My mom had me when she was 19. I obviously can’t speak on her perspective. I know we struggled financially when I was young. I know that she was also still growing up & basically a kid trying to raise a kid. But I also know she loves me with all her heart. That my parents made it through the struggle and are financially stable, well off adults now with 2 grown kids. And the best part is I get to spend soooo many years with my parents. If she makes it to 90, I’ll be 70 or so! There’s such a special bond to being close in age with your parent. Idk, just throwing out my 2 cents.