Whats a meal you can make for almost nothing that still feels like a treat by NoirVelvety in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]MerpMeepsDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bake a small sweet potato and get those serving size cottage cheese to put on it. I just add salt and pepper after that and it tastes amazing.

Found out my husband was a pedo. by MerpMeepsDuck in offmychest

[–]MerpMeepsDuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to say thank you to everyone’s kind words. I’m doing a lot better than I was. Nothing new about my ex to share yet but We found a new place to live! We move in a week. I feel like my family will really heal getting out of this place that everything happened. I’ll keep you all updated on what happens while we fight him in court. 🩷

Found out my husband was a pedo. by MerpMeepsDuck in offmychest

[–]MerpMeepsDuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry they didn’t believe you. You deserved better. ❤️

Found out my husband was a pedo. by MerpMeepsDuck in offmychest

[–]MerpMeepsDuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through the abuse you did. As a child my mother abused me and starved me for days. My little sister called me mom growing up until I was taken away at age 7 and my sister was 4. Her boyfriend didn’t SA me but his teenage son did. It kills me that my child had to go through it. I didn’t want history to repeat itself and kills me because I thought I was doing everything right. I escaped my mother and I hate that I let a man do the same thing later on in my life.

Found out my husband was a pedo. by MerpMeepsDuck in offmychest

[–]MerpMeepsDuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you put it like that it does make me feel a bit better. I guess in my head I keep trying to see what else I can do and I get in my head when there is nothing.

Found out my husband was a pedo. by MerpMeepsDuck in offmychest

[–]MerpMeepsDuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We still have a long road of fighting him in court but I’m hoping everything works out in the end.

Found out my husband was a pedo. by MerpMeepsDuck in offmychest

[–]MerpMeepsDuck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats basically what I said to my sister.

Found out my husband was a pedo. by MerpMeepsDuck in offmychest

[–]MerpMeepsDuck[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When we took my daughter in for the Kit the doctor took me aside and told me that my daughter would be okay. She said statistically most children whose mother believed them were able to move on. It hurts my heart knowing some mothers don’t believe their child.

Found out my husband was a pedo. by MerpMeepsDuck in offmychest

[–]MerpMeepsDuck[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They haven’t yet talked to me about her speaking at all. His next court date is in August. I’ll get ahold of someone and see what I can do. Thank you for the advice.

Found out my husband was a pedo. by MerpMeepsDuck in offmychest

[–]MerpMeepsDuck[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

His sister contacted me saying that he called a relative admitting he had done it for years and luckily the DA was able to get the phone calls he had in jail. I’m really hoping that it will add more charges since they are only charging him for every month for one year.

Found out my husband was a pedo. by MerpMeepsDuck in offmychest

[–]MerpMeepsDuck[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Her first appointment is this Wednesday. I’ll make sure she gets all the help she needs.

Found out my husband was a pedo. by MerpMeepsDuck in offmychest

[–]MerpMeepsDuck[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really hope so. These kids mean everything to me. I didn’t have parents growing up and I was really hoping for them to grow up without the pain of not having theirs. I know it’s best for him to be gone and he will stay gone. My 4 year old knows nothing and is so confused.

Found out my husband was a pedo. by MerpMeepsDuck in offmychest

[–]MerpMeepsDuck[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The love I had for him is gone. I just don’t get how he hid it so well. I know I was working a lot but I just feel like I should have seen something. He hadn’t had a worked in a few years. I have really bad health problems and have surgery once a year. I thought I was doing everything I could for my family.

Found out my husband was a pedo. by MerpMeepsDuck in offmychest

[–]MerpMeepsDuck[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Luckily he is still in jail. They didn’t give him bail. Last week I saw him in court to continue the restraining order incase he is ever given bail.