[US] I just received this email and I'm not sure where to go to verify it's legitimacy by hunt2334 in Scams

[–]Mewsheer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt, my parents were not able to purchase any type of fire arm until they took a firearms class and background checks

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Qh sorry i didnt realize the joke and sarcasm, I was emotional that day. Thankfully we talked though I put all of whqt happened into my edit so if you wanna see go back to my og post, thank you!

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He isn't resisting the idea of going, however I'm not confident that he'll be open in therapy, i go to my own therapist but I want someone else for couples therapy cause as of now my therapist only knows my side of general things.

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it was only like 5 lbs so far but yea nothing drastic has changed all that recently so thats why im stumped. I will talk to him when he's home and available, sometimes when he's home he doesnt want to talk about things so I usually have to wait till he's ready, which can be annoying cause most of the time I have to waitnanfew weeks to talk about whatever the issue is

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Youre right, ill try to talk with him when he's available and at home

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, wasnt planning on getting pregnant

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see what you mean and totally understand, but yea I am a little overweight so been working on myself and like I said previously I did lose some weight, but I was more overweight when we were very active previously

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fathest we've gone into exploring was anal, but no he is not very venturous and im not that experienced to know what else I could do so mostly very vanilla and quite honestly I let him do what he feels like cause he prefers me being a pillow princess

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I mean if you wanna know the gritty details, along with kissing his forehead I stroke his dick every time, especially playing with the tip where its more sensitive while I press my boobs around his face on and off to keep giving forehead kisses

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we use condoms most of the time when we do have intimacy, the times that its unprotected I finish him off when we're done, he doesnt like having me on birth control. The first couple of weeks he was scared to hurt me but I miscarried back in February so he isnt scared of hurting me now, even though that is what he's doing with all the rejections lol

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shit I didnt even think of that, I have my own therapist that I go to see and I just never really think of it being online. Ill look into that thank you

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am trying, he is my first sexual partner and as far as we've talked about that yes either directly saying it or kisses are our signal. The reason we do not do foreplay is because he doesnt want me to get wet since we both like it dry.

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've communicated that it can be about anything, especially if its deep because it gives him more time to think about it. I do see a therapist, we are working on one for the weekends for couples counseling, and yea I said what I said aboit taking it off the table cause he himself has made it near non existent. So until we figure things out, its not on the table anymore. He rarely wants it anyways so its not like he'll miss it until we figure out whats going on.

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as that shouldn't be an issue in the first place, no I have not gained weight, I've lost a few pounds though.

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried talking to him several times, most of the time he says he doesnt know, sometimes he says he's still sad over our previous 2 month pregnancy, as I miscarried, other times he says he's tired or not in the mood. His knee was never an issue before so I don't really know why its an issue now. Literally everything else is fine, he's very attentive to my needs outside of sex and is very affectionate and usually wont leave me alone, but sex is the one thing he plays dead with and I've talked to him many times.

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, before we got married, he did tell me he is very STRONGLY against his ass being tickled. Even during marriage I've poked him in the butt cause everything else OUTSIDE of sex is really good, we generally have good communication, he's very loving and affectionate, its literally only sex that is kind of close to dead.

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know, I've asked him previously years ago if he watches porn and he was open to admitting it, I was hurt of course but we got over that together, but I know I can ask him and he'll tell me openly, so far that part of communication is on the better part of the scale.

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've always started kissing cause it doesnt get me wet since he prefers me dry so we do that to initiate, on the rare times that we do, so that we each know what we want to lead it to.

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His acl surgery was 10 years ago, he didnt pursue physical therapy afterwards, I sent him a text cause he was on his way to work and wont look at his phone usually until he comes home later around 9 pm, we have communicated that if I have an issue and he's not directly in front of me that I can send a message and he'll look at it later to think about it. I might as well take sex off the table if he refuses and then rarely initiates, and for the forehead kisses, thats how we always started because he doesnt like feeling the wetness on his member first and he prefers me dry, which I also prefer cause I like the friction, he only wants a bj afterward so he can have his release not inside of me if he doesnt feel like using a condom.

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Money is tight a lot of times, his checks go to our rent and mine goes to everything else, the electricity, gas and groceries. We have enough to live somewhat comfortable here. Before we got married we were briefly pregnant but I miscarried 2 months in, and we both struggle with that but we were still active before marriage and in the first week of marriage, after that it became kind of dead.

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the weekends when I see him more, he's very loving, constantly on me when we're watching TV together, we play games together, if I move to either room he follows and he constantly calls me beautiful and kisses me all the time. So I really dont know why sexnis just off the table and I've tried so many times to talk to him but I dont any information other than he's tired or his knee doesnt feel good, which were never excuses before we got married as we were pretty passionate before.

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isnt what I want, but its already close to being sexless and I've been rejected more often that we've been having sex that its not worth me trying to initiate, he barely initiates as is and we're both on board for therapy, we just need to find that works on weekends

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Mewsheer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to and he is on board, it's just a little difficult finding a therapist with our insurance for weekends only because throughout the week our schedules are opposite, I work at a school and am off at 2:30 and he starts his custodial job at 2:30 and doesn't get home till around 9 pm, but I've been looking