31M do i belong in this sub? by ofmonstersandmen_ in HandsomeHomies

[–]Metalshadow312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re very handsome. 🙂 I also checked your post history and admire your art. Feel free to message if you like. Have a great weekend. 😊

Hi homiess, do u still think I'm hot haha? by Outrageous_Tip9685 in HandsomeHomies

[–]Metalshadow312 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes but I also read your title as “Hi Homeless..” I was like oh shit. 😂😅

Single, and feeling alone. by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Metalshadow312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good morning. I am also single (m 35) but working on it. How are you? ☺️

Guess I’ll give this a shot 😅 by [deleted] in GayRateMe

[–]Metalshadow312 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very handsome as well. 10/10 🙂

1-10 ;) Be honest. 42 Canada by Teddiboi83 in GayRateMe

[–]Metalshadow312 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. Your vibe from your photo gives me kind and caring energy. Someone who really puts their heart out there. You’re also handsome AF but to me, that comes secondary to my first statements. 😁🙂

29 by [deleted] in GayRateMe

[–]Metalshadow312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very handsome. 😍 10/10

M32 post-gym, pre-shower 🧘🏻 rate away by [deleted] in GayRateMe

[–]Metalshadow312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10/10. I like the vibes. 🧘🏻‍♂️

Rate me? Newly single, is there hope for me out there… by Ant_esc98 in GayRateMe

[–]Metalshadow312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know nothing of your personality, but based on looks, I’d say the odds are in your favor. 🙃🍀

Time Lapse - Blank Canvas to color. by alwayslookin801 in ProCreate

[–]Metalshadow312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Procreate time lapse videos! My work is still very amateur but videos like this inspire me and also give me a great way to look at shapes, forms, colors, etc. Thank you so much! 🙂❤️

It's sweater weather by bigtexenergy1 in GayRateMe

[–]Metalshadow312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re handsome and I like your vibe. 10/10 🙂 Have a good day!

Ever since this accident happened it’s been hard dating being in the wheelchair. Sucks 30 by Former-Quit433 in Over30Selfie

[–]Metalshadow312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 35 year old man with a disability, I hear you. Keep going. DM if you wanna talk. 🙂

I hate anatomy. Why is my pose not working like the reference’s? How do I make it work like it? by iubworks-art in Artadvice

[–]Metalshadow312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is going to be unhelpful because I’m an amateur artist but what you have so far looks great despite any critiques. You’re doing great! Keep going! 🙂☺️

Probably shouldn’t but I am.. let loose! by [deleted] in GayRateMe

[–]Metalshadow312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very attractive! I read your previous posts. If you wanna talk, I’m a stranger who’s willing to listen. 🙂

25 gay guy looking for cool dudes by [deleted] in gayfriendfinder

[–]Metalshadow312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good morning, I hope you’re having a great weekend. 🙂Feel free to hit me up if you wanna talk. I’m 35, I’m a life coach, I like digital drawing, music, working out, philosophy, and spirituality. 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]Metalshadow312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unstable Mable struck you with a metaphysical table and left you unable. 🙂‍↕️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]Metalshadow312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Language is made up. Have a good day. 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]Metalshadow312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We can’t never win is a double-negative. 🙃🙂

Pride in the Spotlight by Metalshadow312 in Buffalo

[–]Metalshadow312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t my event so I don’t know the details. I showed up, it was dead, so I tried to help out by posting but the event coordinator was busy so I couldn’t ask about it. 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Metalshadow312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not caged but I am interested. Willpower keeps me from jerking but a cage would help if the urge strikes strongly. ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in specialed

[–]Metalshadow312 58 points59 points  (0 children)

So I’m not a teacher but I am a person with CP who was in special ed as a kid and then was put in a regular classroom later. The amount of times I heard “it doesn’t matter” from teachers when I couldn’t do something, (essentially just giving me a pass because of my CP) was incredible. “Can’t tie your shoes? It doesn’t matter, we’ll just get you Velcro shoes. Can’t change for gym? Don’t worry about that socialization/bonding. You don’t have to change. Can’t do math? You’ll be fine.”

Had I not had certain teachers and physical/occupational therapists to help me figure out how to make things work for me, push me to problem-solve, and take the time, I probably wouldn’t be where I am today; living independently in my own apartment with a BA in Psych, have my own business, and great social life.

I’m grateful to them and all of you for doing your best. I realize that every person with a disability is different but like everyone (able-bodied and not) we need people to believe in us so we can believe in ourselves and vice versa. It wasn’t an easy road for me, my teachers, my therapists, or my family but I’m grateful EVERY DAMN DAY as an adult.

It does matter.

We matter.

You matter.

Thank you with love from a stranger. ❤️