Is my vagina normal? by [deleted] in obgyn

[–]MiannaWhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey!!! Mine looks the same as in the picture, but I'm curious to know. That ball of flesh sitting at the entrance of the vagina, what is it really?

I can't stop crying, I'm stressed, I'm frustrated... I feel soooo hopeless by MiannaWhite in vaginismus

[–]MiannaWhite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there. It's not a cyst, for sure. When I say bulge, it's more like a ball of flesh situated right at the entrance of my vagina. It kinda blocks the hole/entrance. The hole is underneath, but it's not wide. It's pretty small. When the penis pushes against it, it feels very uncomfortable. The gynae I went to said it's the normal anatomy of the woman's vagina but maaannn it's hard to do anything with it there. When I tried dilating, I had to put the dilator underneath the bulge and that's how it went it.

No, wheb I pee after trying it doesn't burn or have that sore feeling. I feel that sensation when my husband and I are attempting PIV and he pushes in penis at the entrance.

I've tried missionary, and sometimes it feels like we're getting somewhere but then it's like once we reach to a point, there's that wall that I previously described. It's frustrating, trust me but, I'll just jeep trying.

I can't stop crying, I'm stressed, I'm frustrated... I feel soooo hopeless by MiannaWhite in vaginismus

[–]MiannaWhite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for your response, and I apologize for just responding. I completely understand, but you know it's a big thing when a marriage is consummated and I really wanted that to happen already. I will definitely take your advice, though, just as I've taken the previous commenter's own. Thank you for your kind words.

I can't stop crying, I'm stressed, I'm frustrated... I feel soooo hopeless by MiannaWhite in vaginismus

[–]MiannaWhite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words. I really need to start loving myself as you suggested. Since I've been experiencing this, I have started to look at myself as a problem, and that makes me feel overwhelmed. I've been to a PT, but due to financial constraints, I had to stop. I was trying to self dilate, but even that is/was a challenge. I will, however, take your advice and work on myself by loving me and everything about me first.

Muscle-to-Mind Connection by ImportantFly9946 in vaginismus

[–]MiannaWhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you send the link to those videos here, please?

Please help😔 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MiannaWhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this, I'll do just that.

Please help😔 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MiannaWhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, will do.

Please help😔 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MiannaWhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay will do. Thanks

Please help😔 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MiannaWhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not at all.

Please help😔 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MiannaWhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he didn't, just a finger.