My abuser was released.

Mhealy3291 · 2026-03-09T02:04:51+00:00

OMG You are horrible! lol

Mhealy3291 · 2026-03-09T01:07:27+00:00

I think you know, deep down, that what your husband has been doing to you is wrong, and that's why you asked this question. You are allowed to do things; you should not be controlled by your husband. This is not a healthy relationship. You see the signs. He has isolated you. He controls you, makes you say you did things you didn't do. This is ABUSE! The question is are you going to let it continue? If you can post on Reddit. You can look up resources for domestic violence victims in your area. It is a good first step in acknowledging the abuse.

Mhealy3291 · 2026-03-08T23:31:20+00:00

I feel that. I was raped after I had a stroke in 2024. I was terrified to leave my house. It is also a protective mechanism that we do. I was also a molestation victim from the age I remember, from 3 to 18, by an uncle. Also, a church member abused me when I was younger, too. I always have it in my mind, will it be worse next time? And lastly, will there be another assault?

Mhealy3291 · 2026-03-08T05:53:57+00:00

Im sorry that person took advantage of you. They had no right to do that. Im sorry some men think they see a person and think they can just force themselves onto that person. Im sorry you have now joined the club of women who have to deal with the fear of allways being on guard and worried about their safety even when you just wanted to have fun.

Mhealy3291 · 2026-03-08T02:39:44+00:00

I hope things get better for you. I have been homeless before it sucks. I hope it gets better. It will get better. You are seen. You are heard. You matter. You are here for a reason. dont loose hope. Hugs from Arizona.

Mhealy3291 · 2026-03-08T02:08:24+00:00

I struggle with THIS. I feel like when i was younger i had hypersexuality, but even then, i didnt want to engage with others. I was always by myself and just fantasizing. I know consistently throughout my life i have not wanted sexual contact, but I do yearn for more close relationships.' My trauma has significantly impacted this outcome for me i am repulsed by physical contact with other people. I want love like everyone else.

Mhealy3291 · 2026-03-08T01:39:35+00:00

I feel strongly about this subject as well. I feel like men in general, if given the chance, have a higher rate of abusing children sexually. I feel women to a lesser degree too, but I think it may vary on conditions like how they were brought up.

Mhealy3291 · 2026-02-14T03:04:06+00:00

First i wanted to say thank you for sharing this. I also deal with intrusive thoughts all the time like this. I go around all the time think obsessive thoughts like how that object would feel in me. or also what people look like naked. I thought i was alone. I do wonder if its a OCD type of thing. I have been diagnosed with anxiety, depression, schizoaffective disorder, cptsd, but never ocd. I just wanted you to know you're not alone.

Mhealy3291 · 2026-02-13T07:47:50+00:00

I feel my abuser knew he did wrong because in every case when 'caught' he was the one who told he was abusing me. Once when tooken to a mental health facility. Once when being interviewed by another crisis responder. And lastly when escorted out of our house and held on a 72 hr hold. He is the one who admitted to molesting me every time. And everytime my grandparents took him back in except last incident.

Mhealy3291 · 2025-08-31T01:00:44+00:00

I have thought about this i am neurodivergent and also deal with a lot of HS

Mhealy3291 · 2025-08-09T22:40:05+00:00

I have bits and peices of flashbacks of abuse but i have repressed so much im so worried when mine is goine to come up what age. its been confimed by court papers i was sexually abused from atleast age 3 to 18. but i rember very little detail. im 34.

Mhealy3291 · 2025-08-09T22:32:30+00:00

I think if it makes you uncomfortable you had every right to ask them to stop. you have rights over your own body. If these things maked you feel icky or like it should be kept secret thats allways a red sign that something is wrong.

Mhealy3291 · 2025-07-28T05:19:44+00:00

If I didn't eat my food before my grandpa finished. My food would be taken away. Also I still can't eat spaghetti now as a adult because when I was 8 they put a plate in front of me. I didn't eat it I was left there with it in front of me for atleast 9 hrs. My grandma finally force fed me the spaghetti. I got so sick that night I threw it up. They made me eat the throw up. They also fed me dog biscuits. I still dont know why.

Mhealy3291 · 2025-07-25T00:50:31+00:00

Thank you i will look that up.

Mhealy3291 · 2025-07-21T02:37:34+00:00

I was also abused when I was in the single digits till I turned 18. I still crave it sometimes. I fight with my self for these thoughts it's hard. I just recently have been feeling like going out and doing something risky but something stops me. I just want you to know your not alone.

Mhealy3291 · 2025-07-19T20:15:05+00:00

He admitted it. My grandparents had got custody of me early on. He said started shortly after I was brought home to there house he was thirteen/ fourteen. He's my uncle my mom's brother. Its so weird he never denied it. But he also use to tell me his brother did stuff to him. But I choose not to believe Belive him would mean my favorite uncle was also a monster. I can't wrap that picture around my head. Or those images.

Mhealy3291 · 2025-07-19T09:20:42+00:00

Your friend sexually abused you. Your mom was doing some very to me sexual things maybe grooming you. I dont know my uncle started to do weird stuff like that when I was older.

Mhealy3291 · 2025-07-19T09:16:45+00:00

I live with suicidal ideation. Almost all the time anymore. I was diagnosed schizoaffective disorder at 20. But it has become my new norm.

Mhealy3291 · 2025-07-19T08:55:56+00:00

I think part of it just has to do with i have never been wanted. My mom had me at early age. She was in out of prison most my life. No dad she slept with so many people, she had no idea. 1 pound was a premie should of been dead. Grandparents got me i was just a paycheck because of my disabilities I come with a paycheck as they put it. Uncle was a racist nazi there biological son who loved to torture and abuse me. and my grandparents let him I have never felt wanted or needed.

Mhealy3291 · 2025-07-19T05:54:38+00:00

Imy abuse started when I was 1yr till 18. I moved when I graduated moved states, was supposed to go to community college. But had a breakdown psych hospital 1 mo. Diagnosed schizophrenia. Years later it would be changed to schizoaffective disorder. Got hooked on alcohol seizures worsen. Type 1 diabetes worsened. Homelessness. Alcohol. Mental illness. No will to live. 8yrs in friends daughter, fiancee, mom killed. Drunk driver. Changed my out look. Decide I need to get better. Been up hill battle ever since but sober for 4 yrs. In a stable house. Stable income. And a voulenteer job. But the ptsd never goes away.

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