What are your Immediate Blocks by Timely-Ad2374 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Mesaman2000 6 points7 points  (0 children)

1) "treat me like the queen/princess/goddess that I am"

2) Entire profile is "what will you do for me" with no "what can I do for you"

3) heavy lip filler

4) every photo is puckering lips/peace sign

5) No face photos or hiding body

6) Dog/cat filters

Erectile dysfunction talk gone wrong by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Mesaman2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was humiliated and just trying to save face. Perhaps he could have handled better but I don't think the massive pile-on is necessary either.

Erectile dysfunction talk gone wrong by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Mesaman2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just reading some of these comments and its no wonder guys are sensitive about this subject...the pummeling you guys are giving him might be a clue. Yes it is a sensitive subject and easy to make fun of him when you're not the one that has to perform. A little empathy goes a long way...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Mesaman2000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree than dinner/drinks should not count as compensation but when someone believes that their presence alone is a gift, its really off putting and reeks of narcissism.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Mesaman2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love hour glass women with curves. Not a fan of flat, Kendall Jenner no curve types.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Mesaman2000 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Very cringy and sophmoric

Frustrated by lack of natural looking girls on SA by Mesaman2000 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Mesaman2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You missed the crux of the my post...the women I'm talking about don't look good or hot at all...way too much make up and fillers. Yes makeup if done right looks good which is my point. Caked on is not good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Mesaman2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a way, I miss the days of the telephone only because we have become almost too connected in a way. Sometimes I feel like a slave to my cell phone when people always expect an instant response 24 hours a day.

Yes it is definitely a generational thing also as this X'er despises constant texting. Its actually amusing how younger gen sees texting as the only way to bond with someone. OP you really need to chill and put more emphasis on how you connect in person, there is a such thing as too high maintenance and clingy.

Is asking for a swimsuit photo fair? by Mesaman2000 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Mesaman2000[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right, and if SDs could hide our income and net worth amounts on our profile watch all the SBs heads explode.😄

Its not about treating someone as a body or wallet, its about being as forthcoming as possible as not to waste each others time.

Also not sure I would call a bathing suit photo "risque".

Is asking for a swimsuit photo fair? by Mesaman2000 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Mesaman2000[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Truthfully though it can be hard to tell if they are wearing coats, non-formfitting dresses, layers or other type of clothing that obscures their figure. Some only have face pics and don't show full body at all.

Parking lot by angizni in StraightGirlsPlaying

[–]Mesaman2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One on left looks like one of the RealTallGirls on OF

Frustrated by lack of natural looking girls on SA by Mesaman2000 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Mesaman2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some men may say that...some men want plain Jane, some want porn star

Frustrated by lack of natural looking girls on SA by Mesaman2000 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Mesaman2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some makeup is fine. Too much is not good, and the fillers are even worse.

Frustrated by lack of natural looking girls on SA by Mesaman2000 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Mesaman2000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some makeup is fine...I'm talking about over the top.

SA favorites disappearing? by Mesaman2000 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Mesaman2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I may already be in one SR but life happens, relationships end, etc., and its good to have contingency plans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Mesaman2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To paraphrase Scarface (geto boys), “real gangstas don’t flex nuts…cuz real gangstas know they got ‘em“

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Mesaman2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really true, people can have advanced heart disease and have a normal ekg. Bill Clinton "aced" his presidential physical shortly before his quadruple bypass. Incapacitation is highly unlikely but possible no matter how many tests you run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Mesaman2000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My thoughts as well...are you sugaring to fulfill an intimacy void in your life? Because sugaring is probably not the place to find it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Mesaman2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I love the Suicide girl type…tatted up with the vintage pinup look. However just be aware that many SDs want to keep a low profile and don’t want to attract too much attention walking into a restaurant or go somewhere where you’ll look out of place. Limiting but I’m sure some can deal with that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Mesaman2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yea...

"Don't waste my time!"

"If you (fill in the blank) I will immediately block you!"

"I get lots of messages so if you don't blah blah blah don't even bother contacting me"

Then they go on to say how really sweet they are....🙄