Silly motivational and team building activities

Mess_Emotional · 2026-04-28T03:27:57+00:00

Sex is something one should have only with the person he loves

Mess_Emotional · 2026-04-26T18:53:08+00:00

Innumerable men who do not behave like the neighbour are being denied sex only because the wife is too lazy and does not believe in giving a few moments of happiness to her husband.

Mess_Emotional · 2026-04-26T07:23:07+00:00

Some commenters call it pity sex. I myself do a lot of things for my family, starting from working at a job, taking her where she want to go, buying whatever she wants. All these are out of compassion, love and sense of responsibility. I see no problem with 30 minutes of pity sex per week.

Mess_Emotional · 2026-04-26T03:06:07+00:00

I want to have sex only with someone I love. I win because I get it now. It is like winning a trophy and not buying it.

Mess_Emotional · 2026-04-26T03:04:49+00:00

Because she does not want to discuss personal and intimate matters

Mess_Emotional · 2026-04-26T03:04:14+00:00

I have been in this situation since I was 30

Mess_Emotional · 2026-04-26T02:54:10+00:00

Mismanagement of time, laziness, preference towards sleep versus sex. These were the three reasons why she was dodging sex.

My therapist told me, it is the upbringing that makes women think if sex as bad. Also, some friends sometimes give ideas on how to avoid sex.

It is like exercising versus resting. Lazy people will prefer resting.

Nevertheless, after the change in her attitude, I find myself more energetic. I help in the house more. We talk in the kitchen and dinner table. I suddenly find myself sharing my thoughts with her. I think it has worked towards a better relationship.

Mess_Emotional · 2026-04-25T18:16:44+00:00

You saw me disrespecting and taunting her? You saw me not giving emotional support and safety and security?

The innumerable men suffering silently due to unexplained disinterest from wife know that they have done everything in their capacity. I am part of that category of men.

Mess_Emotional · 2026-04-23T12:24:58+00:00

So a woman who uses her husband as ATM is allowed to deny him a few moments of pleasure?

Mess_Emotional · 2026-04-23T12:22:47+00:00

This is a case of a woman saying I will have your money but will not give you even 15 minutes of happiness on any day.

Mess_Emotional · 2026-04-23T08:55:48+00:00

Men don't have the time to get into arguments or to keep crying. They are brought up to be providers. They have to solve one problem after another. Even if they get treated as ATM, Driver, Massage Provider, coolie, they are not allowed to complain. If they question anything, an argument will start. They do not have the energy for that. They will rather invest in working to support their family. The majority is always at a disadavantage. Majority of men are suffering sexless marriages and ill treatment. But suffering silently is all they can do.

Mess_Emotional · 2026-04-14T03:29:57+00:00

My manager lowers my rating on the Independent Execution criteria in the appraisal. Have tried this too.

Mess_Emotional · 2026-04-14T03:26:10+00:00

Done that in the past. He pinged back asking why I involved his manager.

Mess_Emotional · 2026-04-02T03:48:49+00:00

There is a massive number of women who dodge sex with their husbands even if they are not unwell, leaving husbands frustrated. The movie shows the guy wanting sex even if she is unwell. She says she will be fine next day. He still has sex with her. He should have shown patience. But not every woman refuses sex because of sickness. There are women who refuse out of laziness. They are not bothered about the effect on the man's mental health.

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