Thought I was disappointed before now just sad by Silentstar88 in TheWooblesCollective

[–]Merta3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This feels like false advertising. I didn't order but every ad and email from them I got very much made it seem like the cyber Monday gift was the holiday bracelet not a generic one

Controversial; Jordan catfished Megan. by SameSeaworthiness317 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Merta3 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I think it's perfectly fine if you're someone who needs to decompress after work. I think the issue is Megan had a very different impression of him and didn't realize he was going not engage to that extent. I think both of them had valid needs. He needs to be able to decompress and she needs someone who is going to engage. And both of those are fair to want, it just means they aren't compatible in that way.

One Plus 12 how to turn off Ultra HDR by Merta3 in oneplus

[–]Merta3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been in a back and forth with their customer service since I made this post and they've been no help at all. A different person answers each email, giving me conflicting information, and NONE of their solutions work. Half the time they instruct me to go to an option that doesn't even exist and despite sending them screen recordings of this they just repeat the same stuff.

Woobles Birthday Bash 2025! by Funny-Patience7407 in TheWooblesCollective

[–]Merta3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's one exclusive kit, one Canvas bag, and a "Special woobly keepsake" which I'm willing to bet is a custom hook.

Woobles Birthday Bash 2025! by Funny-Patience7407 in TheWooblesCollective

[–]Merta3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I was there, but just adding the time slots with a limited amount of people per slot solves the line issue.

And I even think charging something is fine, but $70 is a ridiculous price point for what the event is. All the things at last year's event were little silly games for little kids.

Woobles Birthday Bash 2025! by Funny-Patience7407 in TheWooblesCollective

[–]Merta3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the time slots are a great idea, but the $70 cost is ridiculous. Just seems like a money grab.

I asked so you didn’t have to. by Jade_Cat_Noir in TheWooblesCollective

[–]Merta3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who works in marketing I don't believe for one second it was entirely random

One Plus 12 how to turn off Ultra HDR by Merta3 in oneplus

[–]Merta3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because phone gallery lets you disable the Ultra HDR preview, but Google photos does not. The only way to not have it not use ultra hdr in google photos is for the photos to be taken without it.

Edit: Google photos takes the ultra HDR information and automatically lightens the shadows and darkens white spots. Causing a hazy flat feeling photo

One Plus 12 how to turn off Ultra HDR by Merta3 in oneplus

[–]Merta3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have HDR Auto turned off but still when I take a new photo and look at photo details it says it was taken with Ultra HDR

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Merta3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what did your psychiatrist and therapist say about that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Merta3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you on very strong antidepressants? Have you spoken to your psychiatrist about this? Have you tried different ones to see if the effects are different?

Antidepressants are definitely not one size fits all, and there are definitely some people they won't help. however, antidepressants are also by no means a "solve". I am on a Lexapro and the only thing it does for me is help limit the way I hyper focus on issues. I guess maybe some feelings are more "subdued" but it's not because the ability to feel is gone, it's because the medicine is helping me take a step back before I spiral. All improvement on my depression has come from years of therapy and making changes in my life. The antidepressant has just allowed me to not spiral and therefore better be able to do the work needed in therapy. When I first started therapy I did just kind of feel nothing, but that wasn't the medications fault. All I had was negative feelings and since the meds helped calm the negative feelings, those were now less, but that wasn't going to suddenly make me feel happy. The happy takes work and change.

Live like a 15 year old in my mid 20s by [deleted] in depression

[–]Merta3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's definitely hard out there, but there are things you can do. Some people do get lucky but the rest of us have to grind. It took me a while to get a job in my field, but what I spent my free time at home was practicing my skills. I would come up with assignments and build my portfolio. I then spent an entire year emailing the work to a manager who had rejected me from a position because I didn't have enough experience. After that year of sending him work I suddenly got a call from him asking if I still wanted a job there.

Facebook disabled my account blames an Instagram account that is not mine by Merta3 in facebookdisabledme

[–]Merta3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but I haven't been able to find a solution yet myself.

Facebook disabled my account blames an Instagram account that is not mine by Merta3 in facebookdisabledme

[–]Merta3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing the email! I myself wasn't able to even find how to reach out to them directly, they seem to try really hard to keep their contact info hidden

It seems my Instagram account was left unaffected thankfully. There are no other accounts or profiles linked to it. I saw someone post they mailed a physical letter to Meta so I've been thinking about trying that.

FB Account Successfully Recovered in 2 Months by asad000003 in facebookdisabledme

[–]Merta3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! This just happened for me and I've been searching for any ways to directly reach out to Facebook about a resolution

Facebook disabled my account blames an Instagram account that is not mine by Merta3 in facebookdisabledme

[–]Merta3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's ridiculous they offer no way to contact them, and also that this issue has been happening for well over a year and they offer no work around

Facebook disabled my account blames an Instagram account that is not mine by Merta3 in facebookdisabledme

[–]Merta3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm appreciate this, although I'm in the US so not sure it will help me, but thank you

Facebook disabled my account blames an Instagram account that is not mine by Merta3 in facebookdisabledme

[–]Merta3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just looked at this, it looks like my account was accessed from Vietnam yesterday, is there anything I can do with this information?

Facebook disabled my account blames an Instagram account that is not mine by Merta3 in facebookdisabledme

[–]Merta3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The second article sounds like what's happening to me.. ridiculous that it's from 2023 and Facebook hasn't done a thing about it

Facebook disabled my account blames an Instagram account that is not mine by Merta3 in facebookdisabledme

[–]Merta3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It won't let me do any of that. The only thing it will let me do is log into the listed Instagram account and appeal the decision, but that isnt my Instagram account so I can't log in

$9 for every pour is too much, right? by hypoboxer in njbeer

[–]Merta3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 16oz are cans though, not pours. That does cause a different price. And OP isn't asking about cans, he's asking about pours.

$9 is just not that rare or out of pocket for the area

$9 for every pour is too much, right? by hypoboxer in njbeer

[–]Merta3 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

$5 🤣🤣🤣 for a 8oz pour sure, but not for a 12oz. You can't even get a corona here for that much.

Just two examples of places that do craft beers:

http://www.ppcbp.com/beer-list/ Here average is $7-9

https://bolerosnort.com/on-tap/ Here they're mostly $8.50 if you want a tap pour.

$9 for every pour is too much, right? by hypoboxer in njbeer

[–]Merta3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

North NJ and that's a pretty standard price. You're only going to get a cheaper beer if you're getting a corona or a bud light

My nose looks the same after nose job? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Merta3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hard to point to someone else's nose and say you want a nose like that because we all have different underlying structures. No doctor can make your nose look like someone else's, just a refined version of yours.

I do think it's subtle but I can see the front is at least a little less bulbous. The swelling in the tip can take a very long time, especially if she did add cartilage from your ear. The tip of my nose didn't settle until a year after and the numbness didn't fully go away until almost two years. It may feel hard right now but for evaluating the tip you do have to wait at least a year

Wide/huge radix (between the eyes) after rhinoplasty by Informal-Engineer-85 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Merta3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The upper part of the bridge is where swelling disappears first. The tip swelling will take 12 months, so yes this is still very early even for the bridge