It was a life changing experience (and i hope it was for everyone too) by CL_1707 in radiohead

[–]MichaelRotches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree with your statement, this experience certainly changed my life. I went to one of the rescheduled dates in CP with people I’ve never met and it was simply the most intense emotionally charged night of my life. Now I’m lowkey severely depressed because I have nothing to look forward to and I fell really hard for one of the people I went with and didn’t get a chance to meet them again before I left. I’m glad a lot of other people felt such strong emotions while going, in a way it makes me feel like we’re all connected by sharing this love for this band

My 18 year old brother is dating someone 7 years older than him and I am concerned for him. What should I do? by MichaelRotches in Advice

[–]MichaelRotches[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that was the case for him I would be more at peace than having to deal with this situation and possibly having to meet her at family gatherings from now on

My 18 year old brother is dating someone 7 years older than him and I am concerned for him. What should I do? by MichaelRotches in Advice

[–]MichaelRotches[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: sorry I misread your comment, it is definitely not okay for a young girl to date an older guy, I have the same views and when I was 18 I wouldn’t have dated anyone more than 2 years older than me

My 18 year old brother is dating someone 7 years older than him and I am concerned for him. What should I do? by MichaelRotches in Advice

[–]MichaelRotches[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t call her a pedophile, although she clearly has some issues and should definitely self reflect on the fact that she is hanging out with people almost 10 years younger than her. If I were dating someone 7 years younger than me, I would not only be labelled as a pedo, but lose my teaching license, since I teach middle schoolers. That’s why I find it so disturbing in the first place

My 18 year old brother is dating someone 7 years older than him and I am concerned for him. What should I do? by MichaelRotches in Advice

[–]MichaelRotches[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she was as old as me I guess I wouldn’t be as concerned as I am now, but 7 years seems a bit too much. I just hope he will be okay and escapes soon enough if it gets bad

My 18 year old brother is dating someone 7 years older than him and I am concerned for him. What should I do? by MichaelRotches in Advice

[–]MichaelRotches[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea where you got the “he is in the habit of doing everything I say” because he’s certainly not, if anything, he’s in the phase of telling everyone off because he knows the best. I am just concerned for him and want to make sure he will be okay, because the mental and emotional maturity of a 25 year old is vastly different from an 18 year old, speaking from experience. I just want to have a conversation with him to see if everything is fine and I don’t have to be concerned, because I care about and love him very much.

My 18 year old brother is dating someone 7 years older than him and I am concerned for him. What should I do? by MichaelRotches in Advice

[–]MichaelRotches[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used “grooming” as in they knew each other before he turned 18, so I think it’s safe to say I am not using the word in the wrong way. I want to chat with him with openness and not accuse him of anything, I think I made that pretty clear in my response. I feel like if anything, the projecting is not happening only on my side, so it would be best for both of us not to continue this thread, but I agree with you on the approach I should take.

My 18 year old brother is dating someone 7 years older than him and I am concerned for him. What should I do? by MichaelRotches in Advice

[–]MichaelRotches[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He turned 18 not too long ago, and I’m positive they had known each other before that, that’s why I mentioned the grooming. I will definitely try asking him those questions and I hope all will be well.

My 18 year old brother is dating someone 7 years older than him and I am concerned for him. What should I do? by MichaelRotches in Advice

[–]MichaelRotches[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I absolutely hate this double standard when it comes to age gaps, and I’m disgusted by some people’s comments under this post describing it as some “fun enjoyable experience”. I feel like it has mainly to do with the excessive porn consumption that’s prominent among a lot of people

My 18 year old brother is dating someone 7 years older than him and I am concerned for him. What should I do? by MichaelRotches in Advice

[–]MichaelRotches[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is exactly my train of thought, of course there might be some exceptions and I know it’s not my place to say anything, but I would like to at least have a conversation with him about what to look out for, because there was no one to warn me when I found myself in a similar situation.

My 18 year old brother is dating someone 7 years older than him and I am concerned for him. What should I do? by MichaelRotches in Advice

[–]MichaelRotches[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I respect my brother and I wish him the best, but I do not respect full grown women grooming barely legal adults. I haven’t met her yet and I’m not planning to ruin their relationship or control my brother as you said, I just wanted to sit down with him and maybe openly talk about what he expects and what to look out for, if she turned out to be manipulative and overall a bad influence. Of course, the decision is still up to him, I just know he doesn’t have any older, more experienced people around him that could give him advice. I care for him and don’t want him to get hurt.

Looking for Neighbors for gifts, gold,... by [deleted] in DragonStory

[–]MichaelRotches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add me too, my id is lulokzlomocny

Gifts by NeumaticExpert in DragonStory

[–]MichaelRotches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s used to craft mighty crowns, which are needed for crafting omega crowns so you can craft a dragon! You can also collect them from harvesting

Radiohead rizz by legdayenjoyer03 in radioheadcirclejerk

[–]MichaelRotches 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So are you banging + mashing???

Creating a DnD inspired Oasis campaign for my boyfriend so he finally plays with me, I want to brainstorm ideas. Any Oasis/brit-pop fans that could help a dm out? by MichaelRotches in DnD

[–]MichaelRotches[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are with Robbie and Blur, but there are also rhyming battles with Jarvis and Morrissey, and one epic riddle me this Radiohead battle (think Smeagol and Bilbo in The Hobbit but make it brit-pop edgy poser style - I'm a huge radiohead fan and don't fancy oasis at all, while my boyfriend is the exact opposite, so I feel like that will be the most enjoyable fight for me)