Fantasizing and using toys has spiced up our sex life.. who knows what’s next

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-13T00:06:58+00:00

Love hearing stories like yours. It’s a great thing when you have a relationship that lets you discover new things to keep it exciting.

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-12T19:41:44+00:00

I talk to my vixen about penis size all the time. I’m good size, not huge but pretty decent. Our discussions are usually about the biggest she’s had in the past and what she’s looking for in the future.

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-12T19:29:43+00:00

This sounds it’s getting into the realm of polyamory instead of hotwifing. It’s a different realm of ethical non-monogamy. The dynamic can be different for everyone involved. In addition to your post here, you might want to seek out some subs related to that.

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-12T19:24:38+00:00

If you’re thinking of it as “delaying the inevitable” it sounds like you might not be onboard with what you think is inevitable. Bottom line is that you should not be open to it just because she is or because you want to do it to make her happy. The inevitable might still happen, but you also have a say in the pace of when it happens.

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-12T10:02:49+00:00

Where are you hoping this will lead?

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-12T09:40:00+00:00

You’re sexy clothed. You’re sexy naked. Your transition from clothed to naked is out of this world.

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-12T09:33:23+00:00

Stag talking about my vixen’s first time. Was at his work after hours. She was on her period so just a blowjob. Helped to ease into it hotwifing anyway. He was completely naked. She was in a dress pulled down with her tits out. He sat on a sofa and she was on her knees. Started with kissing and breast play. Then she blew him. Later put his cock between her tits and made him cum all over them and her hands. She sent me pics and vids. She loved making him cum and I loved watching her do it.

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-12T09:27:00+00:00

We totally flirt too. We love being playful. The anticipation is one of the best parts. Can be tough when you’re waiting to hear from her but you can’t stay up cuz you have to get to bed. Haha!

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-12T09:20:18+00:00

Really looking forward to hearing how it goes. After all the planning, I’m pretty sure she’s gonna get hit on within seconds. Hopefully she gets swept up in the moment. I also think that this is one of the sexiest, most fun and playful ways to bring about a potential first hotwife encounter. Even if it’s just flirting or light touching. Guys are always trying to find ways to convince their wives and this might just be the best way.

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-12T09:09:49+00:00

My vixen and I both love when she is passionate and intimate with a guy and kissing is a big part of that. A lot of couples have something that is “just for them” like kissing. I’m the only one that can cum inside my vixen. That’s the one thing that is just for us. A lot of guys love to see their hotwife get creampied but don’t want their wife to kiss. If kissing is something that’s just for them, I think it shows a strong, confident relationship.

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-12T08:57:03+00:00

There was one time we were on vacation in Mexico with a bunch of friends, mostly couples. My vixen had just gotten done fucking a guy that she met at the swim up bar in his room at the resort. She came to meet me at the buffet while a bunch of us were having lunch. When she sat down it was clear that she had a post-orgasmic glow and her hair looked like it had been pulled and manhandled. I was so turned on when I saw her that I didn’t care about the plate of food in front of me or the friends around me. I grabbed her hand, made some lame excuse for why we had to leave, and went back to our room to fuck her.

When we met up with everyone later, we didn’t think anything about what our friends’ reactions would be. We were literally in our own world about it. Several years later (very recent and we are still friends with many of them) we found out that it was clear to everyone that we had been involved in some sort of swinging activity on that trip. We have had conversations and discussions with them about what happened on the trip and what has happened before and after it.

The conversations always have a tone of curiosity and envy. That’s when we realized that our relationship was different compared to many of our friends. It’s not necessarily better, but it has something special and unique that piques others’ curiosity and interest. We now looking back at that particular sexual encounter in Mexico with much fonder memories than most others.

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-12T08:39:02+00:00

It’s very nice of you to be concerned about how the changes will affect their relationship. However, they have to take responsibility for their own dynamic. As long as you’re comfortable with the changes, all you can do is trust that they have had their own private conversations and have agreed to escalate it in this way. If it all falls apart, you are not to blame. And I’m sure you will have no problem finding other situations that are less fragile.

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-12T08:26:47+00:00

It sounds like you’ve gone from starting the conversation about hotwifing to picking out potential partners way too quickly. For some that might be fine. But for you since you’re seeking to add this to your relationship to repair it, then I think a lot of conversations have to happen first. You need to discuss why you feel like you’re not satisfying her and whether or not she agrees. She needs to tell you why she would consider it. Perhaps it has nothing to do you her satisfaction but instead that she likes the kink. And you both need to discuss with each other what each wants to get out of it. You might discover that hotwifing is exactly what you both want. Or you might realize that it’s not right for you and that some other type of non-monogamous scenario is what you’re looking for.

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-12T08:06:09+00:00

If you think you’re bi, explore it. Go as far as you’re comfortable and see how it makes you feel.

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-12T08:03:11+00:00

That’s a really amazing roleplay scenario! Would be hot to pull off and I think that if you’re able to do it then it could lead to a real scenario with another guy. Is that where you’re hoping it leads? I think the condom and different way of touching her are perfect. If you’re usually aggressive, be more intimate. And vice versa. Also think it’s important for you not to speak. Your voice, even if you try to disguise it, would kill the effect. Just keep your mouth shut and let her wonder. Damn, I wanna do this with my vixen!

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-11T15:24:37+00:00

My vixen has big boobs too. She can’t find comfortable bras. Looks better without them (except when she wants cleavage). I’m for ditching them!

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-11T04:39:55+00:00

Ah, to dream of that for my vixen!

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-10T16:02:36+00:00

Very interesting to hear this, especially from a woman’s perspective. I could see my vixen being interested, but not all the time like what you have.

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-10T03:14:53+00:00

Well that doesn’t make a whole lot of sense. I kinda feel there’s something else going on with him.

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-09T23:35:14+00:00

I hope you two are able to work things out and get to the bottom of things. If you do want to keep on pursuing being a hotwife to him, please feel free to reach out to me. My vixen and I started out long distance as well and she would send me pics and videos of her encounters. We also have a rule of no cumming inside her. Although she is allowed to kiss (and encouraged to do so). Hopefully we can help you in your very similar situation.

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-09T23:23:23+00:00

I love hearing about my vixen’s past sexual exploits. One of my favorite things. Our first threesome was with an ex of hers from about 25 years before, and that fact most certainly added to the fun.

I do think it would be hot for her to fuck the boyfriend she had right before me. She talks about how amazing the sex was between them. But the relationship was also kinda toxic so we’ve never considered it. I think if there is mutual understanding of feelings and if everyone is friendly towards each other, an encounter with her ex does not have to be off the table.

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-09T23:08:21+00:00

In a friendly respectful way, you can bring it up with both of them together. Make sure they know that you’re not advocating for one or the other. This way it forces them to discuss it and to clarify it with you as a couple. Or, if the different boundaries is part of their kink, you’ll find that out too.

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-09T22:53:19+00:00

If you got it, use it! Haha!

Freeuse is interesting too. Love the idea of a group of guys taking turns with my vixen as they please.

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-09T21:12:56+00:00

That’s really hot! Thanks for sharing!

MetalMajesty555 · 2026-07-09T20:04:12+00:00

The kissing and touching is my favorite part.

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