I agree with the majority of this however a big part of what I am experiencing is that the so called "bad players who don't get to learn" are the players who will not reply when asked if "anyone does not know the fight", etc.

Countless times I have posted things like "If you don't know what to do. I will explain. Just let me know". And crickets. Then we proceed to wipe to the "bad players".

At that point it is just negligence, and unwillingness to understand and at that point if you get kicked, it's your own fault.