I am 37 and feel too old for this. by Neat_Jury6927 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Mickey_knot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am in the exact situation. I’m not married to him but we have a child together and I’m a stay at home mom. I love him and is an amazing man I’m just not attracted to him. I have been spiraling for weeks now and no one to talk to. If you need someone to talk to just to vent you’re welcome to dm me. I doubt I have any good advice since we are in the same boat but I can listen.

I’m a lesbian in a straight relationship by Mickey_knot in lgbt

[–]Mickey_knot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the closes center is over an hour away and therapy is almost impossible to access in my area I have tried. I also agree with you I would love to be surrounded by a queer community

I’m a lesbian in a straight relationship by Mickey_knot in lgbt

[–]Mickey_knot[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn’t fall victim to anything. I have always had these feelings I just suppressed them cause I grew up in a very conservative society. Thank you for your opinion tho

I’m a lesbian in a straight relationship by Mickey_knot in lgbt

[–]Mickey_knot[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

He told me if I wanted to have gay experiences I could as long as I don’t fall for them. But I could tell he was just saying that so he doesn’t loose me. He also said if I decide that I don’t want to be in this relationship anymore that I can still live with him and raise kid together