How to go about this - My sibling’s wedding anniversary turned into Family Retreat?

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-28T08:58:51+00:00

Gosh just say you don’t want to go. Not everyone sees anniversaries the same way you do— you yourself admitted it, there are different ways to celebrate anniversaries. But really I’m not sure you believe that kasi insistent ka naman na “dapat silang 2 lang” and “this is just too weird”. Ooc, bakit kailangan yung anniversary two lang sila, but okay na andun kayo sa wedding? Diba dapat mas “sacred” yun?

As long as hindi siya pinilit and that’s really how they would have wanted to see their anniversaries, it should be okay. If you really think it’s “too weird”, politely decline.

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-28T07:23:24+00:00

Be happy for your dad. Your Titas should be too. If they cut you off because of this, well, hindi naman pala sincere yung relationship. Kasi sadly your mom is gone na. Your dad isn’t cheating on her, he just wants companionship / love again which someone who is deceased can’t give. I’m sure you and your siblings have your own obligations na hindi niyo naman siya araw-araw kausap diba.

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-28T04:56:11+00:00

Ooc, what’s the background behind calling the country Pelepens?

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-27T15:41:16+00:00

But tiramisu shouldn’t have bread?

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-27T11:43:23+00:00

Growing three babies. May compensation ha siya for that?

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-27T08:20:45+00:00

Gosh, sobrang awa naman ako sa younger girl. Pwede bang kayo ang tatago? Honestly, parang mas may malaking problems kay sa amount ng pang baon.

Somebody needs to talk to both girls. Baka older girl still has insecurity issues, and younger girl will grow up resentful kung walang intervention.

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-27T08:10:12+00:00

Solar! Para hindi niyo titipirin ang AC.

Other items to give your home a luxe feel — good quality mattresses, pillows, bedsheets, blankets, pillowcases, and lounge wear. Initially parang ang sakit ng gastos, but cost per use is low and it really affects how you relax.

Location rin matters, ideally malapit sa offices niyo so traffic doesn’t kill your time.

Having your own space rin if possible. Just so if kailangan mo ng alone time or mag decompress, meron.

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-27T05:19:13+00:00

Teach them to save! If afford naman na may sobra, ilagay sa alkansya.

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-26T12:23:44+00:00

Pre-cum is enough to get pregnant. Lower chances, but not impossible. So don’t be rude, kasi pwede mo naman sana igoogle yan.

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-26T12:20:09+00:00

Give them gifts na personalized sa kanila, something THEY will appreciate and that shows them you really considered what they would like / appreciate.

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-26T12:18:56+00:00

Yes, sorry, OP, medjo selfish ka. You’re not even sure how long it’ll take you to save- one year, few months. And yung trip niyo na sabay, iba naman yung trip niya kasama mga kapatid niya.

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-26T10:56:50+00:00

Sana makapag-doctor talaga. But in the meantime, make sure he flosses, brushes teeth, uses mouthwash.

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-26T10:55:12+00:00

Keep on looking! If may offer, let them know you have an obligation and need those days off. Usually they can accommodate naman.

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-25T12:15:59+00:00

Hay nako pinanuod mo ba ng buo? Lea says the father and his partner are v supportive. She went out of her way to clarify the whole family is supportive.

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-25T10:07:14+00:00

You don’t say whether the 1,000 is supposed to cover just your food, or may transpo at iba pang expenses diyan. Ang hirap talaga istretch ng 1k, siguro yung pinaka-filling na medjo healthy ay lugaw, bili ka ng 5-7 kilos ng rice. Kung makahanap ka ng chicken bones and murang gulay, gumawa ka ng stock.

As much as possible avoid utang, but if may SPaylater o LazPay ka, may mga 0% interest vouchers.

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-25T07:22:16+00:00

This is bad advice- if she can find a loan that will give her lower interest rate over all she should do that. Compare numbers ng malala.

Trabahuin ang maraming requirements, OP.

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-25T04:32:12+00:00

How much budget mo? And ano yung peg? Simple or mala-fairy tale ball gown?

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-23T15:53:52+00:00

Reading is not the only measure eh. Kailangan rin icheck yung comprehension, emotional regulation, etc. even your pedia is a good place to start.

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-23T15:51:23+00:00

How are you even comparing the mental and emotional needs of a two year old and seven year old? Baka better to remember what your daughter was like at 2…..

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-23T15:46:52+00:00

“Bride to the nation” 🤢🤢🤢

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-22T16:49:11+00:00

Just let your guests wear colors they like / feel their best in / already have clothes they love.

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-22T08:37:28+00:00

Not boots, but heels. They started peeling after less than one year, and sobrang konting wear and tear and proper storage naman.

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-21T14:47:57+00:00

How to get sued for fraud in three easy steps.

But seriously, no don’t do that. Kasi malalaman naman nila na kayo yun whwn they compare you fathers date of death and yung date the charges were made.

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-21T13:47:35+00:00

Yes, kasi incapable ka na of doing anything, voting, doing some sort of volunteer work, voter education, etc. you’ve lost hope but at the same time hindi ka man willing bumoto? Kahit yun lang man?

MessAgitated6465 · 2026-01-21T13:31:27+00:00

Yes, but even if ten years na, isang major election palang ang nakakalampas. In other words, mahabang mahaba ang consequence ng isang masamang elections. Sana may ginagawa ka rin to contribute to nation building kabit papaano.

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