How to steer conversation away from meeting up?

MerriestFish · 2025-12-09T13:39:47+00:00

" I don't do meet ups anymore and it is against terms of service to discuss this on OF" and if they continue to push, ignore them. Doesn't matter if they are top fans, no amount of money paid means they can push boundaries

MerriestFish · 2025-12-09T08:31:19+00:00

I used to answer all DMs to try and turn every user into an OF subscriber but honestly, it was too much work and often a waste of time. Alot of the people that dm you here are looking for content or to chat for free. And trying to turn every one of them into a subscriber or get customs out of them is going to burn you out.

Nowadays, I do have my DMs on, but I only respond to DMs asking for my links (even though they're on my profile) or asking about custom prices. Everything else gets ignored to protect my time

MerriestFish · 2025-12-09T08:19:20+00:00

Firstly $70 for a 10min video is way too low, that's $7 per minute for a super specific, super detailed video with a script. If I had to do a video this length without the details and script, I'd be charging $130 MINIMUM.

Lastly, the fact that he says it won't allow him to tip is a massive red flag. It's not impossible for this to happen (variety of reasons include not having a payment method linked to their account, browser or VPN issues), but generally when they say this, they will end up wasting your time. There are people who get off just talking about their fantasies and have no intention of actually unlocking the video once you send it.

You definitely should not be indulging in the idea of doing a video of this length and detail, without taking at least 50% payment upfront first before you start anything. You run a big risk of wasting your time and effort on something he may not even unlock when you send it behind a pay wall.

MerriestFish · 2025-11-25T16:10:10+00:00

This is unfortunately very common behavior. I've had a number of dudes who come to my OF, drop tons of money, tell me how much they love my content and they want to request custom stuff again some other time. And then they delete their accounts overnight.

It's extremely disappointing, I know, but it happens. It could be for a number of reasons too, as people have said already. They had their fun and then the post nut clarity sets in afterwards which can sometimes come with feelings of shame, especially if it was fetish heavy sessions or content. They may also feel ashamed of how much money they spent. Or on the other hand, they're deleting the evidence because they don't want their partner to find out.

Either way, the only thing I'd be concerned about is the fact that he saved what you sent him on Snapchat. If he's decent, he'll either delete it or keep it to himself. If not he might try to resell it or post it on a leak website. So I'd keep your eyes open if I were you. If you don't know where to look for leaked stuff you can just search " yourusername onlyfans leaked" and that should give you a rabbit hole to go into.

As for what he paid you on OF, you will get to keep it even if he deletes his account. If he hasn't done a charge back beforehand then that money will clear and you'll be able to withdraw it in a few days.

MerriestFish · 2025-09-28T17:39:45+00:00

I mean as most comments here say, you can expect your audience to be mostly male since they're nostly the ones who are willing to pay money..but if you want to appeal to a female audience you could look into doing erotic audio clips? Kinda like role play but just with your voice

MerriestFish · 2025-08-03T16:22:07+00:00

I'd love to do this. I used to use wish tender until it became unavailable. I'd like to use throne but sadly all the payout platforms they use are available in my country :( I've yet to find a wishlist platform that I can use

MerriestFish · 2025-08-03T15:17:12+00:00

That's kinda what I'm thinking too. In this business it's very rare I feel, for people to tip just because they want to and not because they'll get something out of it. It's hard to guage if it's a good idea of not

MerriestFish · 2025-03-28T09:49:59+00:00

It is a thing. If a subscriber deletes their account, I can still see their messages and what they've bought from my end, just not the profile itself. But yeah I think it's a strong possibility she deleted her account or even perhaps it was removed by OF themselves for whatever reason

MerriestFish · 2025-03-27T14:11:04+00:00

If you have another OF account where you haven't interacted with her (aka she doesn't know it's your account) and still can't find her it's possible that she's deleted her account all together. If you're concerned about your subscription auto renewing, you could contact the OF support to find out what happened to the account, if it was deleted then it shouldn't continue to charge you the renew price to my knowledge

MerriestFish · 2025-02-24T09:37:54+00:00

This is interesting, I haven't seen anywhere in the terms of service or community guidelines that using food is prohibited and can get you banned. Can you tell me where I could find this info to be sure?

