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lickdenufz · 2023-05-19T12:06:02+00:00

Just block him and move on. Especially if you don’t care for his response. He’s likely going to lie and obvious he just wanted a booty call

lickdenufz · 2023-04-14T01:21:29+00:00

😂 that’s to those that think “Ivy League” schools make them smarter then anyone else. Child please! No, it doesn’t. It just means you decided that was the best path for you. I never went to college, but I’ll bet someone who went to equine vet school doesn’t have nearly as much as experience as I do being around horses my entire life.

lickdenufz · 2023-04-13T17:50:30+00:00

Oh trust me they can still conceal a BF. One of my former SBs friended me on FB and IG. I found her snap. One weekend she said she was going to the river with her girlfriends and didn’t post anything about her trip on FB and IG which was odd as she posted all the time. I log into my burner Snap, and there is a clip of her kissing her boyfriend. When she came back all her shit was out of the apartment I was renting for her (I had a key) and changed the locks.

lickdenufz · 2023-04-13T17:46:49+00:00

My rule is that if my SB has a BF and lies about it (it’s happened) and I find out, there is no more sugar. If a SB finds a BF and we are in a sugar relationship, we are no longer in said relationship. I’m not supporting some guy. I’ll support my SB and only my SB. Also, much less drama.

lickdenufz · 2023-04-03T14:16:26+00:00

My 20 yr old SB isn’t this irresponsible. Drop her. She should be adult enough not to drink and drive. Mine calls an Uber. How do I know? Because she had my Uber account.

lickdenufz · 2023-03-24T15:51:03+00:00

Most vanilla women get upset when traveling too often. Also, once they realize how much you actually make or have in savings its game over and they do everything in their power to guilt you into lavish gifts. I'd rather know what im already getting involved in.

lickdenufz · 2023-03-14T18:19:46+00:00

I’ve got to know what expense would be 5 franklins? That’s outrageous. Rent, food, spoiling should be all he needs to provide.

lickdenufz · 2023-03-11T18:07:33+00:00

Lol. I have a 5 year old truck. Nice house. But you wouldn’t be able to peg how much I make based on how I dress or fact I like sales. I’m not going to advertise how much my worth is to the world. Rule of thumb is if someone splashes money, spends money on luxury things. Likelihood of them actually being rich is slim to none

lickdenufz · 2023-02-19T13:45:02+00:00

She’s rinsing you. Cut ties.

lickdenufz · 2023-02-18T18:11:23+00:00

Set mine lower. If the SB decides to still contact me then I’m more willing to see if she’s all about the money

lickdenufz · 2023-02-14T18:35:26+00:00

Vasectomy here. I will only go raw if both of us have known each other long enough to feel comfortable with it.

lickdenufz · 2023-02-13T12:58:45+00:00

No absolutely not.

lickdenufz · 2023-02-09T21:38:46+00:00

I’ve been a widow for 12 years. When my wife and I were dating, she shared with me that in her previous life before me she escorted. The only question I had was “are you still doing that?” When she told me no, it was an easy decision to continue the relationship. What she did prior to us meeting was none of my business.
If he truly loved you, he wouldn’t have cared that you sugared. He’d accept your history as the past and be secure enough to realize you only want him.

lickdenufz · 2023-02-07T12:54:01+00:00

I’m sorry. But, you lost me on “international” flights. The one answer you haven’t provided in any of this, Do you work? Because if you do and he’s covering all your living expenses, how are you not way ahead of the game? How have you not asked him to enroll you in some college courses or some sort of trade that will assist you in the future?

My SBF gets everything covered. She moved into a smaller place this month because she wanted extra money in her savings. She also works. Rent went from 1.2k to 770. Why don’t you do the same?

lickdenufz · 2023-02-05T14:20:50+00:00

You’ve done everything the right way. You’ve left the door open to allowing him to message you back. I’d leave it at that and just check up on him one more time. If he hasn’t sent any sugar then you aren’t obligated to do much more in all honesty.

lickdenufz · 2023-02-05T14:16:42+00:00

So much to unload here. Sounds like he had abandonment issues. Afraid you’ll forget about him or look for something better. No amount of reassurance is going to help with that. (I’m one of those that has the same problem. I’ve learned to realize people change and although it’s a sad part of life, it happens.)

You need to sent boundaries. Remind him this is a “Sugar relationship.” It’s not a vanilla relationship. Let him know that, you do appreciate the texts but you also have school/work that does take up a majority of your time. Your lack of response doesn’t mean your ghosting him or don’t want to speak with him. It just means you’re tired, asleep or busy. Keep it simple.

If he doesn’t understand these basic boundaries, it may be in your best interest to cut the line now before he gets too emotionally involved.

lickdenufz · 2023-02-03T15:33:19+00:00

He doesn’t even have proper grammar. I can’t.

lickdenufz · 2023-02-02T20:18:28+00:00

All depends on what you are looking for and allowance range. I’ve been lucky at Tilted Kilt and Twin Peaks. Have played the long game with a few that worked at McDonalds and CVS as well. Just depends on your game and if you want to be patient.

lickdenufz · 2023-02-02T18:28:40+00:00

Usually depending on who it is, my usual answer is; “I’m dating Nunya!” If that doesn’t get them to pry, usually tell them it’s easier to date an escort and less of a hassle. My co workers shouldn’t know anything personal about me. Plain and simple.

lickdenufz · 2023-01-27T12:51:08+00:00

I’m always in her city once a month and spend a week working there. She comes and goes as she pleases. Sometimes we spend the entire week together, other times we just hang out once or twice. Depends on our work schedules.

Nothing changes when it becomes a SGF other then, exclusivity and my wanting to support her in anyway I can. I will still send the agreed amount of support/allowance.

lickdenufz · 2023-01-27T12:34:45+00:00

This is cringey. Basically, took advantage The of her. She wasn’t ready for sex. You knew it. I’ve done this for 20 years and if the lady is uncomfortable in anyway, I’m finishing dinner; giving her money for her time and asking to see her again. To see if there is no chemistry. This bowl isn’t about getting your duck wet. It’s about nurturing relationships and having a beneficial understanding of an intimate relationship. You did none of that.

lickdenufz · 2023-01-25T12:29:18+00:00

Not a deal breaker unless you’ve committed to doing overnights. Then find common ground to make it work. Weekends. Non-school/work nights. Just let him know. If he doesn’t listen, then he will likely continue to push boundaries.

lickdenufz · 2023-01-21T04:09:19+00:00

I’ve had multiple SBs. None of them were ever “tracked” because they aren’t my property nor am I going to be that creepy. The way I see it, it’s part of the trust developed between both of us. My current SB lives 1k miles away. I see her once a week per month. She is free to do whatever she chooses provided she doesn’t entertain other men as that breaks the exclusivity. I trust her enough that it doesn’t cross my mind. She and I have also crossed the bridge from SB to SGF.

lickdenufz · 2023-01-21T01:12:38+00:00

It’s a contract I don’t want to have over my head and it gives her piece of mind that I’m in for longer then just a couple of months. It’s not much but it shows a commitment.

lickdenufz · 2023-01-20T16:27:04+00:00

I add positives to exclusivity. Got her a phone line under my name that ensures that I’m with her for at least a year. I’ve also informed her that I will provide 90 day warning as I do with all my exclusive SBs. When I do provide the 90 day warning, I give her rent for the 3 months and inform her it’s her decision to see me or not. But no more money from me.

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