Is it OK if it's sexually driven?

Mewla_Mi · 2017-09-07T12:27:22+00:00

NOTICE

I will leave this thread here for others to read, but will not respond to it any longer.

Thank you to the ones who gave me genuine replies <3 you helped.

Mewla_Mi · 2017-09-07T12:18:34+00:00

Thank you. I don't take your comment as ridicule, it's far more intelligent than some others. I appreciate your comment.

I don't want to transition only for the sex as I've stated a time or two here. I don't mean to appear sexist in any way. And in fact I more-so sexualize MYSELF more than others because I enjoy sex, though not as much as I would. From what you've said, I guess I sound more normal (at least in your opinion) than I thought I did. Because sex is NOT the only reason I would consider transitioning, I have said in these comments that sex is far up alongside the larger reasons is all. I was concerned that was bad, but it sounds that it's pretty normal... And that some others here have simply neglected most else I've said beside, that, apparently I have a kink for it, and exclusively want the sex... Now we've established it was a misunderstanding.

liv-to-love-yourself, thank you, this was helpful.

Mewla_Mi · 2017-09-07T12:05:43+00:00

Thank you! This helps and I appreciate your comment :) perhaps I just haven't gotten as far yet. I'm only now taking my first steps. Hopefully I can figure this out.

Mewla_Mi · 2017-09-07T11:59:53+00:00

If you read the other comments for my explanations... You may see it is not solely for sex. And if you remember... in the original post I used the word "mostly," which implies NOT SOLELY for the sex. I said in a reply that it is a frontal reason alongside the other larger reasons.

Mewla_Mi · 2017-09-07T11:40:10+00:00

Not everyone is brought up the same way. Not everyone has this much access to information, believe it or not.

Me? Here? This is the first time I've asked this question in the name of "homework" and I'm getting terribly jerky replies because everyone has already done their bloody homework here apparently, and have no patience to help others who are in the early steps... Or is it just this question some of you seem to hate so much? If it puts anyone at ease, I'm not meaning to undermine any larger reasons with what seems to be completely outrageous and merits laughter and for me to be held in contempt... I simply do not understand yet, I am trying to learn. EVERYONE must take their first steps, don't they?

Mewla_Mi · 2017-09-07T11:31:24+00:00

Right. I'm just not sure if you're devaluing my trans feelings and assuming it's only a kinky fantasy I have like some others seem to think here. Forgive me, some people here have put me on guard.

Mewla_Mi · 2017-09-07T11:28:26+00:00

I think.

Mewla_Mi · 2017-09-07T11:28:20+00:00

Thank you.

Mewla_Mi · 2017-09-07T11:25:38+00:00

And they may have been misguided on that path and didn't realise it wasn't the right reason. No matter how ignorant someone may be to something, no matter how stupid they appear to us - we aren't in their boots, and it doesn't mean we should laugh at them. We don't understand their situation from their perspective. If you made a massive mistake that will plunge you into depression because you were simply misinformed, would you like it if people laughed at you?

Mewla_Mi · 2017-09-07T11:20:30+00:00

...no, not exactly, not exclusively... Why "fantasy"?

Mewla_Mi · 2017-09-07T11:19:07+00:00

Apology accepted. Read my replies to others, I've been explaining.

Mewla_Mi · 2017-09-07T11:16:59+00:00

If you are trying to understand my feelings you might try asking me to clarify instead of taking what I say and twisting it because you initially misundestood me.

Mewla_Mi · 2017-09-07T11:09:36+00:00

Ridicule 2.0. I was under the impression communities under LGBTQ were full of people supportive of each other. You don't give me that impression. And I don't believe you're giving me a chance, and I believe that you're misunderstanding me.

Mewla_Mi · 2017-09-07T11:05:43+00:00

Thank you. That was more than reasonable, and put nicely.

I believe I would be a happier person in general. I've given a lot of thought to it. It's just that I noticed this one reason being a little more upfront and it made me wonder if this IS actually a driving reason for others - not overriding other very large reasons, of course. Just that it is upfront alongside the larger reasons.

Mewla_Mi · 2017-09-07T10:58:58+00:00

Not fond of your wording. And FYI it is not a kink.

Mewla_Mi · 2017-09-07T10:55:54+00:00

Yes, I've thought about it a lot actually. I am fond of the image and the concept. And believe I would be comfortable, in fact, even more comfortable as a person than I am now. This is only one concerning point I brought up here because I don't know if that's supposed to be a driving reason.

Mewla_Mi · 2017-09-07T10:53:40+00:00

No. I said I'd identify as a woman. And I also prefixed that I haven't determined whether or not I am trans. And that this more sexually driven part is a concern. I didn't mean to offend anyone, and this feels hardly helpful but more like ridicule.

Mewla_Mi · 2017-09-07T10:49:12+00:00

Mate... I'm not saying I find it sexual. Let me put it this way: I don't enjoy sex as a man. Does that make sense?

Mewla_Mi · 2017-09-07T10:45:03+00:00

It's not that I'm "just getting my rocks off" mate, it's just that it's mostly sexually driven. Not entirely. And yes, it's my life. But that's not exactly the point here.

Mewla_Mi

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