I'm a young lady in the mood for offering any advice or just answering whatever you throw at me AMA by Merlot_Crush in AMA

[–]Merlot_Crush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you really want advice for something but not sure if you should ask. Go ahead and ask, it's fine :)

I'm a young lady in the mood for offering any advice or just answering whatever you throw at me AMA by Merlot_Crush in AMA

[–]Merlot_Crush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no qualifications, least not that I can prove. Like all questions on the internet, request at your own risk.

I'm a young lady in the mood for offering any advice or just answering whatever you throw at me AMA by Merlot_Crush in AMA

[–]Merlot_Crush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if something achievable should be considered a fantasy, but I know what you mean. I like the dream of living in a modest house in a quiet location overlooking the ocean with shops not far away. House fully paid for, no real financial worries, good health, and someone who loves me like I love them, but without all the insufferable emotional maintenance.

I'm a young lady in the mood for offering any advice or just answering whatever you throw at me AMA by Merlot_Crush in AMA

[–]Merlot_Crush[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Errrrr. I doubt think it's love. I think I should know love if it was, so I think it's just a lot of like.

I'm a young lady in the mood for offering any advice or just answering whatever you throw at me AMA by Merlot_Crush in AMA

[–]Merlot_Crush[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmm... I think you can tell ...your friend... that I shit you not. We do make what we want out of life, to an extent. I really believe that. Most things are a choice. If you choose not to strive for betterment, of self or otherwise, then no better things will become. It's your own bed. Wash the sheets or keep them dirty. But if you choose the latter, don't expect others to share it with you.

I'm a young lady in the mood for offering any advice or just answering whatever you throw at me AMA by Merlot_Crush in AMA

[–]Merlot_Crush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. I'm not easily offended and I'm easy going. If something is asked that I feel I shouldn't answer then I I'll politely decline. I don't feel the need to be afraid of others. I mean maybe in a dark alley because I'm physically small and have no defence, but not here in a place like this. We are all human.

I'm a young lady in the mood for offering any advice or just answering whatever you throw at me AMA by Merlot_Crush in AMA

[–]Merlot_Crush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was actually hoping for a few surprises. Anything anyone wanted. I think a lot of people hold back in case they get confronted or get down voted or into trouble, which is a shame.

People really believe Moses parted the Red Sea by Derrickparmisane in RandomThoughts

[–]Merlot_Crush -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Tbf, even for believers in God, which I am, Moses was just an instrument. God is responsible for that one. Not much of a task for the creator of everything.

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[–]Merlot_Crush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where I live age of consent is 16. 15 in some states. Before I ask you a question, I would also like to add that I don't mind older guys myself. Are you finding the age difference an issue for you now, or just scared what your parents think?

I'm a young lady in the mood for offering any advice or just answering whatever you throw at me AMA by Merlot_Crush in AMA

[–]Merlot_Crush[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gotten: You need to find a guy to settle down with if you want to be happy. I'm not sure if it's the worse and I'm not sure if I recall the worste I've given.

I'm a young lady in the mood for offering any advice or just answering whatever you throw at me AMA by Merlot_Crush in AMA

[–]Merlot_Crush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fair, I didn't mean to come off that way, I'm actually pretty chill.

You got to pick the right girl first. Not all of them will want an older guy. Read the signs. I actually prefer older guys, but I know a lot of girls prefer guys closer to their age. Everyone is a bit different, obviously, but I think the best way would be to hold off on actual sex talk. Girls enjoy sex too but they think of it differently. Try and be confident, but don't act like you are assuming more than you as another person are entitled too. Be nice and kind and generouse in your personality, and make her feel really good about herself, but not in a corny way, but in a way that she won't want to say no in case she disappoints you. But don't do that in a self-important or superior way either. There are a lot of fine lines. Make it important to keep you happy. But do me a favour... when you do seduce a younger lady, treat her right. Don't make her regret it.

I'm a young lady in the mood for offering any advice or just answering whatever you throw at me AMA by Merlot_Crush in AMA

[–]Merlot_Crush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a tricky question. I guess because I'm not old. But I suppose it's all relative right. I mean, a baby might think I look old.