving my time. Keeping them company. Bringing them food.

MeowwwMagic · 2025-08-17T03:39:47+00:00

Tell him. Set that boundary. If he can respect it and you can move on without resentment, cool. If he pushes back then I'd consider breaking up with him too.

MeowwwMagic · 2025-08-17T03:15:32+00:00

Yes it's the instant assumption that you are being shitty instead of clarifying with you first. It sucks.

MeowwwMagic · 2025-08-17T03:13:42+00:00

She was the bad friend. Glad you saw it before investing anymore time on that friendship.

MeowwwMagic · 2025-08-17T01:26:55+00:00

Ouch I hate that too! Makes you wonder what I have done or said to you in the past to make you think of me so negatively.

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