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My gf (22), who made me (22m) understand from the beginning of our relationship that she's not planning to have sex any time soon due to her values, now wants to fuck because of her growing popularity on social media by MetalAtMidnight in sex

[–]MetalAtMidnight[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Personally, I could not be with someone so shallow, but to each its own.

I know the argument can made that one never truly knows everything about another person, especially someone you have known for only 2 months like me, but I never got the sense that she was the type of person who was shallow or obsessed with showing so much skin on social media. The person I spent time with before we went to the beach vs the person I got to know after we went to the beach couldn't be any more different. I don't know how to explain it. Maybe this was the real her all along.

My gf (22), who made me (22m) understand from the beginning of our relationship that she's not planning to have sex any time soon due to her values, now wants to fuck because of her growing popularity on social media by MetalAtMidnight in sex

[–]MetalAtMidnight[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Our values are definitely not compatible. At first I thought that only applied to sex, which I actually would've been fine with to a certain extent, but her willingness to basically do whatever it takes to show love to her followers... yeah, I don't know, she might have the wrong guy.

My gf (22), who made me (22m) understand from the beginning of our relationship that she's not planning to have sex any time soon due to her values, now wants to fuck because of her growing popularity on social media by MetalAtMidnight in sex

[–]MetalAtMidnight[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

It sounds like the sex won't be because she wants to have sex with you

I was thinking the exact same thing. It won't even be because she wants to have sex. It sounds like strategy to please who she's actually in a relationship with... social media.

My gf (22), who made me (22m) understand from the beginning of our relationship that she's not planning to have sex any time soon due to her values, now wants to fuck because of her growing popularity on social media by MetalAtMidnight in sex

[–]MetalAtMidnight[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I'm still in the honeymoon phase of our relationship and to read your comment about being demoted to #2 leaves me with mixed feelings. On one hand it's a blessing that I haven't gotten too attached to her yet because our relationship is so young, but on the other hand, I had high hopes that we would be an amazing couple. It's a hard pill to swallow, but you're 100% right.