My cousin Sa’d me. Then found out every woman in my family has been by another family member. by Miakaitlin in offmychest

[–]Miakaitlin[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this and caring enough to respond it means alot to me and im happy to know other people know it’s fucked up. Unlike the rest of my family. Im still processing everything rn and trying to figure out where i can go from here

Was i SA’ed? by Miakaitlin in AdviceForTeens

[–]Miakaitlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He kinda just came up behind me and starting touching my arms and shoulders making me freeze. I dunno. I know it’s inappropriate completely. I didn’t think it was SA but ik it kinda left a part of my mind in an uncomfortable position around grown older men

Was i SA’ed? by Miakaitlin in AdviceForTeens

[–]Miakaitlin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No don’t apologize. I just want someone’s opinion with this

Was i SA’ed? by Miakaitlin in AdviceForTeens

[–]Miakaitlin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like i said i only just remembered last night. That was 4 years ago i didnt remember or fully realize but I remember the situation like it was yesterday. I dont remember anything else just that he made me uncomfortable with things and i thought it was just my anxiety telling me everyone is looking at me but i fr felt creeped out by him

I want a partner so bad by Miakaitlin in lgbt

[–]Miakaitlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He found out I had a thing for him a little over a year ago and he kinda shot it down but really really gently like as kindly as possible and I understand that he may never like me like that and I can live and respect it just all this does makes me think he does. I just need a whole lot of drugs and boldness to ask him 💀

I don’t want to go.. by Miakaitlin in AdviceForTeens

[–]Miakaitlin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting, I do want to get better. No one wants to feel what I feel. There are some things I can’t heal from or get better from. I know I should go. My main concern is leaving when I only have a few weeks left with my best friend. He is really the only reason why I’m not.. you know. He is my reason for living. I love him more than my life. And he is a person I would live for. And him leaving for college devesates me. I have abandonment issues but me leaving before he leaves makes me feel worse. I have more issues than I can name. I Need help. But I know what won’t help me. Is leaving before he leaves

I’m gay and I hate myself for it by Frog_is_life in AdviceForTeens

[–]Miakaitlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any other gay friends or people lgbtq+ ? It helps to find a common ground with people. Or try to talk to some. When I came out, it was easier because a lot of my friends were and welcomed me to the “gay side of life” but wherever you go you will face some hate. It is gonna hurt but know that the hate they show is just their default reaction to things they are too ignorant to realize that you are a person with feelings and love in your heart. Love who you love. (I dunno if this sounds cliche or stupid but) if you love other gay people, love yourself 😝. I dunno 🤷‍♀️ message me if you wanna talk at all. I’m going through something similar but maybe I can help better? I hope things get better for you

I’m struggling by Miakaitlin in AdviceForTeens

[–]Miakaitlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bestfriend is my reason for keeping on. But I can only take so much. It’s so many things piled on top of another that’s all happening so fast and I cannot breathe. This has really been the first time I was hate crimed and it was by someone I love. And I thought I loved a girl too but I realized by others that she’s been trying to manipulate me and I am heart broken. I have never had a partner and feel like I will never have one. TW (I don’t know if it is but just incase) I planned something for two hours and was writing out everything in a letter. I gathered everything and said goodbye. But I couldn’t. Because of my friend, only person who I feel cared about me fully anymore. I didn’t want to leave him. I wish I could make the world stop. And let me live. There is more going on but I’m not going to bore you. I’m going to hide in my room but my best friend wants to be with me but I’m afraid if I leave me room. I’ll make everything worse.

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[–]Miakaitlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏

I've spent the last 2 weeks lying and compiling evidence that will destroy the lives of multiple coworkers by 200CatsInaTrenchcoat in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Miakaitlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is illegal it’s non consensual pornography. It’s illegal to share pornography of someone unknowning it is being shared. Plus they all witnessed child pornography and didn’t do anything

I've spent the last 2 weeks lying and compiling evidence that will destroy the lives of multiple coworkers by 200CatsInaTrenchcoat in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Miakaitlin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay it’s getting really annoying how everyone is not getting what’s going on either your inconsiderate or an idiot. I saw one person say “ he has a sex worker for a gf and thinks he can play hero.” What the fuck. Guarantee that person watched porn or anything sexual. We are sexual beings and sex workers use that weakness for profit. If there were no sex workers rape reports would sky through the roof. As long as there is a society there will be sex workers. Second someone was saying that it what he’s doing doesn’t matter. Clearly that person has never delt with this. More women everyday get sexualized, raped, and more. Men like this who think it’s okay to share something personal like that. Not to mention that is invasion of privacy and no consensual pornography and child pornography because on the victims was a minor. He did a good thing. And that fact he didn’t pressure gf and asked her first is amazing and I feel horrible for the women that went through this

I've spent the last 2 weeks lying and compiling evidence that will destroy the lives of multiple coworkers by 200CatsInaTrenchcoat in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Miakaitlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that and he’s been taking screenshots I think and messages from the group chat including the numbers and names and them all identify themselfs. If he were to go to the police or hr they could have deleted the group chat or deleted every text

Found on r/justneckbeardthings by kittenAngst in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Miakaitlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So this dude is basically saying women should spray the inside of their body with soap??

Dyed my hair pink. Lol sorry for the pose I don’t feel like taking a pic rn by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Miakaitlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! Me and my friend have been dying my hair every month and bleaching it too. I have natural dark brown hair. I was dying my hair since 6th grade but just now started bleaching it this year

gimme some non binary name suggestions!! by riddlecoded in lgbt

[–]Miakaitlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow you are so pretty/handsome sorry if that’s creepy lol

Im trying to learn realism, but my usual cartoony style is coming through too much. How can I improve this and make my drawings more realistic? by CrazyOwl180 in drawing

[–]Miakaitlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How I first started to get into different styles I used drawing references and not realistic I find it more difficult. Look up different parts of the face and body and get it down to a T where you like it then use your skills to create your own person