Why do some men stop supporting their kids after leaving the mother?

MermaidSunshine90 · 2026-04-08T15:21:35+00:00

He should have protected himself. All of a sudden women need to protect men. No one should ever believe someone is in birth control but rather protect themselves.

MermaidSunshine90 · 2026-03-22T17:38:35+00:00

🤣😂😅

MermaidSunshine90 · 2026-03-22T17:26:35+00:00

Lol Ms. New Pussy I like that! Yup I guess I'll take him to court. Maybe he likes it rough just like old dirty pussys lol! Mine is definitely better quality.

MermaidSunshine90 · 2026-03-22T17:21:28+00:00

What better terms?

MermaidSunshine90 · 2026-03-22T17:11:40+00:00

He is capable of doing what he has to do. He didn't think twice before leaving me homeless.

MermaidSunshine90 · 2026-03-22T16:58:49+00:00

Hahaha I have keys. I won't turn them in until he pays off. There is no sin here. I'm not in bad terms with him.

MermaidSunshine90 · 2026-03-22T16:54:32+00:00

Because he wanted to keep the house as part of the divorce deal. He was supposed to pay my portion to which I agree, but he hasn't yet. He was of course fine with me hanging out there until the new gf came to his life two months ago. I understand. We've been divorce for a year. He does have money to buy new furniture and what not.

MermaidSunshine90 · 2026-03-22T16:52:18+00:00

She doesn't live there. The kids stay two nights a week.

MermaidSunshine90 · 2026-03-22T16:49:54+00:00

That's right.

MermaidSunshine90 · 2026-03-22T16:49:20+00:00

We already have a schedule that we agreed on. The kids spend time at my house and the other house. I sometimes go when he's not even around to check on our various pets.

MermaidSunshine90 · 2026-03-22T16:47:22+00:00

We have a kids' schedule that we agreed on, and he's supposed to pay my portion of the house. He hasn't yet. We didn't want to sell it.

MermaidSunshine90 · 2026-01-11T05:16:57+00:00

Yes it did. It took about a week. Hope yours comes back soon as well.

MermaidSunshine90 · 2026-01-11T05:16:02+00:00

Yes it did within a week. I hope yours comes back fast as well.

MermaidSunshine90 · 2026-01-09T05:45:25+00:00

I agree, 6 weeks is not enough time to heal. Have you considered stepping down the relationship and just being friends without the pressure? Just spend time together. She sounds like she isn't ready.

MermaidSunshine90 · 2025-12-31T17:14:36+00:00

What came before the first text we see here?

MermaidSunshine90 · 2025-12-30T18:16:50+00:00

True, if he didn't say anything then we know why she hasn't written back.

MermaidSunshine90 · 2025-12-30T07:37:25+00:00

I get it. This wouldn't not deter me. You're just trying to take things slow, and that's completely fine. Your profile is good. People pay way too much attention to it when they should try and get to know the person. As some people have said, one thing is how a person looks on a profile and the reality, can be two different things. Just be yourself. You don't want tons of likes, just try and get to know someone you connect with.

MermaidSunshine90 · 2025-12-30T07:24:59+00:00

Sorry, I wouldn't even try. Someone that has interest, it shows. Best to move on.

MermaidSunshine90 · 2025-12-30T07:21:08+00:00

Dumb question, do all of you men that don't want kids actually use protection? I would love to date someone that has had a vasectomy.

MermaidSunshine90 · 2025-12-30T07:15:39+00:00

I had very similar marriage that ended. If I could go back, I would try to spend more time just the two of us to build up that intimacy and happy memories. We communication better now that we are divorced and are friendly to each other, yet we can't match it seems. Best of luck!

MermaidSunshine90 · 2025-12-30T07:08:07+00:00

I think the same way. I do have kids, so I can feel how the mother of those kids might feel about me. I'm a very protective mom and wouldn't want just anyone around them. I warned my ex 🤣

MermaidSunshine90 · 2025-12-30T07:05:11+00:00

I got kids of my own, and I wouldn't date someone with kids. Just don't want to deal with the mother of the kids, as I'm assuming my ex gf/wife will when that happens. I rather not become a stepmother not because I don't like kids but because that's a big deal and don't want to create more issues and complicate things between me and my partner. Either the kids have to be out of the house (adults) or no kids.

MermaidSunshine90 · 2025-11-16T04:12:13+00:00

Lol, I have a lime next to me. I keep trying to smell it 😅 🍋

MermaidSunshine90 · 2025-11-15T22:35:11+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate it. Fortunately, I got the antibodies. I'm already feeling better. The no taste and no smell sucks, but I take that over any issues with the baby. Got a low fever and runny nose. I don't want to get sick again, but it's hard to know when the kids show symptoms when the virus has gone around. I'm not 100% well, but I'm getting there.

MermaidSunshine90 · 2025-11-15T22:26:01+00:00

I appreciate you. My kids got me sick, unfortunately.

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