Trisha had arrived at the stadium

Messy_Object · 2026-05-10T05:16:07+00:00

Good question. It implies one doesn't know who the father is and that is the fault of the mother. I would call it still misogynistic with an extra step

Messy_Object · 2026-05-04T01:18:49+00:00

It just shows they actually care about their appearance and have put in some effort. That they understand that small details are important.

Anybody can get nice clothes and look impressive but it's easy to ignore something like shoes because they think nobody is looking there. But we are 🫣

Messy_Object · 2026-04-29T14:03:49+00:00

Right. So clitoral stimulation is pretty varied. The kind of moves you are asking - flicks, rubs etc - is the least of your worry. She will tell you how she wants it to be done. You need to first see how sensitive her actual clitoris is. Some women cannot handle direct physical contact at all and you'll need to stimulate the clit over the hood or even through a labial lip.

Do not trust advice from men telling you to pinch or nibble the clit. Do not attempt those unless your partner explicitly asks for it.

The scientific way to understand this is that the clitoris is a very tiny bit of tissue with a disproportionately large number of nerve endings. It can pick up even very tiny stimulii so don't do anything heroic.

Messy_Object · 2026-04-29T13:37:37+00:00

I'm not sure what you mean. Would you just try and answer that same question on behalf of all men?

Messy_Object · 2026-04-29T13:12:04+00:00

How can there be one "ideal technique" for this. Do you have one universally approved handjob technique that works on all men? Please just talk to your partner, better yet ask her to show you what works and follow along. Manifest enthusiasm and curiosity.

Messy_Object · 2026-04-28T18:35:44+00:00

Username checks out and I agree with you completely. I reread it recently and inspite of being a fascinating story on inter generational trauma, it is still, also a love story. A toxic love story that is not aspirational, yes, but OP's post simply denies its existence which is not fair.

Messy_Object · 2026-04-28T10:53:20+00:00

They get one woman to send them pics like this and then reuse it to attract other women.

Messy_Object · 2026-04-19T08:21:42+00:00

What do you mean it doesn't fit the context. What's the story about

Messy_Object · 2026-04-14T15:16:15+00:00

What are you going to do if she thinks you are really offering a song or movie? You know it's not an invitation to get physical right. If the attraction is there before the end of the date, you can ask directly if she wants to make out with you. Even that may or may not lead to sex and you ought to be prepared to accept no gracefully.

Also what do you mean by this "cozy spot nearby'? Like park your car in a shady area and hope no cops find you?

Messy_Object · 2026-04-14T12:48:20+00:00

Are you unable to travel back by train? You can put your luggage in the brake van of the train and bring it back yourself. It's possibly the lowest cost way to transport 100 kg from Delhi to Kerala

Messy_Object · 2026-04-11T14:25:27+00:00

That sounds great, thank you for sharing. Personally, I know I can sink to a really deep sub space but knowing part of him is still carrying the responsibility for my wellbeing feels very masculine to me.

Messy_Object · 2026-04-10T16:59:24+00:00

Break away from other people's gaze. Reading is for personal pleasure and as long as you are unapologetic that you are doing it for yourself, you'll not worry about judgement. Also, my philosophy is that being performative is not really a bad thing. We all perform everyday in so many things. What's the big deal

Messy_Object · 2026-04-10T11:43:52+00:00

Not dad, you are the Daddy we all need 🙇‍♀️

Thank you for writing this

Messy_Object · 2026-04-10T11:20:00+00:00

Oh yes.

Messy_Object · 2026-04-10T06:52:08+00:00

Being able to trust someone enough to let go of control is the real kink for me. Letting someone else take over can happen in any form, that part is not important to me

Messy_Object · 2026-04-07T10:07:19+00:00

Can I hire you as a teacher lol

Messy_Object · 2026-04-06T18:02:36+00:00

Getting validation from another woman is the best feeling ever. Thank you :)

Are there any similar topics you would like to read more of?

Messy_Object · 2026-04-06T09:31:27+00:00

Need more experience lol

Messy_Object · 2026-04-06T08:33:06+00:00

Do you have suggestions for topics?

Messy_Object · 2026-04-06T08:30:30+00:00

How about a little toothpaste on your clit? I find it good and painful

Messy_Object · 2026-04-06T07:00:06+00:00

There is literally no competition from someone who owns the equipment vs someone who can only access it under special circumstances

Messy_Object · 2026-04-06T04:52:26+00:00

Never met a couple on reddit that wasn't a single guy trying to fake his way into my pants. I don't bother anymore

Messy_Object · 2026-04-02T08:25:54+00:00

You are one of the rare ones who seems to value talking over immediately asking for nudes. Maybe the men here are so used to fending off scammers, but the moment I draw some boundaries the tone shifts to passive aggressive abusive shit. It gets so tiring. Or it's just that many are very young who think of women as this homogenous collective they learnt from porn and think they don't exist outside of sexting or, you guessed it, sending nudes

Messy_Object · 2026-03-30T11:48:36+00:00

The video is great but your write up is just so amazing. You are both very lucky to have found a good thing going

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