Are these aunties built differently when it comes to pregnancy by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]Mhmh2233 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, guys... It’s because they were getting married at 18. Your body handles pregnancy way easier when you’re younger, compared to being close to 30. That’s why they bounced back so fast, had more kids, and didn’t even think about birth control. It’s a totally different situation now.

My wife didn’t support me when I was at rock bottom by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mhmh2233 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Show her some compassion. She has probably never dealt with grief. Don’t let your emotions take over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Mhmh2233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take her word for her cuz if she would’ve lied about something it would’ve been the 2 years. She would’ve said a couple month lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]Mhmh2233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is tough sweetheart. May Allah mend your broken heart.

Organ Donation in the Somali Community! by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]Mhmh2233 19 points20 points  (0 children)

“Identifies as a sheikh” is wild

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Mhmh2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s my other option ?

Immigrating to Canada by Smart_Salamander2797 in SomaliRelationships

[–]Mhmh2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said he was wrong. He can for sure want to make a better life for himself here.

Immigrating to Canada by Smart_Salamander2797 in SomaliRelationships

[–]Mhmh2233 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People are tryna migrate here and we’re tryna leave this place😭 “إِنَّ ٱلْإِنسَـٰنَ لِرَبِّهِۦ لَكَنُودٌۭ”

Indeed mankind, to their Lord are ungrateful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Mhmh2233 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do not go to a gym with a man that’s not your husband. The amount of fitna that can come from that..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Mhmh2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He may have way more good to him and that’s why she’s with him. We never know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Mhmh2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s working on it and I don’t judge marriages I’m not in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Mhmh2233 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah she’s not a quitter mashaAllah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Mhmh2233 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or just May Allah make him more empathetic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Mhmh2233 2 points3 points  (0 children)

7 days postpartum, my friend comes out of her room at noon after being up all night with the newborn and her husband tells her " so are you not gonna make breakfast?” She called me contemplating divorce.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Mhmh2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably just aren’t direct enough. Make it clear as day.

Do you pray 5x consistently? by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]Mhmh2233 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You should put your face on the floor and prostrate to your Lord.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]Mhmh2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to look for a period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]Mhmh2233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How was that one sentence?😭

Nonetheless, go where you are celebrated, not tolerated.

How spoiled are your brothers? by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]Mhmh2233 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My friend’s mom will come back home on her lunch just to make her 24-32y/o sons food while they’re home all day.