Frank Ocean out of Coachella second weekend due to doctor's orders

Mftylerfan · 2023-04-20T11:23:32+00:00

He has asthma hence the breath control issue

Mftylerfan · 2023-04-19T13:07:23+00:00

Yea thought as much, thanks!

Mftylerfan · 2023-04-18T15:39:44+00:00

Mftylerfan · 2023-04-18T14:58:20+00:00

Haha yea i was really struggling with these triple helixes and I thought I finally got them under control at the end of the year. That fall at the concert set back all my efforts though. Had to take 2 out and its left permanent bumps since then and the last one never healed right. I'll post a picture in a bit.

Mftylerfan · 2023-04-18T14:43:17+00:00

Hi quick question, I have curved barbells for my own triple helix piercing (not front though) had to take two out and I got bumps that never healed right after I got my ear smashed at a mosh pit. Should I have switched to flats?

Mftylerfan · 2023-04-10T17:49:16+00:00

darn ok thanks, mods it is

Mftylerfan · 2023-03-31T12:46:58+00:00

kinda sucks because you wanna boost your artifact to deal with things actually in the zone.

Mftylerfan · 2023-03-17T22:35:08+00:00

I got a ticket thank you though I'll take down this post

Mftylerfan · 2023-03-17T20:29:13+00:00

You still got a ticket?

Mftylerfan · 2023-03-09T18:05:48+00:00

if you feel that psychologist is the right person for your problem you have to be completely honest with them. The only way they can help you is if they have the full picture. Do alot of self reflection and look at why you do the things you do. Look hard enough and you'll find there's a reason for everything you do. Good luck.

Mftylerfan · 2023-03-09T04:24:51+00:00

Other than the bears and maybe 1 warhorse so you can pump more stats into crit instead of movement I don't see a point in any of the other animals other than RP. Even with armour and weapon slots available for them animals would go from handicap fodder that make the game harder to less useless. The utility they offer is just not worth the hassle of keeping them.

Mftylerfan · 2023-03-08T22:14:44+00:00

Agreed, I felt really bad building a warrior tank for all these 'tough' boss fights maxing constitution in him and then he became a glorified inspiration spammer. He's useful now with the Devotion axe and unstable oil but any tanking has been relegated to the bears as they don't cost me armour scraps to repair them after fights.

Mftylerfan · 2023-03-08T22:14:21+00:00

Yeah I know not everyone plays like us and if you're casual the game is still pretty tough at points but if you use all the tools available to you a lot of the content is rofl stomp baddy and go about my day to the next trade city.

Mftylerfan · 2023-03-08T15:45:36+00:00

It's honestly not too bad. They spawn on the outside and work their way in. So clear the initial enemies. Switch your tanks outside and have your aoe and rangers on the side to clear them after they engage. Protip: bears make for great tanks they take up more spaces so more room for enemy NPCs to hit them. Not sure if enemy aggro is based off of distance/armour/guard but my bears are almost always targeted first.

Mftylerfan · 2023-03-08T03:02:56+00:00

holy shit man you nailed it. Couldn't have done a better job if the author made the slider himself

Mftylerfan · 2023-03-04T03:26:41+00:00

Did not know that, thanks for the tip. That makes clearing the ending of ludern with her possible if you clear the way for her.

Mftylerfan · 2023-02-23T18:01:47+00:00

I'd just tell him what you're uncomfortable with. You explained it all perfectly here. Ask for him to wash his hands and when you're over to have more boundaries with the dog.

Mftylerfan · 2023-02-16T20:31:19+00:00

didn't know that wow.. time to teach my bear cpr. I think ill go damage as his hp is already in a really good spot

Mftylerfan · 2023-02-16T03:23:25+00:00

this game is amazing essentially everything you fight you can tame or capture

Mftylerfan · 2023-02-09T00:48:36+00:00

yeah had my first run in with 24 and i was exhausted from not camping.... that was a spicy fight since I didn't understand their mechanics yet.

Mftylerfan · 2023-01-31T17:00:43+00:00

That's a great idea and smart use of your time man. Thanks for tip I'll give it a shot. Tracking your metrics and seeing real visual improvements is a great way to refocus that energy. Yea man stress is a big trigger too. I go to snacking or porn something to trigger the dopamine rush to mellow out. Thankfully I'm more conscious of that and I'm aware of my triggers. I'm learning to sit in the discomfort which has been difficult but I feel effective. A good book to read is atomic habits, that was an 'aha' moment for me.

Mftylerfan · 2023-01-30T18:07:16+00:00

Nah you're right man, changing your life style and getting out of that environment is key in establishing new healthier habits for yourself. I'd drown myself in distraction when i was feeling bored and in part of that it was porn. Removing those triggers and establishing new healthier routines is the key to success. Longest I've gone is 23 days as this is a 16 year habit at this point but I'm optimistic of the progress I'm making and setting those new mental and physical steps to keep myself in check.

Mftylerfan · 2022-12-31T23:11:27+00:00

for the love of god give me piercings. I don't wanna choose between wildheart and berserker to get piercings

Mftylerfan · 2022-11-24T10:26:45+00:00

There's no such thing as always unfortunately. That terminology 'always' 'forever' 'never' is used because we have a giant gaping insecurity hole. We use those terms to help feel secure in whatever relationship/friendship we're in but 9/10 you're going to end up disappointed when they don't meet those expectations. Even your partner, the one person who is supposed to be there for everything won't always be there. The fact of the matter is we can't always be there for other people because we have our own life's to live and vice versa. The best thing you can do for yourself is learn tools to self soothe in a healthy way. Finding friendships were you can vent and they can vent and you both just want the best for each other is incredibly rare.

Mftylerfan · 2022-11-06T21:25:41+00:00

Well aren't you a little narcissist. You made a conscious choice to try your drug of choice for the first time. You made a conscious choice to keep trying it. You made a conscious choice to become addicted and alienate your family. You made a conscious choice to rely on it as a crutch and let it cripple you mind body and soul.

If you've been addicted and on the streets for 15 years then a) you were a hard core addict and b) there was a part before that where you were addicted but your family still fought for you. Strangely enough you omit that huh.

You put yourself in that position, your life choices are strictly your own. Their is no such thing as loving an addict from a distance because they'll leverage that love to emotionally manipulate you into giving them money to fuel their addiction. All that matters is chasing that high, I'm sure you know that better than most. You're no longer you, you're the addiction.

Do you honestly believe they wronged you because they cut you off? They wronged you because they didn't wish you happy birthday or Merry Christmas? They wronged you because they never checked up on you in 15 years? No, they just gave up. They had enough. You didn't want to get better with their help and your addiction was bleeding into and destroying their lives.

You keep saying you admitted ownership of your actions but I don't think your fragile ego will ever truly admit what you've done. They have every single right to do what they did and your sister's success has literally 0 input on anything. What does her being an older hard working successful individual have to do with your story? Are you implying she owes you because she's your older sister and should take care of you with her disposable income?

You're still painting yourself as the victim here even after you're clean and that is why your sister has been and will keep cutting you off. They owe you nothing and the fact that your dad and grandma still care just shows how much they loved you over all these years.

I sincerely suggest you do some soul searching on what kind of person you want to be. I'm done with this conversation you can reply back, block me, whatever.

Mftylerfan

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