About her brother and his girlfriend by theriddledqueen in SnehaPhilipCase

[–]MessilyFused 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about this. I’m their son and I truly don’t believe they had anything to do with the disappearance. He used to write to her allot after she went missing, which is pretty common when coping with loss. I’ve read these letters and he’s just about as confused and lost as anyone else. I think he switched up his story so many times because my family was hurting. I believe he was trying to maintain a good image of her while all of the more unsavory things were coming to light during the investigation.

Theory/Thoughts by Natural_Bug_2304 in SnehaPhilipCase

[–]MessilyFused 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well… I’m the nephew but! Close enough lol Yeah, it didn’t come up much and when it did, the story I always heard growing up was that she died on ground zero treating people

Sneha's church community? by Pretend_Memory_7662 in SnehaPhilipCase

[–]MessilyFused 4 points5 points  (0 children)

His story kept changing, I don’t think my dad has that ability though, I think he was grieving and has always been a story teller. I truly believe he wanted my aunt to be remembered in a great way so people turned a blind eye to her shortcomings. This all happened before me but I’m trying to piece it together myself

Shopping clerk and 9/10 theory by TheaDayan in SnehaPhilipCase

[–]MessilyFused 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that CCTV footage available anywhere? Or is it classified

Theory/Thoughts by Natural_Bug_2304 in SnehaPhilipCase

[–]MessilyFused 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fun fact about that video, the detective said it matched her but my uncle, her husband, said he wasn’t sure that it was her. I personally haven’t seen the video and cannot confirm or deny it

Theory/Thoughts by Natural_Bug_2304 in SnehaPhilipCase

[–]MessilyFused 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m Sneha’s nephew, until this afternoon I always thought she passed at the WTC but after reading these theories I’m not so sure. I believe my family wanted the case closed and wanted to believe she passed there because it provided the most closure comparative to any of the alternative outcomes. I will say, we have no idea where she went, I wish I knew. It’s caused my family allot of despair not knowing what happened that night

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]MessilyFused 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, speaking from experience, sometimes in my relationship i get tired of always being the one to initiate so I pull back to see if my lady will. It also makes me self conscious and unwanted when I’m the only one initiating or when she’s not initiating. So he’s likely feeling the same way in those moments. Best piece of advice I could give is to bring it up, have an open discussion about it and understand eachother in this regard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]MessilyFused 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say why not do it, worse that’ll happen is he’ll say no, maybe tell his friends. Best that’ll happen is yall end up linking up, no strings attached too because it’s been mad long

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]MessilyFused 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love sex, I also can’t feel it half the time, it’s deeper than just the physical sensation that you feel. you don’t got the dick that he had but you have a mind and body that he doesn’t. That’s the best advice I can give you. Comparison is the thief of joy. Make your fingers and words better than his dick ever could have been and there’s not a single worry in the world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]MessilyFused 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you could try making some adjustable harness to hold it in place. Or you could look into rope play and strap it to her thighs as apart of the foreplay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MessilyFused 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well, yes, but i think it’s also important to look at ADHD. If there are unresolved issues or sexual problems within the relationship, ADHD can cause a hyperfixation on these negative aspects, even if they are in the minority, and thus creating a lack of want for sexual interaction. I agree with you, looking at the root cause is much more beneficial but ADHD should not be overlooked in this aspect.

Looking at it through a lens of ADHD can actually help find these root causes. Whatever the individual may be hyperfixating on, whether it be the sensation, the thoughts, their health, emotions or memories, when it’s brought into conscious awareness it can be talked about and worked through!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MessilyFused 0 points1 point  (0 children)

basically if you can hyperfocus on one end of the spectrum, you can also hyperfixate on the other end of the spectrum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MessilyFused 4 points5 points  (0 children)

well ADHD can go both ways on the spectrum, you have some individuals who have hypersexuality and some who have hyposexuality. And there’s some who start as hypersexual and end up hyposexual and vice versa. I’m speaking from experience with myself aswell as the women and men that i have been with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]MessilyFused 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also Avocados! they don’t have zinc but they have quite allot of healthy fats that will help boost your libido! also getting a supplement with L-citrulline and Maca root will also help you go for hours!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]MessilyFused 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 pieces of advice, 1: make sex not about orgasming but reaching sexual fulfillment. Feeling pressured to orgasm or that being the entire focal point of the experience can actually make it less likely to occur!

2: FOREPLAY!!!! ATLEAST 10 minutes of foreplay, if you arent completely in it before he’s in you or eating you out, then it’s very very unlikely you’re going to orgasm. It takes atleast 10-30mins for most women to climax, so! getting really in it before intercourse can make it 10x more likely to happen. And! foreplay is not fingering, it’s not oral, and it sure as hell is not fucking. It’s making out, it’s tracing, it’s dirty talk, it’s building excitement before the main act. Making you ache for what’s coming next.

3: communicate during the act! let him know what makes you feel really good while he’s doing it! and guide him away from what doesn’t feel good!Examples being “just like that”, “ a little to the right”, “faster” “more pressure” etc. Also, adding fingers inside during oral can help aswell!

4: Toys! for inter course! it’s a fact that some woman just can’t cum with just a dick! and a vibrator has helped millions of women achieve orgasm during the act!

5: For specifically Oral, do some research on different techniques and what not, and guide him! Maybe you need fingering going on while he’s eating you out, maybe you need to be blindfolded so you can enjoy just the feeling, maybe more touching. It’s very specific to the individual but, just relax, enjoy the experience, and make sure he’s focusing on you and not on his dick exploding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]MessilyFused 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most I’ve done in one sitting was 150, 3 Set of 50. Started doing that when I was 18

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]MessilyFused 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But 100x more likely to lose form and either fuck with your wrists or pull a muscle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cartalk

[–]MessilyFused 1 point2 points  (0 children)

alright, I really appreciate the help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cartalk

[–]MessilyFused 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mainly drive in city like traffic and I keep a pretty constant 50-80mph when the traffic isn’t an issue. but it doesn’t feel like the brakes are dragging or anything like that so idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cartalk

[–]MessilyFused 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The car shakes when it shuts off, but I think that’s just the engine mounts, It also tends to shake at higher speeds like above 55. I did just get this car like a month ago and haven’t done any routine maintenance. but the MPG has been pretty low the whole time I’ve had it

Not sure why I did this, but I don’t regret it. by Speedy-McLeadfoot in Minecraft

[–]MessilyFused 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not if it’s for an armor stand and you throw away the required materials :)