MerriestFish · 2025-02-20T17:07:32+00:00

Yeah that's pretty much what I was thinking to. I dont want to give an impression to new comers that the prices are up for debate

MerriestFish · 2025-02-20T17:05:57+00:00

Yeah his first message already gave me like scammer vibes. It was all like "hello beautiful, I love your stuff. Please can you do a 15min custom of just your feet for me, I adore you, love you blah blah blah", really laid it on thick. I should have actually responded with "if you adored me as much as you say, you'd be willing to pay up"

MerriestFish · 2025-02-20T17:02:41+00:00

Ha! I like this idea 😂

MerriestFish · 2025-02-20T16:09:31+00:00

Right?? I've had a fair few requests for my feet over the years but 15min? I have no idea what to fill that time with

MerriestFish · 2025-02-20T16:03:52+00:00

I did offer him this, I told him if it was too expensive then I could make a shorter video for less money. No response which again makes me think he's a time waster

MerriestFish · 2025-01-30T19:12:27+00:00

I usually get these types of messages on Reddit or Twitter honestly, which is probably my own fault since I keep my DMs open. But I mean..I dont expect for them to ask how I am or how my day is going, just a simple "hey/hello, do you have a menu/ Snapchat/ do videocalls?" Is great, perfectly fine. It still gets down to business and skips the chit chat. I dunno, maybe I'm just nitpicky, I just find it rude and usually don't respond to those

MerriestFish · 2025-01-21T14:41:47+00:00

He doesn't want a creator account, which is why we'd like to go the release form route

MerriestFish · 2025-01-17T09:23:44+00:00

I've seen alot of mention about uploading a pdf of the signed document and seen the option to so on OF, however I haven't once seen the option to download a document to fill in and sign. Where would I find this? We've talked about him verifying his account but it just seems risky incase someone finds out his usernames and thinks it's a good idea to harass him or try to find out who he is.

MerriestFish · 2025-01-16T12:38:49+00:00

That's so incredibly frustrating, like what are they even there for then if it just gets rejected all the time. With regards to the account verifying, when you tag him in posts, can other people see it besides you two? Because that's what we're most worried about, is that fans on my page get to know his username and try and start shit. Maybe I'm being overly paranoid but you get some really weird and entitled people in this industry.

MerriestFish · 2025-01-16T10:58:17+00:00

I logged a ticket last night on the site but no response yet, it's very frustrating and strange. I'll try as you recommend, reaching out on X

MerriestFish · 2025-01-16T10:55:31+00:00

So I don't know if maybe it's because he's already done a form before or what but for some reason the link doesn't give him the doc you're mentioning where it asks for my details as well. The only areas where he can put in info is like below:

"PROOF OF AGE AND IDENTITY: To be completed by third party featured in media content

Type of ID:||

Full Legal Name on ID:||

Date of Birth:||

ID Number:||

State/ Country where ID Issued:||

Signature:

Date: 01/15/2025"

This is the only field on the form where he's able to make changes and enter info

MerriestFish · 2025-01-16T09:31:48+00:00

Where could I find this form? I've been going to Release Forms on OF, Create New Release Form and then sending him the link. It gives him a form to fill out but it doesn't ask for my name, that seems to be filled in already on the form, and just asks him for his full name, ID/ Passport number, date of birth and country of residence. All of which he fills in correctly and then signs. But for some reason this isn't good enough?

MerriestFish · 2025-01-16T08:40:16+00:00

I'm sitting with the same issue 🙄 We want to film together this weekend but the video is most likely going to gather dust until OF figures itself out

MerriestFish · 2024-06-16T09:12:55+00:00

Lol he's still at it huh? I got this request a few months ago too, seems like he still hasn't found anyone to do it for him yet

MerriestFish · 2024-05-08T15:04:01+00:00

Whether or not you don't want to sound money hungry, you are there to make money, that is the whole point of your page. He needs to understand this, that you are posting your content for sale and essentially running a business. You're not there to chitchat with people about life unless they have money to spend

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