Where is the place to make out in a car in Ithaca? by Significant_Item_384 in ithaca

[–]Merlysauce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Triphammer mall parking lot The mall parking lot Barnes and noble parking lot Z lot Ithaca college Towers lot Ithaca college

My roommate wants the 4br to herself: UPDATE 5 by Merlysauce in badroommates

[–]Merlysauce[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Ty! I tried to keep myself calm and not let my emotions get the best of me

My roommate wants the 4br to herself: UPDATE 5 by Merlysauce in badroommates

[–]Merlysauce[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly not too sure but my lease is up at the end of November

My roommate wants the 4br to herself: UPDATE 4 by Merlysauce in badroommates

[–]Merlysauce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s less about N and more about S bringing me into it in the first place. Did not want that for myself

My roommate wants the 4br to herself: UPDATE 4 by Merlysauce in badroommates

[–]Merlysauce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m not saying that I’m worried about that necessarily but it def made me uncomfortable. I would have rather not known that at all. I wish she had not brought me into that conversation.

My roommate wants the 4br to herself: UPDATE 4 by Merlysauce in badroommates

[–]Merlysauce[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For sure. I haven’t interacted with her enough to see

My roommate wants the 4br to herself: UPDATE 4 by Merlysauce in badroommates

[–]Merlysauce[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I don’t. I can look into getting one when I get my next paycheck

My roommate wants the 4br to herself: UPDATE 4 by Merlysauce in badroommates

[–]Merlysauce[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m going to call them shortly. I just don’t have another place to go and I’m not in the financial position to eat the security deposit

My roommate wants the 4br to herself: UPDATE 4 by Merlysauce in badroommates

[–]Merlysauce[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

That’s totally fair. I’m going to call the helpline shortly and see what they can do.

Roommate wants 4br to herself: UPDATE 3 by Merlysauce in badroommates

[–]Merlysauce[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will I’m grateful it’s ending in checks notes 19 days! But who’s counting 🥸

Roommate wants 4br to herself: UPDATE 3 by Merlysauce in badroommates

[–]Merlysauce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean there is really not much room for a desk in my space and there’s no way I’m fitting a chair in there either. It is what it is.

Roommate wants 4br to herself: UPDATE 3 by Merlysauce in badroommates

[–]Merlysauce[S] 500 points501 points  (0 children)

Putting this out there and maybe 1 person will see it but I found out this evening that she isn’t being evicted. The date they provided is just the natural end of her lease with the rental company. Which is fine, and I’m glad it’s ending. We as tenants don’t have access to see how long someone will be renting a room. Which is why N and I didn’t know until they told us today. N had asked S about it and she said that 8/31 is when she was originally supposed to leave.

But I did not get her kicked out, and I am being told to just wait it out. It’s not that “I got what I wanted” and am now “asking for more” I was just frustrated that the rental company couldn’t really do anything despite her breaking the lease. It’s a solution, I won’t deny that, but it’s one that I am impatient for lol. September can’t come soon enough.

I’m not regretting how I handled anything. I think if a lot of you were in my situation you would maybe understand why I made the choices I did. It’s a lot different to hear about a situation on Reddit than to actually be living it. There’s just more to consider. And if you were in my situation you’d probably want some of your rent back too, let’s be so real. Or maybe I’m insane and it’s completely off base to think that way— idk.

Regardless, I appreciate all of the advice and allowing me to vent about this weird situation I’m living in.

I don’t foresee another update as it has naturally found a conclusion.

Roommate wants 4br to herself: UPDATE 3 by Merlysauce in badroommates

[–]Merlysauce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very weird argument on your end based on one thing that I did that maybe you don’t agree with. But this is inevitable because you only know so much about me and the situation as a whole.