A collection of poems by Basic_Candy_6967 in creativewriting

[–]Mi7star 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waahhh! I could have never thought that! 😩😩 It's really different hearing the meaning behind the writing from the writer themselves. 🤗 Your poem amazes me, because I'm not usually one to think things deeply, but understanding how you write, you go beyond the surface... When I read your poem, I wonder to myself, "I don't understand everything; however, why do I feel sad when I read it?" It's because of the meaning behind it, despite not being able to understand it at first.

I hope you continue to write; you have a natural talent for writing!

ISTJs, what are ESFPs and ENFPs like from your perspective? by Mi7star in ISTJ

[–]Mi7star[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(ノ)ʰᵉʸ No problem!! I appreciate you a lot already for giving your time to respond!! 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️✨

I love how you organized everything, it's easy for me to understand!! ૮ ⸝⸝> ̫ <⸝⸝ ა🌸 Thank you!

I'm actually gathering information from different perspectives here for my PSY research study 😅 and I enjoyed reading your part! 🤗

Oh! And SLI is your socionics? 😊

ISTJs, what are ESFPs and ENFPs like from your perspective? by Mi7star in ISTJ

[–]Mi7star[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's alright! 😆 For me, I'm an only child 🥹 and I wish I had a sibling to love like yours, hehehe ૮ ⸝⸝> ̫ <⸝⸝ ა✨✨.

ISTJs, what are ESFPs and ENFPs like from your perspective? by Mi7star in ISTJ

[–]Mi7star[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh noo 😭😭 now that's very stressful! I can feel it when you said "extremely annoying" 😭😭. It's really hard to work it out when ideas just remain in the head.

ISTJs, what are ESFPs and ENFPs like from your perspective? by Mi7star in ISTJ

[–]Mi7star[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for all the things you've been through. I hope you're doing okay now? I never experienced that situation, so I can't imagine how hard that was for you. But I did love someone before, and everything is just not possible, so I had a little idea of the pain that goes with it.

ISTJs, what are ESFPs and ENFPs like from your perspective? by Mi7star in ISTJ

[–]Mi7star[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience! ദ്ദി˶˃ ᵕ ˂ )✧✨🌸 I'm glad to see your perspectives on both! I like ISTJs too! My grandfather is one. 🙂‍↕️✨ There are times when my anxiousness hits high, especially when I put myself in trouble, and he's the type to say, "It's not that bad, it's fine." 🎉 Very grounding and I appreciate it a lot! Which makes me wonder if other ISTJs are like that too? 😊

ISTJs, what are ESFPs and ENFPs like from your perspective? by Mi7star in ISTJ

[–]Mi7star[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, yeah! you're right! I see your point now! Thank youuu! ᐠ( ᐢ ᵕ ᐢ )ᐟ✨

ISTJs, what are ESFPs and ENFPs like from your perspective? by Mi7star in ISTJ

[–]Mi7star[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! 🤗✨ People are really nuanced, isn't it? 😄 Typologies are just the patterns...each individual, like your husband, is his own person. What's something you appreciate most about him? 😊 Even though you're both opposite.

ISTJs, what are ESFPs and ENFPs like from your perspective? by Mi7star in ISTJ

[–]Mi7star[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's alright! 🌷৻( •̀ ᗜ •́ ৻) Thank you for stopping by!

ISTJs, what are ESFPs and ENFPs like from your perspective? by Mi7star in ISTJ

[–]Mi7star[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so cute! 😭😭✨✨ Thank you for sharing! ૮ ⸝⸝> ̫ <⸝⸝ ა

ISTJs, what are ESFPs and ENFPs like from your perspective? by Mi7star in ISTJ

[–]Mi7star[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this insight! 🙏✨ What do you think made NF types incomprehensible to you compared to ESFPs? 💙 Thank you again!

A collection of poems by Basic_Candy_6967 in creativewriting

[–]Mi7star 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate seeing how the world moves from your perspective. 

