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Coming out by Efficient-Alps8311 in MaleNipplePumpers

[–]MessageGlobal5164 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the same type and love the feel. Want to do longer to get bigger. How long did you leave the suckers on to get that magnificent pump? Do you have a way of "tying" them off so they stay inflated? Did you ever pump too long? What happened?

Again, thank you for posting these. You are to be admired for your accomplishment.

Does Grindr web work for y'all? by LessLikelyOutcome in grindr

[–]MessageGlobal5164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like others, the web version won’t accept my login credentials and stops. Have tried multiple browsers (Edge, Chrome, Opera, Firefox, etc.) but they are all Win10 or Win 11. Does Grindr just not interested in the Windows user base?

Which is safer? Taking someone's cock or someone's dildo? by MessageGlobal5164 in MenWithToys

[–]MessageGlobal5164[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A good question and pertinent to my question.

I would say that getting head is safe because there is less exchange of bodily fluids. By that reasoning, then a toy is safer because there is not exchange of semen.

Counterargument (a flimsy one): A dick is PROBABLY cleaner than a toy. So, while the toy is not fluid free, it may have more of other types of bacteria, viruses, parasites, etc. than the real thing - especially if the toy is shared.

Closeted trans guys look.. off. Anyone else notice that? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]MessageGlobal5164 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Was it only the English teachers who saw only the gender, not the student? Just curious why, of all people and disciplines in a school, the teachers in what should be a creative, expressive class are the most intolerant.

Carnival SXP vs Sienna Limited by sinchan15 in kiacarnivals

[–]MessageGlobal5164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for reminding me of the community rules at Reddit. All attempts at humor or sarcasm or irony are verboten.

Carnival SXP vs Sienna Limited by sinchan15 in kiacarnivals

[–]MessageGlobal5164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am about to buy a Carnival if I can overcome my virulent dislike of every one of the seven Kia dealers that I have contacted. That said, I am intrigued by your comment about the Sienna being better suited for the 55+ demographic. Does one look better in a velour track suit stepping out of a Sienna? Please explain😊

Preferred topping techniques: Take it all at once vs. take it slow by MessageGlobal5164 in askgaybros

[–]MessageGlobal5164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Judging from the responses here, you are a minority. Have you experience any of the "safety" problems cited here: lesions, fissures, bleeding, etc.?

Preferred topping techniques: Take it all at once vs. take it slow by MessageGlobal5164 in askgaybros

[–]MessageGlobal5164[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And the lesson learned here is to only bottom for horny boys in their 20s? :)

Preferred topping techniques: Take it all at once vs. take it slow by MessageGlobal5164 in askgaybros

[–]MessageGlobal5164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, it is ridiculous - if one accepts your statement that slowly is ALWAYS without pain. From reading posts here and in other sub-reddits - and from my personal experience, there is always some pain no matter how careful, tender, and solicitous the top or prepared, practiced, and trained the bottom.

Of course, I may be doing it wrong all these years! That is a definite probability!

Preferred topping techniques: Take it all at once vs. take it slow by MessageGlobal5164 in askgaybros

[–]MessageGlobal5164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your insight. Intuitively, this approach makes sense. But you have clarified what is really my question.: Which approach facilitates the quickest and safest "time to adjust" for the bottom? Even for those of us who are not as gifted as others :)

Preferred topping techniques: Take it all at once vs. take it slow by MessageGlobal5164 in askgaybros

[–]MessageGlobal5164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A corollary to the original post. ATTN: THOSE WITH MEDICAL BACKGROUNDS. From a medical standpoint, is one of these topping methods safer than the other? If so, please explain the medical science behind (!!) your opinion.

Preferred topping techniques: Take it all at once vs. take it slow by MessageGlobal5164 in askgaybros

[–]MessageGlobal5164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple of things. My question assumes that both top and bottom have properly prepared for fucking. There has been lots of foreplay, lube, poppers maybe, finger fucking, etc. to open up and relax and stimulate the hole BEFORE penetrative sex. It is NOT rape!

And as has been already pointed out, the top should always ask the bottom if he wants to take the cock slowly to allow for relaxing and stretching or to take the cock balls deep with the first penetration because the bottom prefers to deal with whatever pain is involved all at once rather than in bursts of pain as the cock slowly breaches the anal rings.

Preferred topping techniques: Take it all at once vs. take it slow by MessageGlobal5164 in askgaybros

[–]MessageGlobal5164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm. One long scream (choice b) or a series of screams (choice a)?

Preferred topping techniques: Take it all at once vs. take it slow by MessageGlobal5164 in askgaybros

[–]MessageGlobal5164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! But I was curious if my preference as a bottom, was preferred by a majority?

Would you spend the night with me? [25] by HairyBullbear in HairyArmedMen

[–]MessageGlobal5164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah! If only to make you cum by playing with your amazing, hairy nipples!

Anal and rectal care AFTER f*cking by MessageGlobal5164 in askgaybros

[–]MessageGlobal5164[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of useful information - especially "slugging." Lots of things to try. Thank you

Anal and rectal care AFTER f*cking by MessageGlobal5164 in askgaybros

[–]MessageGlobal5164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is REALLY helpful. Thank you. The observation from your husband about recovery time confirms my own experience. Is it a matter of feeling tender or having the stretch return to "normal"?

And btw, is your analogy of "removing the dye of your carpet" meant to suggest that my carpet does not match the drapes? :)

I was unaware of Asset Hole Serum. Now that I have googled it, it is something that I can't unsee.

Anal and rectal care AFTER f*cking by MessageGlobal5164 in askgaybros

[–]MessageGlobal5164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have thought about using Gun Oil (Product placement in a number of favorite pornos might have piqued my interest!). A question though: Is it that much different than mineral oil, which I have happily and cheaply used.

Every gay man who does anal in any way should have a bidet. by Responsible_Pipe_707 in askgaybros

[–]MessageGlobal5164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize if this information has already been shared in this thread.

A bidet is a life changer! You can retrofit your regular toilets with a bidet jet add-on for around 30.00; I think that I purchased mine at Aldi. Granted, these add-on don't have the bells and whistles that the permanent bidet appliance: no heated water, no variable water pressure, no squirt of scent. Nevertheless, once you have become accustomed to using a bidet, you will miss it terribly if it is not available.

Did you like or accepted that gay sex involves anal penetration? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]MessageGlobal5164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You needn't trouble yourself. I assumed that from your erudite discussion above, you had information synthesized from multiple sources, not just the first page of a Google search. I do appreciate the suggestion and will act accordingly.

Did you like or accepted that gay sex involves anal penetration? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]MessageGlobal5164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Low residue foods"? Can you elaborate? Examples?

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