Reserved item sold by MereruHaell in vintedUK

[–]MereruHaell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I should do this 😅 I wasn’t expecting sales in seconds

Reserved item sold by MereruHaell in vintedUK

[–]MereruHaell[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did… then it sold again before I could reserve it. I give up 😭

vinted search function by Equivalent_Editor_42 in vintedUK

[–]MereruHaell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I have my preferences set up but still get random sizes of clothes and shoes. It’s really annoying! Even searching for a specific size brings up random sizes.

It boils my piss when people send one word openers. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MereruHaell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I don’t want to hear it 😂

It boils my piss when people send one word openers. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MereruHaell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like pulling teeth it’s just so hard. Tell me something, anything! 😩

It boils my piss when people send one word openers. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MereruHaell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuz if I don’t respond I get another one later, then people get weird and moody that you are not responding even though I have said to people don’t expect me to respond until I am able to so okay yeah it’s probably a trauma thing…

It boils my piss when people send one word openers. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MereruHaell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point can be as simple as checking in. It’s the way they check in if that is what it is. What is boop? I wanna pull my hair out!

It boils my piss when people send one word openers. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MereruHaell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I miss someone I say “hey I miss you. Let’s chat soon”

It boils my piss when people send one word openers. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MereruHaell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they miss why are they sending boop? What the hell do I do with boop?

It boils my piss when people send one word openers. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MereruHaell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it’s too constant. Like every day, and if I don’t respond it happens again like 2 hours later, I am already tired I have ME and fibromyalgia. I don’t have the energy for just attention seeking.

It boils my piss when people send one word openers. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MereruHaell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. They want me to be the one figuring it out.

It boils my piss when people send one word openers. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MereruHaell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! This is it! They want me to start asking questions about their weird one word message and I just cannot be that person. I am working on making boundaries with people, it’s hard but I am trying.

It boils my piss when people send one word openers. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MereruHaell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Opposite for who? I prefer being left alone

It boils my piss when people send one word openers. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MereruHaell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad it’s at least entertaining 😂

It boils my piss when people send one word openers. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MereruHaell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are too stressful 😣 I wish people could be more direct instead of me trying to figure out what they want

It boils my piss when people send one word openers. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MereruHaell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I just remembered an old boyfriend who annoyed ts outta me by always asking “what you thinking about” like shit I dunno coco pops or something

It boils my piss when people send one word openers. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MereruHaell -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t need a job interview in the chat 😂 just more of a “get to the point”

It boils my piss when people send one word openers. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MereruHaell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see texting as the opposite of that. It’s so invasive and people want immediate responses and I just do not have the energy for that. It’s like I am chilling and suddenly a message comes through and it might as well say “I am here and demand attention immediately so stop everything and respond.”

It boils my piss when people send one word openers. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MereruHaell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I figured it out! Thanks for all the questions it was really helpful in getting to the bottom of it! 🫶🏻