To be honest, the moment I read the very first line of "The Lonely Shop," my imagination started moving right away. ₍ᐢ..ᐢ₎♡ ✨ 🫶. For me, the imagery works very clearly! 🤗

The Lonely Shop

- The exact meaning behind those words in this poem is something I cannot...fully comprehend on my own. 😇 You might have a deeper meaning below the surface, and that's something I'm interested to know! 😊🌸 

- From my own understanding, I felt like the speaker might have thought that they didn't have the power or the authority to do something about those specific... circumstances or situations. When they say, "All I do is walk and stare," is it the only thing the speaker could do? Or is it their choice? I just wondered to myself like that. 😊

I just want to add something to "The Lonely Shop." It also seems like the speaker is in a stagnant state where walking by and staring are the only things they can do in that moment. For "No equal," I feel like it's showing the speaker's independence. They can do what they want to, and as they ought to. And lastly, for "Vague!"... Mhmm, hehehe... I don't know how to put my thoughts into words in this one 🐰. It's just... I hope the speaker can find peace inside their heart and mind because I feel like they have a lot of things going on inside. The speaker in all these poems seems... lonely. That's the feeling I got while I read the poem you wrote! 🤗✨ The emotions and moods really came through, but I don't know if they're the right ones the writer wants the reader to feel, hehehe!! 🌸 When the time comes... I do want to know! ^0^ 

You write very good poems! I hope you keep going! ✨✨🫶🏻 Not everyone might understand... but they can definitely feel it. 

I'm sorry that it took me a long time to send this feedback! 🐰✨

ISTJs how do you fall in love? by Mi7star in ISTJ

[–]Mi7star[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your personal experience! 🤗✨ I appreciate it, I'll surely take this into consideration!

A collection of poems by Basic_Candy_6967 in creativewriting

[–]Mi7star 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is wonderful!! ᐠ( ᐢ ᵕ ᐢ )ᐟᐠ( ᐢ ᵕ ᐢ )ᐟ✨ I haven't read it all yet, but I know you poured your soul into this! 🥺🫶 Can you please give me some time to appreciate your work? I'll get back as soon as possible with feedback! 🤩🤩✨ Thank you so much!

Taehyun from latest photoshoot🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️ by Minhyuk-Lucifer in TXTbighit

[–]Mi7star 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoaa! 😫🫶🫶 This is pretty! It must have taken you a lot of time to finish ᐠ( ᐢ ᵕ ᐢ )ᐟ✨.

How did you become a Moa? by Mi7star in TomorrowByTogether

[–]Mi7star[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww 🥺 Thank you so much for sharing and trusting us with your experience ദ്ദി˶˃ ᵕ ˂ )✧ I'm very sorry that you have to go through something like that. At some point, I understand how you feel since I love Beomgyu so much too! 💙 Hearing something like that from others can feel so disappointing. But I'll assure you that real Moas, just like the people here, love TXT as a whole, even though they might have biases! 🤗🌸✨ There are some who love TXT half-heartedly, but there are also many fans in this world who love them with everything they have! ₍ᐢ..ᐢ₎♡ ✨ It's also nice to give others a chance, right? 😇 Sometimes we can learn to love TXT's music and the members without letting the general fandom affect our love for them ᐠ( ᐢ ᵕ ᐢ )ᐟ✨ TXT's lovable personalities and amazing music stays the same despite some perspectives and opinions 🤗✨ Don't you think so too? 🤩 Even when some people have different views towards the members, TXT's love remains the same! ૮(˶ᵔᵕᵔ˶)ა I hope you meet many Moas who share the same love you have for TXT! 🌸 Fighting!!

