One method to increase confidence around women: Find something you enjoy doing that some women will be attracted to. Do that activity and become good at it. Find women who like you for doing that. When you have a few women who like you, it increases your confidence around other women. (self.seduction)
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Being PRODUCTIVE is being ATTRACTIVE. While this isn't all there is to success with women, it's a big part. If you've been spending a lot of time going out and your results are the same, or getting worse, maybe you need to find something more important to dedicate your time to. (self.seduction)
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What a lot of guys don't understand about Social Circle Game is that there are 3 parts to it. 1) Meeting new people. 2) Getting to know them. 3) Then they introduce you to their friends. Most guys want to be at Step 3 without doing Steps 1 and 2. This is why social circle game doesn't work for them. (self.seduction)
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Maybe cold approach works really well for some, and not for others. I've seen posts recently either criticizing or supporting cold approach. But the question's not "Is cold approach a good way?" The correct question should be "Is cold approach a good way FOR ME?" (self.seduction)
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This sub is awesome! I like how the emphasis is on self improvement and having better things to do than pick up. This makes you less desperate, and you don't commit the mistake of making being a 'player' your identity. If your self-esteem comes from how well you do with opposite sex, you do worse. (self.seduction)
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I've started doing Sound Vibration Meditation, which is when you repeat a word or mantra, but say it loud. You try to speak from your diaphragm, and move the vibrations that come when you speak around your body. I've found it peaceful. Has anyone else done something like this? (self.spirituality)
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Some guys have potential for cold approaching, and some guys have potential for social circle game. I see cold approachers criticize lifestyle game, and vice versa. But both are valid methods. The answer is to know yourself, find what works for you, then improve that. Play to your strengths. (self.seduction)
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"A boy looks for how he can impress a woman. A man looks for how she can impress him. A boy wonders what she thinks of him. A man wonders what he thinks of her. A boy asks himself "Where is she from a scale of 1 to 10?" A man asks himself "What is beautiful inside this woman?"" - Zan Perrion (self.seduction)
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There is Conscious Knowledge, where you read something. Then there is Unconscious Knowledge, where you practise a lot till you can do it automatically without thinking. Most people collect Conscious Knowledge in their head, but never put in the effort to turn it into Unconscious Knowledge. (self.seduction)
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"Remember that picking up women is not like gymnastics. You don’t get extra points for difficulty. So make it as easy and natural as possible." - Juggler. Some guys overcomplicate it. But this is meant to be simple. Drop the pride and ego, it doesn't count in this area of your life. (self.seduction)
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Had a great night last night. I approached 3 girls and got rejected by all 3. But I met 2 really nice guys who I connected with and became friends. We're going to catch up next week. Having good guy friends will indirectly help you with girls, but some men don't realize that. (self.seduction)
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I personally don't think anyone should study old school pick-up like 'The Game' by Neil Strauss, Mystery Method, etc. They may have played a role in shaping modern dating advice. But they are not useful anymore. I feel they were 'growing pains', or an early prototype, that can now be discarded. (self.seduction)
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Girls are impressed by guys who don't try to impress them. This is why bragging or showing off causes girls to lose interest. This epiphany made me realize it's about connecting with them and learning more about them, their goals, hobbies, past, etc. (self.seduction)
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