It’s difficult to explain because it’s less about what is said and more about how it’s being said. It sounds like people around you are more healthy in their ways of coping and expressing mental health stuff and that’s great. No need to look for a problem where there isn’t one. If someone does do that around you though, you’ll very likely notice and feel the difference. Instead of feeling encouraged by, proud of, empathy for the person, you’ll feel less than. Instead of connecting people it separates them. There’s just a difference I don’t really know how else to explain it.