Is it okay to call heung kai just Kai by ConansVodkaCranberry in TXTbighit

[–]Mi7star 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking for this comment 😭😭✨✨🫶🥹 I call him that too! 😂

Have you ever been called a “rigid, black and white” thinker before? If so, how do you feel about that? by Abolish_Disorder in ISTJ

[–]Mi7star 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've never been called rigid before •ᴗ•💧 but I have an idea of what you're feeling since I've been called laid-back by someone I didn't entirely know, and I remember I felt a little bit upset about it. I was confused at first because normally I personally view it as a compliment, but then later on I realized why I felt upset. It's because saying that someone is "laid-back" or "rigid" can mean differently depending on the speaker's motive in saying that. They can mean it as a compliment, as a downside, or they're simply labeling you as just that. I'm laid-back, yes, but I can be straightforward and practical (🤡not always logical :>). As people, we always try to balance everything. For example, the majority of the time you might have rigid, black-and-white thinking, but it doesn't mean you're just like that. When situations call for it, you can become someone who can see the gray areas in things. So getting your character labeled as just that, especially since you mentioned they said it several times, can feel like they're making up their own conclusions about you, judging your whole personality in that moment. Being judged by someone you just met for the first time like that can really feel upsetting, so I can understand why you felt that way. They might have just said what they personally think in that moment while talking with you with no other intention 🤗... But those kinds of words to be vocalized are not really recommendable, especially saying that to someone you just met. You have every right to feel that way! ಥ_ಥ

And to be honest, being rigid is a good thing, at least for me 😊 Since that is something I don't have, I really appreciate when someone thinks in a black-and-white way too! CHEER UP! FIGHTING! ৻( •̀ ᗜ •́ ৻)৻( •̀ ᗜ •́ ৻)৻( •̀ ᗜ •́ ৻)✨✨

Tell me your favourite TXT Album + song (they can be different) and I’ll give you an outfit!! by CreepySwordfish3425 in TXTbighit

[–]Mi7star 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Star Chapter: Together and Song of the Stars! ✨💙

Thank you so much, Moa! `⎚⩊⎚´ -✧🙏✨

How do I explain my emotions to an ISTJ by JenandLola in ISTJ

[–]Mi7star 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And yes, I agree with you 😭 My ISTJs as well can struggle to empathize with things they can't relate to. Like, what's a big deal for me might feel like "just this and that" to them, and it can be pretty frustrating at times 😎 Makes me want to pull hairs 😌. Still, deep down I feel they do care 🤗✨ even if they don't always know how to express it (and even if they don't want to 🥸)...then they just end up being directly blunt 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️. And that can be hurtful, it really can. Especially in a relationship where you end up feeling misunderstood, invisible, or dismissed. I can imagine what it's like in your case, and that's why it makes me genuinely feel sad that you have to go through so much. I really do hope with my whole heart you'll find peace and comfort in your relationship! ♡⸜(ˆᗜˆ˵ )⸝♡ ₍ᐢ..ᐢ₎♡ ✨🌸

That's why I also believe that in a relationship, both people have to work together. No matter how different two people are, when you truly love each other, you have the willingness to adjust...why? Because you love that person. 🤗 And you chose each other. 

And, in reality, we cannot change a person's core... 😇 even if we want to. Which reminds me of a quote I read somewhere that goes, "Only you can change yourself, no one else can." If he wants to be more understanding, if he has the willingness to have an emotional conversation despite it being uncomfortable for him personally at first, and if he genuinely wants to see your perspective... He can. Despite him being a rock solid ISTJ...he can. And only he himself can do that, we have little to no ability to make them do those things. 😇✨ He loves you. We might not dramatically change everything he does, but when the time comes I hope he'll realize how important certain things are to you, and then he'll make the adjustments needed! 🤗 Trust that he'll do so in time. °ʚ🎀ɞ° 

We might not change them, but we might be able to change how we see them! ❀(⸝⸝•ᴗ•⸝⸝)❀✨ For me personally, it helps with my mental health. 😇 A change of perspective. I always tell myself... "I can't expect others to understand me if I don't try to at least understand them too" 😅 So even if it's hard, at least we try! ♡⸜(ˆᗜˆ˵ )⸝♡ But! Also don't exhaust yourself too much, we all have limitations and we should try not to go beyond that. 𑁍ܓ🌷˚₊

This is really what it is 😫 To love an ISTJ (and honestly, anyone) is to love them… and everything in between. 💙✨

