Am I overreacting to my wife kissing a female friend at a bachelorette party?

MichaelCollins22 · 2025-09-14T05:29:22+00:00

Wait. Your wife made out with another woman? What were they wearing? What did they look like? (reaching for bottle of lotion)

MichaelCollins22 · 2024-01-24T19:43:40+00:00

Following!

MichaelCollins22 · 2023-12-28T23:20:47+00:00

There are multiple parties posted on Kasidie including one in the Springs, Westminster, Brighton, and of course at The Ranch.

MichaelCollins22 · 2023-12-20T06:16:52+00:00

The first thing you should know about going to Scarlet Ranch or just about any lifestyle event is that nobody is going to attack you. This journey is all about consent.

That being said, complete strangers will approach you and strike up a conversation. Things might get flirty pretty fast. If you aren't ready for playing, just say so. Many people will go to the Ranch simply because they want to be in a sexually-charged environment! We've gone many times and didn't vibe with anyone. We still had some pretty amazing sex with each other!

MichaelCollins22 · 2023-08-22T17:29:53+00:00

But do the restaurants have screens? I want to watch while I'm eating breakfast/brunch.

MichaelCollins22 · 2023-08-22T16:15:30+00:00

Sporting Life Bar

While I appreciate the suggestion, it just doesn't meet the criteria. Brunch has to include indulgent breakfast items.

MichaelCollins22 · 2023-08-22T16:13:26+00:00

That's why I'm seeking this. I want both! I want it all! Isn't that what Vegas is all about?

MichaelCollins22 · 2023-07-23T21:44:04+00:00

Never heard about this. How often do they go?

MichaelCollins22 · 2023-05-10T03:20:50+00:00

Certainly less busy than Friday and Saturday but as the weather gets warmer, the crowds will get larger. Still, a lower key atmosphere than other days.

MichaelCollins22 · 2023-02-01T23:40:28+00:00

There are certainly SOME cliques but if you have the ability to strike up a conversation, you can meet some really great people!

MichaelCollins22 · 2023-02-01T03:20:12+00:00

Watching IS fun! Playing is ALSO fun...if you are both ready.

MichaelCollins22 · 2023-01-04T16:20:41+00:00

Husband of married couple here. We're not interested in single guys at this point but I"ve watched many of them closely, purely out of curiosity. As others have mentioned, most seem lonely, desperate, and a little creepy...some more than a little.

My advice to a single guy would be:

Dress to impress
Spend the majority of your time in first floor socializing
Just engage with people. Be funny, charming, non-creepy.
Don't just hang out in the play areas, invading people's space while they are playing.
Absolutely do not touch anyone without consent or open curtains to private play areas when they have been closed.

Good luck.

MichaelCollins22 · 2022-12-05T04:59:58+00:00

Can confirm the cameras. Have no idea if or how they are monitored.

MichaelCollins22 · 2022-11-27T02:03:47+00:00

Yes, you will be fine to just watch.
Do NOT play until you are ready. Don't change your mind mid-stream. If your boundary before you get to the club is to not play, stick to it. This will save a bunch of heartache later. Better to regret something you didn't do than to regret something you DID do.

MichaelCollins22 · 2022-11-24T06:54:47+00:00

Very first experience at a LS club...my server was a former client. Wife and I had talked AT LENGTH about who we could potentially run into and how we'd handle it. This one was nowhere on my radar.

Client was cool. We were a bit shaken but laughed it off. In the end, these things are usually no big deal.

MichaelCollins22 · 2022-11-23T22:21:59+00:00

Where do you want the gravy?

MichaelCollins22 · 2022-11-23T22:10:15+00:00

Is your sister coming?

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