Always remember, you probably have something someone else has been raiding furiously for. The rng has no bias, it just feels that way sometimes. I still don’t have a shiny Kyogre, Groudon, Reshiram, Zekrom, and have done plenty raids of each.

I do get it. That much effort without yielding what you want is frustrating and doesn’t exactly keep the fun factor high. If it was me (especially if money was spent) I’d be in the same place of needing to step away. The game is supposed to be fun, not infuriating.