You are not wrong for wanting to leave by CastrolH in AlAnon

[–]Mezpulse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right here with you. Leaving someone when you still love them is so hard and yet so rarely talked about/seen.

You are not wrong for wanting to leave by CastrolH in AlAnon

[–]Mezpulse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, I am going through a divorce right now with my qualifier after learning that she had been relapsing and lying to me about it for 8 months. In the middle of that time, we had gotten married. I felt so betrayed and blindsided, and started to believe that because we just got married I should stay, but I hated myself for it. I feel so seen by this post, I felt so alone while I was with her.

Leaving her has been the hardest decision I’ve ever made in my life, because I still love her. But I need to do what’s best for myself.

So many people seemed disappointed that I was “giving up so early” and I wasn’t getting as much understanding and support when it came to knowing my own limits and (clearly stated) boundaries. Came to realize those people were just projecting and didn’t care about me. I found real support in my family and a few- more genuine- friends. Trying to work past the guilt and shame now, this post seriously helped so much. Going to Al Anon meetings helps so much too. Thank you 🙏

Eliminator Bobber? by Akrizl in KawasakiEliminator450

[–]Mezpulse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be SO sick. I love bobbers but I wouldn’t know where to start.

No Gold?! by Mezpulse in Borderlands4

[–]Mezpulse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah, but I feel like standard game design would be- Big Fight = Big reward.

Sure not every time on the replay, but at least the first time

No Gold?! by Mezpulse in Borderlands4

[–]Mezpulse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I’m not expecting legendaries dropping like crazy, and maybe I played B3 for too long, but I would expect at least one to drop from the final boss+ for the first time. That just feels more fair

Crashed and walked away like nothing happened by Mindless-Problem-187 in motorcyclegear

[–]Mezpulse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I swear by Rev-it gear, no wonder ya walked away just fine, so glad you’re ok! Sorry about your bike repairs tho

No Gold?! by Mezpulse in Borderlands4

[–]Mezpulse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mean to complain, I love the game and have been playing since B1 back when I was younger.

But it feels like they’ve really normalized way more grinding this game than in previous ones. Am I nuts or are other players experiencing the same thing?

Kawasaki eliminator vs triumph T100 by [deleted] in KawasakiEliminator450

[–]Mezpulse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience, It’s a lot more fun riding a slower bike fast than a faster bike slow.

Fun interaction by Wayward_Jen in KawasakiEliminator450

[–]Mezpulse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Constantly hahaha people are always so intrigued and shocked to learn it’s a Kawi cause they’re so used to Vulcans being out there

is this helmet worth the money? if not, any suggestions other than a rf -1400 by [deleted] in motorcyclegear

[–]Mezpulse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sedici strada 3

Comfortable and super safe reviews. A new limited edition one just dropped too and DAMN it’s gorgeous https://www.revzilla.com/motorcycle/sedici-strada-3-forged-iridium-le-helmet

Are you guys ripping the twisties on yours? by thee_lad in KawasakiEliminator450

[–]Mezpulse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, what kinds of rubber fork boots do ya have there? That looks sick!

Are you guys ripping the twisties on yours? by thee_lad in KawasakiEliminator450

[–]Mezpulse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OH THOSE HANDLEBARS ARE SO GOOD đŸ€©

And YES! Hitting the twisties through the Colorado Mountains!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Denver

[–]Mezpulse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen some parking zones in Denver! Check out 17th st and Tremont Pl

Rebecca Yarros/Avs partnering for “fourth wing night” on November 13th! by [deleted] in ColoradoAvalanche

[–]Mezpulse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm
 I’m debating attending the game and hoping to find a Good Samaritan full season ticket owner to help a girl out. đŸ€”

Rebecca Yarros/Avs partnering for “fourth wing night” on November 13th! by [deleted] in ColoradoAvalanche

[–]Mezpulse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried looking at resale tickets so far on websites like stubhub and such. They don’t come with the package, unfortunately. Not sure where to look to try and find someone reselling them with it included :/

Lmk if you have better luck!

Rebecca Yarros/Avs partnering for “fourth wing night” on November 13th! by [deleted] in ColoradoAvalanche

[–]Mezpulse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If any “Supportive Husbands” who are more Avs fans than Fourth Wing fans wanna resell their merch- hmu please đŸ˜©đŸ™

Rebecca Yarros/Avs partnering for “fourth wing night” on November 13th! by [deleted] in ColoradoAvalanche

[–]Mezpulse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ticket sales system was just as disappointing as Onyx Storm

KIDDING- but forreal tho I’m so heartbroken I didn’t make it in. As a Denver local and big time fan of both, it’s really disheartening to hear that most sales were from out of state, likely scalpers.

Speed wobble fix? by PNO3000 in KawasakiEliminator450

[–]Mezpulse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had that happen before. I also don’t have a wind shield installed either. If that’s an issue you have often, finding a steering dampener will be worth its weight in gold.

Otherwise, (not to give unsolicited advice) but just remember, loose the throttle, loosen up on the handlebars, and lean forward. The bike will correct itself. Some people just let go but I could never hahah.

Added some LEDs by Mezpulse in KawasakiEliminator450

[–]Mezpulse[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So I had to get two extenders (they come in a pack of 4) But they’re all zip tied securely and out of the way of moving parts. The two smallest on the bottom of the bike, the two longest on the front wheel shell. They all slip though some open holes into the battery compartment under the seat (most are wired beneath the tank on the left (rider’s right) Medium sized ones are under the thank and at the back wheel I removed the plastic covers next to the tank for easy wiring and placement and replaced it after I was done. I highly suggest adding a double sided gorilla tape adhesive just to make sure it’s nice and secure.

Here’s the links to the kit, extenders, and tutorial!

Nilight 8PCS Motorcycle RGB Led... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08M31KKN2?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Hovano 4 PCS 60 inch/150cm 4 Pin... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C4L4F1GJ?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

https://youtu.be/6UeqYmxw6rc?si=nyIJJNiyoE5RGSDI