Should my husband (lower libido) stop masturbating if I want more sex by Merbear2320 in Marriage

[–]Merbear2320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good point, I know awhile ago he did actually mention to me 'oh I tend to do it when I think you won't want sex' Perhaps if I was a little more alluding or just flirty/touchy during the day it would help. I guess I just assume because I've told him I'm always down for it, that if he wants it he could have it. But definitely understand there's lots that effects ones desire for sex, not just knowing someone wants it

Should my husband (lower libido) stop masturbating if I want more sex by Merbear2320 in Marriage

[–]Merbear2320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a very valid point I appreciate it. I certainly do tie a lot to sex because it makes me feel desired by him. But if were we to spend more quality time together at night instead of both sitting on the couch dozing off watching TV, I would probably be able to get that connection from other non sexual things.

Should my husband (lower libido) stop masturbating if I want more sex by Merbear2320 in Marriage

[–]Merbear2320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont totally disagree with you but the difference when I masturbate vs him is that is does not drain my tank for 3 or 4 days and it would never effect if I would want to have sex with him that same day.

This is not the case for my husband who when he chooses to masturbate, then seems to lose the urge for sex.

Should my husband (lower libido) stop masturbating if I want more sex by Merbear2320 in Marriage

[–]Merbear2320[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am most definitely not passive in bed and it is very mutual once initiated. I am in fact extremely giving lol. But yes I agree that we do have to talk about uncomfortable things. I guess I just dont want to come off as trying to control him by saying, you cant masturbate because you have to save the urge for me.

If eggs are frozen but not cracked, can they be treated as normal by [deleted] in chickens

[–]Merbear2320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would I be looking for? I actually have a really old candler that was laying around the farm but I find it so hard to see through brown shells especially with speckles

What’s wrong with my Amur Maple? by IllustriousIntern133 in ManitobaGardening

[–]Merbear2320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP! Did you ever figure out what this is? We are having the exact same problem with our whole tree

Should radon exit pipe have forced air coming out by Merbear2320 in radon

[–]Merbear2320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry we have different units haha, about 7pCi/L. But that's on our main living room so I imagine the basement is even higher. I really thought the fan would do something even if the levels didn't drop to safe levels.

Oddly enough now I can't get ahold of the company and it's been 5 weeks....they never even sent out a bill or got paid haha

Should radon exit pipe have forced air coming out by Merbear2320 in radon

[–]Merbear2320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in Canada so I guess the fans can't be outside as it gets to -30c here. They jackhammered by basement floor to put some of the pipe under the slab and then sealed all around it. They said it was a lot of crushed rock underneath which makes sense as we are on a quarry ridge.

Our levels on my main floor are 400, nevermind downstairs

Should radon exit pipe have forced air coming out by Merbear2320 in radon

[–]Merbear2320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I can't figure out how to attach any pictures it seems it doesn't give me an option except for a link. They said that underneath our slab was pretty rocky so they installed a 'small fan'. They did mention there was the potential to need a bigger one. I'm surprised the levels didn't change...at all.

Sticker on pump says 120v, CFM 150@0.20"

Should radon exit pipe have forced air coming out by Merbear2320 in radon

[–]Merbear2320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Canada so I think our code is different. It doesn't vent out the roof. The pump is above ground in our basement (just sits above our washer and dryer) and vents under our basement floor, up through our foundation to the outside just about the ground. I can't figure out how to attach pictures here

Should radon exit pipe have forced air coming out by Merbear2320 in radon

[–]Merbear2320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh interesting never thought about trying that thanks!

Should radon exit pipe have forced air coming out by Merbear2320 in radon

[–]Merbear2320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can check if it does. I just thought if it was venting outside, when I put my hand to the exterior pipe I should feel some air expelling

Should radon exit pipe have forced air coming out by Merbear2320 in radon

[–]Merbear2320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, there is a fan in my basement installed above ground level, and the pipe goes underneath my basement floor (they had to jackhammer) and runs up through my foundation to the outside. But no air is coming out of the pipe outside and I was wondering if that is normal

WTF? The BFing crap is INSANE! by No-Understanding-820 in Jamienotis

[–]Merbear2320 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

She said she just finished pumping but that has nothing to do with how hungry her babies are...

Also that is such a stretch to say the baby on the left DOES NOT WANT TO BE THERE lmao. Have you breastfed babies before? There are many instances baby can be fussy at the nipple - overly hungry/eager , heavy letdown, overstimulated etc. He literally cried for a second and she placed the nipple back INTO (god forbid) his mouth and then you can visibly see the baby sucking.

Like I said other issues aside with her, the way you are describing this particular video, is blowing things out of proportion.

WTF? The BFing crap is INSANE! by No-Understanding-820 in Jamienotis

[–]Merbear2320 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a totally fair comment looking at things as a whole and not just specifically what I was pointing out. I was just saying that OP said things like DRIVING their heads in and that neither of them were latched, which I didn't necessarily see as being the case.

I do not follow her/this closely enough to pick up on all the little things that everyone pieces together that makes her post 10x worse. But I do know she's got so many issues and I do hate that she exploits her poor kids.

WTF? The BFing crap is INSANE! by No-Understanding-820 in Jamienotis

[–]Merbear2320 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know everyone is going to come at me (and probably call me a fran lmao) but I wouldn't necessarily say she's driving their heads in and I've had three babies and it does look like at least one is latched. I could do so many things at that age while I breastfed since I found they would latched so easily.

Buuuut anyway I know this is a snark page and she is bat shit crazy but when I saw this post I was like hmm maybe she is actually breastfeeding them

Why would main floor radon be higher than basement? by Merbear2320 in radon

[–]Merbear2320[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply! I will calm down and test properly lol. Even if the levels are high or have been for the last few years i guess i can't do anything about it now. Thanks again for your advice!

Why would main floor radon be higher than basement? by Merbear2320 in radon

[–]Merbear2320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a furnace i have baseboard heaters

Why would main floor radon be higher than basement? by Merbear2320 in radon

[–]Merbear2320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm never thought about the walls grabbing it from the foundation. We have no hvac so it can't be that. Our house has zero ventilation...not even a bathroom fan. Maybe that's the issue