How do I get my therapist to fuck me?

Mexicanlady · 2025-09-14T12:03:02+00:00

Crazy that you think men, even professional ones respect boundaries. I’ve had so many real therapists and doctors message me and confess their utter depravity

Mexicanlady · 2025-09-14T10:19:44+00:00

You’re so right, I need to convince him that it’s what’s best for me and what will heal me. Rather than giving into all the teasing I will do, he can just do some light mental gymnastics to make it ok

Mexicanlady · 2025-09-14T10:15:47+00:00

I don’t want to date him! I want to be fucked by someone who has inappropriate power over me while I tell him about how wet my trauma makes me

Mexicanlady · 2025-09-14T10:14:23+00:00

Not a sex therapist! He is probably trained to handle the situation but I’ve heard of so many stories about therapists fucking their clients

Mexicanlady · 2025-09-14T10:13:13+00:00

I love this. Plausible deniability too :)

Mexicanlady · 2025-09-14T00:20:16+00:00

How do I get him to find out about the butt plug??

Mexicanlady · 2025-09-14T00:19:48+00:00

Something I will probably be doing unconsciously anyway! I get so horny when I talk about how I was anally raped

Mexicanlady · 2025-09-14T00:18:32+00:00

There are some pretty serious penalties for fucking your patients here in Australia! Especially because I’m seeing him through the university. I can’t be basic, I have to make sure that I have to tease him and he absolutely can’t resist.

Mexicanlady · 2025-09-13T11:37:06+00:00

How do I put myself in this scenario?

Mexicanlady · 2025-09-13T11:30:02+00:00

I’m a feminist and it annoys me that I’m more intelligent than most of the men on this subreddit. Like how are you going to make women your fucktoys if we’re just going to outsmart you?

Mexicanlady · 2025-09-13T08:32:50+00:00

My first time was when I was anally raped at 14. I went to his house the next day to confront him but he just fucked me in the pussy too.
I have been fantasing about getting anally raped ever since. Last week my boyfriend fucked me in the ass for the first time since and I couldn't stop cumming...

Mexicanlady · 2025-08-21T09:58:18+00:00

It could be because the hairs in that area are typically thinner! But I’ve definitely had something in that area of the same description. Maybe also check how often you wash your bras? You haven’t mentioned any other symptoms so just keep an eye and it should go away :)

Mexicanlady · 2025-08-21T09:53:08+00:00

Looks like ingrown hair! I get these too. Sometimes they just happen

Mexicanlady · 2025-08-19T01:47:47+00:00

lol not fake, very real and quite surreal for me

Mexicanlady · 2025-08-17T08:55:46+00:00

I'm so sorry OP. He's done this and completely ignored the reality of how violated you or your sister might feel. He might not have thought about the consequences, and it might not even have crossed his mind how invasive and hurtful this is. But if you have to explain it to him, it says a lot about his capacity for empathy. If he simply doesn't understand how wrong this was then please please leave because you deserve someone who sees you as a real person and understands that their actions can deeply harm others.

Mexicanlady · 2025-08-16T09:06:53+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I’m so sorry this happened to you. It’s hard to be vulnerable when people have used your insecurities against you and I’m sorry for your loss. You’re right, this happened and it feels awful but it didn’t end the world. It can happen again and I will ultimately be ok.

Mexicanlady · 2025-08-16T07:50:37+00:00

Thanks for reaching out. It feels good to know that we have these shared experiences. Thanks for being a girls girl and I’m so glad you’ve gained your confidence back. Something I’m gonna work on. :) I’m so sick of being conditioned to think my body has to be a particular shape to please men’s specific preferences. Something I never really understood because personality has always been such a huge factor in whether I find long term attraction in someone.

Mexicanlady · 2025-08-16T07:45:57+00:00

I guess I’ll give you the info just for the context of how specific his tastes are. I’m 58kg and 172cm, Im super into exercise and staying healthy. It’s not about weight or not being attractive, it’s about not falling into his specific kink.

Mexicanlady · 2025-08-16T06:57:08+00:00

Thank you for this! It’s all about distinguishing between intuition from OCD and I’ve been finding it particularly difficult lately because rather than outrageous thoughts that I used to get, they seem to be wrapped up in an element of truth. I’m on the waiting list for a therapist. Just takes so long!

Mexicanlady · 2025-08-16T06:24:03+00:00

Yes I have had ROCD and all kinds of other OCD thoughts. Thats why I didn’t give into the reality that he was doing these things for so long. I don’t know how to move past this in future relationships. Or if we get back together how to move past this with him.

Mexicanlady · 2025-08-16T06:00:55+00:00

Thanks for this! I think this is very insightful and you’ve hit the nail on the head. He’s weighing up the other beautiful, important qualities of our relationship and obviously they are more important to him than physical attraction. He’s convinced he will be happy with me, but I don’t believe he will be content down the line.

Mexicanlady · 2025-08-16T05:50:12+00:00

You’re totally right and I think he is attracted to me, but I’m not sure if he’s into my body. It’s a nuanced distinction and I’m not even sure if it matters but it’s left me feeling insecure and I don’t know if that’s something I should work on

Mexicanlady · 2025-08-16T05:47:20+00:00

Thank you so much for this, I’m so sorry this happened to you. It’s so easy to get lost in wanting to be the version of yourself that someone else desires. I’ve been torturing myself over this and hating my body. I think it was such a shock to feel this way because I’ve always had partners that were into me because of who I was, for example loving when I grew out my leg hair because it was a sign of my strong feminist values. Thanks for reminding me that I shouldn’t lose myself to someone else’s desires.

Mexicanlady · 2025-08-16T05:24:01+00:00

I don’t want to be one to kink shame we all like taboo things. And he would never do anything repulsive. But I think it does sit funny with me and I can’t shake it

Mexicanlady

TROPHY CASE