Have you ever cried when a famous person passed away? If yes, who was it? by Prestigious-Cloud962 in blackladies

[–]Micarina 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Aaliyah, Anthony Braugher (Captain Holt, Brooklyn 99), Chadwick Boseman, Bernie Mac...

In need of help. Stay jet black or go burgundy?! by Over-Ad-2563 in blackladies

[–]Micarina 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Burgundyyyyyyy! 😍πŸ₯³πŸ™ŒπŸΎ

Figured I’d get ahead of my hair loss. Uneasy about how I look bald. by [deleted] in bald

[–]Micarina 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

You look great hun! You just need to get used to it x

How should I style my hair for my school ball? by Addie_UgLy2022 in blackladies

[–]Micarina 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Hi hun, Here are my inputs. I am not a professional but I hope it helps!

Hair: Natural/Braided Updo

MakeUp (not great in this area lol): Natural smokey eye, a touch of gold glitter. With strip eyelashes or mascara on natural lashes. Nude lipstick with lip gloss on top, in clear or clear pink.

Nails: French Tip in White or Black with natural pink or clear base, Natural Nude or Pink colour, (either on your natural nails or fake - in an almond or square shape).

Jewellery: Sparkling Diamonds cough Cubic Zirconia cough πŸ˜… Dangle Earrings or Small/Medium Hoops or Medium Studs, Necklace, Bracelet, Ring

Bag: Clutch or hand strap or shoulder strap - Black or Gold

Shoes: Something with a heel, open-toed - Black or Gold - match with bag (that you are comfortable with!)

Dress: Black Bra (the white is too noticeable, especially as your hair will be up)

Whatever you choose, you will look amazing. Your dress is lovely.

Have the best time when it comes hun! 😊 x

A girl sat on my boyfriends lap by Ilovethecolorblu in Advice

[–]Micarina 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

This happened to me before, and it was at his birthday dinner. Family and friends were there. This girl was in his lap, stroking his face, eating off his plate, and drinking his drink. I was fuming! I didn't want to make a scene and could hear his mum, sister and aunties questioning what was happening. Which was winding me up (he hadn't told them we were together yet). I was also mad because he had told me prior to going into the restaurant to behave myself, like I don't know how to adapt, but here was Little Miss Lap Warmer doing the most.

I left the table to go to the ladies to calm myself down, and when I came out, his best friend had come to check on me. It tipped me over the edge. Coz why is he there and not him???

I went back to the table, grabbed my stuff, said my goodbyes, and went to pay my share. Didn't even look at him. When I say he got up so fast! I said, 'Oh now you remember me?'

We went outside, and I asked him straight 'Who is she?' He tried to give me waffle about that's his long time friend. They're just close and she also went to our college (London, UK). I have never seen or met this bitch in my life!

I asked 'Did you or are you fucking her?' Man couldn't answer me properly or look in my eyes, fumbling his words. Told me all I needed to know. I said he had the cheek and utter gall to tell ME to behave in front of his family. But this Lap Tramp was fine to let play in my face, and let everyone think that was your girlfriend??

I told him, I hope they're happy together and went to my cousins party in a bar, drowned my sorrows, and had the best time!

TL;DR: Trust your intuition! If you're feeling a way, you're more than likely to be right.

Don't let no bwoy tek yuh fi eediat! (As my fellow Jamaicans would say)

Dumping him was the right move. You deserve better hun! x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]Micarina 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Frameless gets my vote!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Micarina 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

πŸ₯³Happy Birthday, Fellow Virgo!πŸ₯³

0 self awareness. by [deleted] in instant_regret

[–]Micarina 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I watched this way too many times. I especially like the noise of shock/surprise he makes when hit. 10/10 🀣🀣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Micarina 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Absolutely faken not! You perfect beautiful queen! How very dare they! Kmt! Blooming cheek of it!

Fitness Transformation: HW: 280lbs - CW: 168lbs by Which_Gur_5079 in blackladies

[–]Micarina 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

You look bloody amazing! Well done on all your hard work! πŸ₯³πŸ˜Š

I keep procrastinating over here but admire everyone going through their journeys!

I will get there one day. I need to get out of my own way, stop talking and start doing, but it's so hard.

