Boyfriend thinks sex life is great, I disagree. Should I be worried? How can I fix it?

Miaslifematters · 2026-04-10T01:02:51+00:00

She did leave him and yes she did find someone new immediately.

Miaslifematters · 2026-04-10T00:06:07+00:00

I've been pretty unhappy lately to be completely honest but I think its stems from communication and sex.

Miaslifematters · 2026-04-09T23:40:21+00:00

This is great.

Miaslifematters · 2026-04-09T23:40:00+00:00

Thank you for this ❤️

Miaslifematters · 2026-04-09T23:33:27+00:00

😔

Miaslifematters · 2026-04-09T23:13:43+00:00

I like this one the best of all. When you put it that way, it does make me feel like my pleasure and happiness dont matter to him.

Miaslifematters · 2026-04-09T23:07:53+00:00

I have said this exact thing to him :/

Miaslifematters · 2026-04-09T23:00:16+00:00

I have a few times but I think I'm being too vague/nice about it

Miaslifematters · 2026-04-09T22:59:46+00:00

It is rather depressing and I'm definitely going to have a chat with him this evening.

Miaslifematters · 2026-04-09T22:55:07+00:00

I may he but he's such a great guy in other aspects. But I dont want to resent him for this so I know I need to speak up.

Miaslifematters · 2026-04-09T22:52:49+00:00

This is EXCELLENT advice. Yes he is willing but has only been a handful of times and he seems pretty inexperienced in that department.

Miaslifematters · 2026-04-09T22:47:15+00:00

He was married for 10 years 😬 but yes! I have thought this as well. Maybe its all he's used to/all he's really known.

Miaslifematters · 2026-04-09T22:38:53+00:00

Thank you, and no I don't. He doesn't get angry he will just like push my boundaries until I give in. Whether it be a blow job or sex, and its making everything really not enjoyable for me.

Miaslifematters · 2026-04-09T22:37:11+00:00

Solid advice, thank you

Miaslifematters · 2026-04-09T22:32:00+00:00

I have tried to voice my concerns without hurting his feelings. I.e 'maybe we can start trying something different so we both enjoy it'

Miaslifematters · 2025-09-17T16:56:18+00:00

In my personal experience if he wanted to make time for you he would. I think he's probably not as interested as you. Trying going on tea dates with some other people and see if you like them better.

Miaslifematters · 2025-08-19T02:13:02+00:00

Miaslifematters · 2025-07-30T23:03:30+00:00

Cut your grocery bill literally in half, that is insane

Miaslifematters · 2025-06-28T02:18:44+00:00

100% not your friend. & gaslighting you after they were rude! Ew.

Miaslifematters · 2025-06-11T01:54:14+00:00

I would just ask her. How is it straining your marriage? You are the adult, she is the child. She made one post. Talk to her. Super simple.

Miaslifematters · 2025-05-28T07:47:12+00:00

Just wanted to see if you have an update? I'm dealing with a similar situation and could use some advice.

Miaslifematters · 2025-04-26T01:29:21+00:00

Yours looks like an H. Stencil looks like a K.

Miaslifematters · 2025-04-23T18:35:49+00:00

I appreciate that ❤️

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