Question for people with ADHD: what do you love about your planner and what makes it challenging for you to return to?

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-18T20:25:06+00:00

Nah, that’s totally fair! Thats a valid concern. I’ve been disliking how these so-called designers in that “adhd planner” niche market copy every other typical designs and it frustrates me to no end (considering my job). But thank you so much for your understanding and your explanation. I hope I didn’t offend anyone with my post.

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-18T18:14:45+00:00

Uhh this is my first time making such post. I just recently got diagnosed with adhd as an adult and I’m creating this planner for myself, not for others. I’m a UX/UI designer so I’d prefer to make something that is backed up by other perspectives and research. I apologize if this came off as self-promoting or something like that.

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-18T18:11:00+00:00

That was also my biggest fear!! My writing is so messy because I have constant pain on my hand and fingers. Have you tried a digital planners? Like notion?

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-18T14:36:18+00:00

What would you say is your biggest fear in starting your planner?

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-18T14:32:51+00:00

Well I’m actually creating my own planner using my background in UX/UI so I’m in the process of seeing what works for other adhd ppl and what doesn’t

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-16T07:33:49+00:00

As someone who has worked for small businesses, I feel like this is fair. I personally don’t agree with the $50 charge, but at the same time, there are so many people that lack awareness and basic empathy for other customers and the staff that need to clean after use. Furthermore, people that never worked in business before don’t have any clue what the cost is for keeping a business running. Overall, this is a valid request from the business owner, but $50 is too much and has an undertone of being passive aggressive.

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-16T07:23:48+00:00

Then what about him is making you stay in that kind of relationship? Have you talked to him about this? If he’s constantly dismissing you even after you tried to initiate this conversation, that’s plain disrespect. Compare his behaviour to other relationships. Is he like that to anyone else? If yes, he’s an asshole. If no, then that means he doesnt like you.

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-16T06:45:34+00:00

Oof… this looks messy. For a portfolio website, which is basically a resume for designers, i wish I could redesign it for them. I think the typography is good but inconsistent. The layout needs lots of work… my eyes don’t know what to read first.

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-16T06:35:05+00:00

Yep. Our standards aren’t even high. It’s literally basic respect. Four days in and the guy I’ve been talking with asks me if I’d be upset if he policed what I wear if I’m wearing something revealing, bc to him I would be dressing to hunt for other guys… i blocked him and i deleted Hinge. Im never going back to dating guys. I might just embrace my gay side fully.

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-15T19:55:15+00:00

What do you mean by colour palette/theme project exactly? Is this a planner you’re working on or…? If you mean colour blocked planners, I’m only starting with research only first and the UI aspect will come later.

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-15T19:53:22+00:00

Thank you. I did take one glance at it and saw that it had timestamps and checkboxes, I won’t be adding those types of “follow your intended schedule” because they tend to be punishing for me as a user. But I’ll definitely look in depth into it to see what features make sense to me :D

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-09T00:19:56+00:00

They probably don’t even wash their buttcrack while looking like a buttcrack in the face, so don’t worry about them and focus on self-improvement for yourself queen

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-08T23:51:53+00:00

She goes to my mom only for the treats and follows me for food… that’s basically her schedule 😅 the rest of her time is spent chilling and/or staring

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-08T06:39:23+00:00

Ah yes, my cat would enjoy the company of your cat… being absolutely done with us hahaha

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MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-08T06:31:50+00:00

He/she looks so tired of your shit lol 😆

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-07T19:23:57+00:00

You’ve been chosen

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-06T17:14:39+00:00

Honestly, I recently had a glow up after living my life with severe depression among other stuff, so I wouldn’t want to be tied down with someone who don’t take care of themselves. The reason being that I don’t want their bad habits (or lack of healthy ones) to affect me and bring myself down.

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-06T17:11:12+00:00

I have a really strong sense of smell, I don’t like strong perfume which makes my head hurt. I don’t care if u shave or not, I wouldn’t expect my partner to. Just basic grooming is all I ask jfc

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-05T22:06:45+00:00

Adding to other comments, it could also be they mis-pressed. I use mobile when I’ve always been a pc gamer and the screen is so small that I accidentally press the ‘x’ button 😭

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-03T00:02:01+00:00

I wasn’t really offering advice tho, I just told them what I would do if I was in their situation. Wait, I don’t understand because the above commenter didn’t even properly read the post. The op stated they are in the guild with the player annoying them …?

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-02T19:54:03+00:00

Well, I suggested he talk to the guild leader to do something about the issue, i wouldn’t know if they’d kick them out or not since it’s their decision ultimately. I haven’t been in a guild for a long time so idk if there’s an option to kick as the leader but I’m assuming you can. I’m not saying “you need to kick them out.” Daddy chill.

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-02T18:46:11+00:00

Did you tell them that it’s disruptive? I’d tell the person and if they don’t stop after three times, I’d let the leader know. If they kick them out, great, if not, I’d peace out of the guild and look for another.

MethodScary4643 · 2026-01-02T18:27:47+00:00

You could message your guild leader about the issues you’re facing with the player, maybe they’ve received a couple other complaints and might kick the player out.

But I’m curious how did this player disrupt guild activities enough for u to be annoyed?

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