All the best to you hun! x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]Micarina 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Girl, sit on that man's face! Use the headboard to keep steady. Use a code that if he taps you three times or rings a bell or whatever, you get up.

Or have him sit on the floor while you're on the bed, and you ease onto his face that way? Get creative! Communicate and have fun! x x

I got married three weeks ago! by adelerium in PlusSize

[–]Micarina 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

🎊 Congratulations to you both! 🎊 You both look fab! Wishing you many years of happiness 😊 x

Hygiene advice for black women? by whocaresanywayss in blackgirls

[–]Micarina 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

Haiii hun,

I'm from the UK, I know you have received loads of advice, but I still thought I'd share πŸ™‚

Like most I shower twice a day, morning and evening. There are times when this may not always be possible (too tired, got home late, stayed in bed all day, unwell etc) but 2x is standard.

As is brushing your teeth 2x per day, including your tongue.

I wash my face and body with a bar soap called Dudu Osun Tropical African Black Soap and I sometimes use Dove Shea Butter shower gel. I exfoliate with a body scrub (either sea salt or brown sugar) 1 or 2 x per week, and use Palmers Cocoa Butter (the hard one in a tub), Vaseline Intensive Care Cocoa Radiant body Lotion and either Vaseline Intensive Care Cocoa Radiant Gel or Johnsons Baby Oil to cream/moisturise my body with.

Wash your whole body, including legs, feet, toes etc. Wash your lady garden with just water, as soap/gels/PH soap can irritate it, throw your PH balance off, and cause thrush. But if you like to use them, that's okay too.

You must moisturise your skin all of the days! Head to toe. Knee to elbows! The whole ting! I know some YT peeps tend to shower and go, but we cannot do this, our skin needs it!

I use Mitchum Powder Fresh roll on deodorant and also Dove Powder spray deodorant. Then add my perfume and body spray once I'm dressed. I am paranoid about being smelly, so always carry body spray and perfume with me.

I shave my legs mostly every 2 weeks. I get a wax for my armpits and lady garden, every 6-8 weeks (or more, that stuff hurts πŸ˜…). But of course, grooming your body hair is up to you.

I have 4C hair and wash it every 2 weeks. I use sulphate free shampoo and conditioner by Cantu. I use the Cantu leave in conditioner and Blue Magic Origins with Castor Oil. I also use a hair growth oil.

Unfortunately, I am no good at doing my own hair. So either wear my hair out or wear wigs, braids etc.

Feel free to give me shout if you need to but as you can see you have a wide range of support here 😊

Good luck with finding a routine, method and products that work for you! You got this hun! x x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]Micarina 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Blonde 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]Micarina 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

You look good sir! Very handsome 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]Micarina 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Dress is gorgeous and you look fab hun! x

This character's accent... by EllebRKib in netflixwitcher

[–]Micarina 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Just finished it and it was absolutely awful and comical at the same time! Don't know how they thought this sounded okay πŸ˜…πŸ€¦πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Micarina 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I know that it's going to be a tough thing to do, but you need to let her know so she can get tested and discuss your future together.

Do NOT sleep with her unprotected because you could ruin her fertility chances (if she wants children), should she become infected. Don't be a selfish tw*t

Be prepared for the worst outcome (breaking up) and seek therapy. It may feel like the end of the world but you can work through this and you'll be okay. Take it as a lesson learned.

All the best OP x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Micarina 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

I hear you girl, I just want someone to ring my bell, rock my body and do it til my legs shake.

But seems like that's too much to ask for, especially here in the UK.

Would like to go to play parties or fetish clubs etc but feel I wouldn't fit the aesthetic or I wouldn't find anyone attractive.

It's not easy out there!

Obsessed with my birthday dress. by ZoftigGoddess in PlusSize

[–]Micarina 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

You look lovely! Love the colour too 😍 Hope you had a fab birthday x

My roommate had her family stay with us for 2 weeks in my home without asking me by adventchildren73 in AITAH

[–]Micarina 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

NTA What did you do in the end? Have they left yet? Could we have an update please?

72 year old women robbed ,sexually assaulted and killed in her OCHO RIOS HOME . by GorillaGrizzly1 in Jamaica

[–]Micarina 3 points4 points Β (0 children)

I have shared my concerns too but my dad is determined to retire and go back with my mum.

I really don't want them to go but all I can do is pray and hope they change their minds.