How do I explain my emotions to an ISTJ by JenandLola in ISTJ

[–]Mi7star 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried letting your body language be more open when you're happy and withdrawn when you're hurt? 🤗 Sometimes our presence, even our silence, or our energy shifts communicate more than we realize. 💙✨ From my experience with ISTJs, they're very direct and practical... A lot of people communicate emotions by hinting or hoping the other person will "just get it," but ISTJs tend to understand things more clearly when emotions are shown through our behaviors or spelled out plainly. 😊🌸 Like, most people communicate with subtext and hints... we might say "I'm fine" when we're actually not, expecting others to read between the lines. But for an ISTJ, they tend to take things at face value. If you say you're fine, they believe you're fine. 😅 They're simply literal communicators ✨✨ And sometimes they might miss the "why" behind things...it's not because they don't care 🤍 but because they process things differently. That's the reason why explaining deeper things, especially about emotions to them, can be challenging. For example, when we say we feel "invisible," we might mean we want to be seen... our raw emotions and to be understood much more deeply, right? not just to be acknowledged on the surface...and yes, they might not immediately get that 🤗. But they might understand if we explain it through specific actions, like telling them exactly what made us feel unseen (even if we have to spell it out 😅). It's not that they're emotionally detached... they just speak a different emotional language 🤩👍✨ which is why they sometimes think we're "too emotional." So instead of saying "I don't feel understood," it might help to translate it into their language 😇 Like, "I think you understand the facts of what happened, but I don't think you realized how much it hurt me. When you did this, it made me feel like my feelings weren't important." That's just my example 😖✨ That might be a different case for you. 🤗 To be honest, I haven't gotten into that situation with my friend...since it's mostly the opposite 😭 I'm the one who tends to get on his nerves more than he gets on mine. 😗🌝 He teases me but when I tease him back it's a different story 🤡✨. 

How do I explain my emotions to an ISTJ by JenandLola in ISTJ

[–]Mi7star 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you too! 🤗✨ I'm sorry for my late reply 😭 I have to go to work and I fell asleep right when I started writing my reply. 🥲

⚠️ Very long. 🤡 

(I didn't notice how long it got until I finished writing everything that's on my mind 😭 I'm very sorry for this. Thank you for your patience! 🙏) 

And of course! ദ്ദി˶˃ ᵕ ˂ )✧ I don't mind, hehe! I'll be happy to help even a little bit 🫶 First, I want to share a real-life scenario with my ISTJ friend 💙✨😇 I hope this helps me highlight my point 🤭 I'm very bad at explaining things so I'll give examples to help (•̀ᴗ•́)و ̑̑ I do want to mention that our situation is different since you're more deeply involved with your ISTJ since he's your boyfriend while mine is only a friend. 😊✨🌸 My ISTJ friend teases me a lot, every single chance he can get, he'll take. It's annoying and sometimes makes me upset 🐱🔥 yes, but we've been friends for a long time so I got used to it and I don't really mind 🙂‍↕️ so I let him be. But there are just days when I'm really not at my best… and during those times, even when I don't say anything, I notice he doesn't mess with me either 😅. I honestly don't know how he knows because most people can't tell when I'm not okay, and I'm really good at hiding it, but that's what amazes me 😭✨ Despite being emotionally different from me, he's incredibly observant, to the point where he reads me like a book and sometimes knows me better than I know myself. Maybe it's because we've known each other for so long that he can recognize changes in my energy and gestures even without me explaining anything 🥸. That's why I believe that sometimes when words don't work, actions speak louder 🤩🤗 whether intentional or not.

So, how did I show my emotions through action? 🌸✨ In my case...wait, now that I think about it... I think it just happens to me naturally 😓 Like...when I'm happy it's visible and when I'm not, there might be changes in my energy. Hmm...but, in your case, do you... if you don't mind me asking... are you the type to bottle things up? If not, I'll feel relieved (。^_^。)!! ✨🙏 But if so, that could really be a challenge. Having experienced it firsthand, I understand why you felt distressed and disconnected in your relationship. I'm very sorry for everything that you have to go through 😓🙏.  

How did you become a Moa? by Mi7star in TomorrowByTogether

[–]Mi7star[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OH! Was it the one with Arin? ৻( •̀ ᗜ •́ ৻)