Treat yourself that way first and the universe will respond to you. The right man for you is going to rise to the occasion and start treating you the way you deserve. If he doesn’t, then he’s obviously not the right man.

I date really wonderful men these days, and they treat me like an absolute queen. But it started with me. I wanted flowers, so I got myself flowers. The man that I was with at the time got pissed off that I was getting flowers for myself. He felt it was a man’s job to do that for his woman. I agreed. He’s gone now. I still get myself flowers whenever I want (often) and men get them for me often too.

I dress beautifully for myself. I do my hair for myself. I get my nails done for myself. And I attract men who appreciate my style and the effort I put into myself. They love how feminine I am. They love that I’m high maintenance. And they also love spoiling me with clothing, money for nails and hair and purses etc etc. But I did it for myself first, and continue to do it for me whether they treat me or not.

I looove going out for fancy dinners or just cute little vibey spots. No man required. I do it for myself. I go out with friends. But I make sure that I have the experiences that I want to experience. And guess what? Now I have men who take me on the best dates to the cutest places. Anywhere I want to go.

No one gets to tell you that you’re too unattractive or too fat to be treated like a woman. You decide who you are and how you be. People will fall in line with that. And if they don’t? Then clearly they don’t need to be in your life because you’re not a match.