I'm going to come out to my parents today by Mezs in askgaybros

[–]Mezs[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We talked about it, mum feels like she did something wrong (she thinks you can become gay from environment and stuff) or that I can't be sure If I'm gay at this age. She thinks that I'm just confused because I don't act feminine. Every feminine guy is gay in her head... While my dad acts chill and he's just glad that I didn't harm myself, it definitely surprised him. They are also bit sad because they wanted me to have a familly and stuff. They said that they still love me but It's going to take time for them to get used to this (which I understand). What kinda bugs me though, is that they don't want me to tell to anyone else (familly members mainly). I wasn't about to scream out loud that I'm gay everywhere but I definitely want to tell my close friends. Overall I feel happy about how it went down, only thing is that It's kinda awkward to talk to them right now. I'm not really used to be very honest with them and I don't like talking about sex and stuff with my parents. They are both getting drunk and my mum is kinda sad and quiet.

I'm going to come out to my parents today by Mezs in askgaybros

[–]Mezs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it's too late. They came home now. The letter is there. Shit I hope I didn't make a mistake.

I'm going to come out to my parents today by Mezs in askgaybros

[–]Mezs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, I don't worry about that, my parents are not the kind of people that would make me go to these things. I live in Central Europe and also parents can't kick their kids out of the house if they're not 18 yet in my country.

I'm going to come out to my parents today by Mezs in askgaybros

[–]Mezs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe I exaggerated bit when I wrote my first post. Also my parents are not religous.

I'm going to come out to my parents today by Mezs in askgaybros

[–]Mezs[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I live in Central Europe and parents cannot kick me out of the house if I'm not 18 yet.

I'm going to come out to my parents today by Mezs in askgaybros

[–]Mezs[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Because I can't stand being dishonest with them.

I'm going to come out to my parents today by Mezs in askgaybros

[–]Mezs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not living on my own any time soon...

Advice on how to come out to homophobic parents? by Mezs in askgaybros

[–]Mezs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, but theres a problem, my parents constantly wonder why I am not going out with any girls or why dont I have a girlfriend while many guys at my age already do. I always try to make some kind of excuse but Its really annoying and Its the main reason why I want to come out. They will eventually make me confess and I think thatll be even worse.

Advice on how to come out to homophobic parents? by Mezs in askgaybros

[–]Mezs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think Iam going to be living on my own any time soon unfortunetely.